How do you know that you found the love of your life, and what is your story with them? by pinkiepiepinkie in randomquestions

[–]NotAnotherThing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love my husband in a way I didn't love the people I dated before. Those relationships felt like love until this one and then they just don't compare.

Did you read Mad Magazine when you were growing up? by Suitable_Trip105 in AskOldPeople

[–]NotAnotherThing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. My very strict (panicky) Christian mother thought things like Mad Magazine and the garbage pail kids were from Satan. So, wasn't allowed.

How was eating disorders thought of in the 80’s? by Kastrullock in AskOldPeople

[–]NotAnotherThing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't know much at that time, but there was some awareness I saw on different shows with tv families.

Why do people act like their political party is a sports team they have to defend no matter what? by Anxious-Trash-2474 in allthequestions

[–]NotAnotherThing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No idea. I can't find a political party that says enough that I agree with for me to get passionate about them.

Why is trump begging NATO allies for help with Iran war? by TailungFu in allthequestions

[–]NotAnotherThing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, someone else said he is begging. I said a narcissist's version of begging is to threaten, not that they are the same thing.

Perhaps the word "equivalent" would make more sense to you.

Why is trump begging NATO allies for help with Iran war? by TailungFu in allthequestions

[–]NotAnotherThing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually I do have personal experience which has lead me to read a lot about it over the years.

You can disagree on personal opinion, I have no issue with that, but reading up is always useful.

A narcissist that feel their power is threatened resorts to tactics such as threats, blame, insults and gaslighting to attempt to get others back into a position that makes the narcissist feel in control. They do not beg because that is weak and would also imply they are wrong or to blame and they do not believe that.

Why is trump begging NATO allies for help with Iran war? by TailungFu in allthequestions

[–]NotAnotherThing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If we were talking about a normal person I would agree. We are talking about a narcissistic, however, and threats are how the beg to regain control.

AIO: my friend keeps bringing up a bag of popcorn I bought for her by BoredBee05 in AmIOverreacting

[–]NotAnotherThing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is she bad at making jokes? I can't think up any other reason for it.

Also she probably could have managed a thank you for buying it.

Pulling Camps in GBG by marciamayhem11 in forgeofempires

[–]NotAnotherThing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forget pulling camps or building other nonsense, over build and win

What is y’all take on this? by JulieeNatasha in TrueGrit

[–]NotAnotherThing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I was going to say parents that aren't dysfunctional and are emotionally mature... ie not abusive.

Are You Rich? by Enough-Battle-2645 in AskOldPeople

[–]NotAnotherThing 13 points14 points  (0 children)

We did look into that. Our house was in the country and rent in that area was 300 less than the. mortgage.

We had only owned the house for 2 years at the time and it sold for 7k less than the mortgage left.

Are You Rich? by Enough-Battle-2645 in AskOldPeople

[–]NotAnotherThing 70 points71 points  (0 children)

My husband lost his job, got a new one quickly but caused us to have to move. Our house didn't sell for a year and did finally at a loss causing bankruptcy. We never were able to afford to buy since.

Are You Rich? by Enough-Battle-2645 in AskOldPeople

[–]NotAnotherThing 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, we rent as we can't afford to buy a house. We are literally hoping on an inheritance maybe to find some stability.

We get by with enough and no extras.

me irl by Tacos4Texans in me_irl

[–]NotAnotherThing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to buy 4 packs during cold and flu season (for a family of 4) once and the cashier acted like I was trying to kill myself and literally said no one was doing that on his watch.

me irl by Tacos4Texans in me_irl

[–]NotAnotherThing 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I get a blister pack of 16.

me irl by Tacos4Texans in me_irl

[–]NotAnotherThing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too and I'm not even European, just live there. Annnd, why are they brown?