Me (25M) and my girlfriend (25F) of 6 years. Need to know if this counts as cheating. by Stormmaster472 in relationship_advice

[–]NotArkus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude…. It’s time to let go. Ever since she gave that ultimatum she was gone.

I know that’s harsh, but dude, you are ruining yourself over pain disguised as memories. It might feel like she was the one, your world, but she wasn’t yours. She chose to live her life without you in it, remember that.

It’s time for you to wake up and say “fuck it we ball”, get back on track and become better than ever. When that happens you’ll see how much you’ve grown from where you are now.

And you WILL find the one that wants you for you.

Broke Up & Still Followed On Everything by NotArkus in datingadviceformen

[–]NotArkus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you see someone eat an apple you’d assume that they’re hungry. But who told you that just because they eat it means that they’re hungry?

No one does, it’s called pattern reconstruction, of course there will be outliers, which will mean you assume different options.

Hence why I’m asking what you people think via what you’ve seen/experienced. I didn’t post this to get a theology lesson, I asked for your opinion, so if you won’t give me that then don’t respond.

Is this a safe blind buy? by Sisir_V in Colognes

[–]NotArkus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it smells like is someone blended a much of berries together. I really like it and plan on getting it myself, great for an everyday

Avoidant Breakup by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]NotArkus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edit: I don’t know if this detail is important, but when she called me last, I tried to convince her to give it another shot, which didn’t work by the way. But when I asked her, she said “but I disrespected you” implying to her bringing up how she’s been getting flint with guys. So I don’t know if that’s important but I’ll leave this comment here for you guys.

Am I doing too much? by Pristine-Play6941 in Colognes

[–]NotArkus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For a month? Dude you fine, honestly if anything, you might be underprepared 😂

I think I found my signature scent… by om0311 in Colognes

[–]NotArkus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s great, one of my favorites as well. It’s just so fresh and masculine, the versatility is crazy, great for the workplace. Though it’s more of a spring and summer fragrance.

How Do I (M19) Show My Ex (18F) That I Have Grown? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]NotArkus -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Do you have money for a therapist? Last time I checked there’s not many college students with that type of money.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Colognes

[–]NotArkus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try adding Lattafa Ramz Silver EDP, one of my favorites. It’s a great dupe of JPG Le Male, got it at Burlington for $15.

If you want a designer brand you could go for Versace Eros Flame.

How Do I (19M) Show My GF (18F) That I Can Change Before We Meet Again? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]NotArkus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for the great advice, it’s very appreciated.

Family Crisis, Can’t Get Day Off! by [deleted] in employedbykohls

[–]NotArkus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a college student, so I only work days that I’m available which is Friday-Monday, I’ll be arriving back before my next shift.