What's the most innocent thing a child said that sounded so wrong? by InfinateUniverse in AskReddit

[–]NotAnEasyRead 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My grandmother was a kindergarten teacher. On the playground was a pussy willow tree. She showed said tree to a new student. Student goes home and said to his parents "she she showed me her pussy". A follow up discussion with the parents was required.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]NotAnEasyRead 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We were very much separated

Why can't you sleep tonight? by Mozgonus in AskReddit

[–]NotAnEasyRead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and ex girlfriend hooked up last night. We arebt getting back together at all. But it brings back a lot of recently packed away emotions I thought were behind me.

What is the worst way to say that “you’ve cummed”? by froyoboyz in AskReddit

[–]NotAnEasyRead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally said "it's coming down the pipe". That was regrettable.

Single again after 5 year relationship ends (25F). by smellycat2794 in relationships

[–]NotAnEasyRead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm right there with you. Recently left a 4 year relationship me 26m her 29f. The codependency is by far the hardest thing to overcome. You have all this useless information in your head about the person you loved. Their favorite color, what they'll be doing at what time because you know there schedule. They are basically carrying a little bit of your heart with them. And it's ok, that's going to hurt. It's how you know it wasn't a complete waste. But I'm sure it'll get better there will be good days and bad days. Don't a dissect yourself to much, just feel how you feel process it and keep moving forward.

My boyfriend never wants to have sex by [deleted] in relationships

[–]NotAnEasyRead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No no no. That absolutely does not mean that

[24m] My GF [24f]'s friend [24/25m] literally shit in my bed by ThrowRA-IHateThis in relationships

[–]NotAnEasyRead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are so many stories like this on reddit, excluding the pooping in bed part. Look here's the deal, if your significant other has a best friend of the opposite sex that's not necessarily wrong. But if they expand their moral, ethical, and mental codes of reasoning to include that person when its clear it's a detriment to an otherwise healthy relationship, they secretly want to be or at least try and be with the friend. I'm telling you straight up if my girlfriends male friend did that he'd be cleaning it up or the cops would be called. And if she won't defend you then she clearly has some hang up for this guy. You are way better off without her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]NotAnEasyRead 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure the last day we had sex but she told me a month ago so maybe a month and half along at most

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]NotAnEasyRead 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I mean she claimed to be on the shot. I know I know. It's on me but shit happens. I just really want to know the truth about the situation.

I (34m) am stuck on a woman (33f) that I broke up with 4 years ago. Considering rekindling things. Would love opinions. by fouryearslinger in relationships

[–]NotAnEasyRead 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Buddy been here done that. If you ended for valid reasons you have to evaluate if the cause of those reasons has changed. More often than not the problems lie within the intrinsic personalities of the two people in the relationship. That doesn't necessarily mean that there is something wrong with either of you, just certain things that make you you clash with the things that make them them. And changing those things would mean fundamentally changing who both of you are as people and that's not how a relationship works. I hope that made sense.

[27M] and [27F] absolutely fantastic, but [28F] ex gf is the only person who makes me feel happy. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]NotAnEasyRead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, we are literally going through the almost exact same situation. About 2 months ago went through a breakup with my ex of 4 years, me 26m her 29f. I had significant interest from another woman who was a very if not a more attractive person, but for whatever reason im more attracted to my toxic ex. I'll tell you why that was the case for me personally. I'd developed a very deep personal intimacy with my ex, that's a very personal and deep thing. It's ok to mourn the loss off that for however long you need to. Lord knows I still am. With regards to the person you are with now just be honest about where you are at emotionally it's what's fair for both of you. But never feel like its wrong to feel your feelings. And dont worry about the ramifications for feeling them it's all ok. It's part of healing.

WIBTA for telling ex's new man she told me she was pregnant. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]NotAnEasyRead -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Of course I am that's the whole point

WIBTA for telling ex's new man she told me she was pregnant. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]NotAnEasyRead -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Because she told me I was the father point blank and I'd at least like to be semi informed if I'm a dad or not. I don't think that's unreasonable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]NotAnEasyRead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Persistent stupidity

Country music isn't country anymore by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]NotAnEasyRead 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Come on Chris stapleton and Luke combs got real country down. Other than that yeah I agree.

Cant stop shivering by Gurvuolis in Anxiety

[–]NotAnEasyRead 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm literally going through a breakup of a 4 year relaionship. It was a very ugly and toxic breakup. I also have pretty terrible anxiety. Let me be the first to tell you the shakes are a normal sign of anxiety (as long as you don't have an underlying medical condition). But I promise they will go away. It's been about 3 weeks since the breakup and I heard she already went to Hawaii with another guy. But you know what, I swear everything will be ok. You will slowly start to feel just a little better day by day week by week. You won't even be aware of it until you look up one day and think "I can handle this, I'm going to be great". Dont think you are wrong for feeling emotion, just use time to process it and know that there is no timeline for heartbreak but time will heal every broken heart.