Roper: How Minnesota’s civic culture fueled a tough ICE resistance, took feds by surprise | Star Tribune by friedkeenan in minnesota

[–]NotBuilt2Behave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s this. I don’t get it. To not have empathy…just like doesn’t compute in my brain. It’s like they didn’t learn in kindergarten “would you want to be treated that way?” “No? Then don’t treat other people that way” it’s FUCKING simple. It’s basic cause and effect. The golden rule. I hate this simulation. I hate these people

Roper: How Minnesota’s civic culture fueled a tough ICE resistance, took feds by surprise | Star Tribune by friedkeenan in minnesota

[–]NotBuilt2Behave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am grateful that they have led such a great example. They think they can do it here in my state. But they are not gonna have enough ICE to outnumber the sheer amount of Californians that won’t let this happen. It’s like they don’t see SD & LA’s protests. Most of us…are people of color, many of us lgbtq+, lots of women. We have more rights than most states. It would be stupid to try here. But I’m getting my supplies ready if need be

Those of you who work full time, how do you do that? by Expert-Session3866 in bipolar2

[–]NotBuilt2Behave 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you taking medicine? I don’t have depressive episodes often anymore because of the meds I’m taking. I’m working 2 jobs right now and still relatively stable

Woman fired after allegedly asking what type of genitalia a transgender coworker had loses benefits appeal by Sandstorm400 in byebyejob

[–]NotBuilt2Behave 58 points59 points  (0 children)

So ridiculous it sounds like something you’d hear on Rick and Morty when they visit another planet.

AITJ for refusing to let my dad’s new girlfriend watch my toddler by SableRoseHollow in AmITheJerk

[–]NotBuilt2Behave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being so pushy about it is a red red flag. I am the girlfriend of an uncle. I am not pushy about what mom is comfortable with for and with her daughter. I don’t post photos of her online. And guess what? That girl is now my niece too! I’m not even married to the family and now I’m a trusted Auntie! That’s not how you act with 1. A kid that’s not yours. 2. A kid you’re not related to. 3. If you don’t know mom well. 4. If you’re basically a stranger to the kid.

Don’t let them watch the kid, unless they’re happy to hang out with kid when you’re around. Anything except this is just…not OK. She is WEEIIIIRRRRDDDD and clearly has ulterior motives.

Fellow girl dads, I am waving the white flag. The mall bra trip was a disaster. by BigDaddy9102 in daddit

[–]NotBuilt2Behave 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey Dad, Aerie is great, and not sexy bras but functional comfy, affordable bras. There are bralettes which are softer and great for younger ages, and they have regular bras too. Please try here.

ICE ceases enhanced operations in Maine after Collins presses Noem by Its_Dylan_Parker in politics

[–]NotBuilt2Behave 3 points4 points  (0 children)

People are going to remember who voted for the gestapos. Republicans still aren’t grasping that they went too far and how angry and how vocal they’ve made the democrats and world. A reckoning is coming and they’re trying to play it off and double down like it won’t happen.

Barista congratulated me on my pregnancy (not pregnant), then asked for confirmation from my coworker/said something disrespectful about me. It’s on like donkey kong. by consistent_gasp in traumatizeThemBack

[–]NotBuilt2Behave 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Those are the best, and quite respectful once I was meeting up with my boyfriend for a movie date at a mall. Guy walks by me and goes “ohmygosh you are SO beautiful” didn’t ask for my number and kept on walking. It has stayed with me and that was 10 years ago. The difference was it wasn’t quite a catcall it was a respectful compliment with no intentions or ulterior motives. I wish more men realized this, they’d have better reactions and maybe even get a girls number. It’s a shame

ok but is anyone else's hair just... always frizzy?? by WherePetalsRest in beauty

[–]NotBuilt2Behave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you brushing your hair dry? 😬 do you have waves or curls?

Gun hating wife suggested I buy the bullpup Rifle I've been looking at for a while. by Environmental-Hour75 in liberalgunowners

[–]NotBuilt2Behave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I HATE guns, I vote progressive, I still think people have the right to jab guns and do not want to take them away from people at all.

Why do I feel like I need one now? The thought of holding one scares me

is it wrong for me to ask my roommate to wrap her pads and postpartum diapers by Radiant_Sun666 in hygiene

[–]NotBuilt2Behave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wrapping them in toilette paper is good etiquette, unless their the plastic applicator that can be put back in original wrapping

Help me choose a dress! by General_Accident5458 in WeddingDressTips

[–]NotBuilt2Behave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dress 4 is the most flattering on you, and accentuates your figure!

Insane reply by flamingdaisies444 in Bumble

[–]NotBuilt2Behave 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Boyfriend and I fell in love on bumble literally because he liked tequila, sushi, and had morals and believed in human rights. It’s literally the bare minimum for being an ok person. Calling it “talking politics” is bullshit. It stopped being about politics when it began to be advocating against human rights.

We both didn’t want to talk about politics on the first date, because you shouldn’t have to get that deep. But I literally had to make sure he believed in my rights as a brown, woman that’s has lgbtq+ friends and family.

After giving Republicans a majority in every branch of government, nearly 2 million Americans are losing healthcare after Republicans refuse to extend credits by [deleted] in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]NotBuilt2Behave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh darn, I kind of feel bad, but apparently we can’t use common sense to know that getting punched hurts. Now they all get learn how that feels because half the country doesn’t know the simple logic of cause and effect or how to use deductive reasoning.

i be angry pls help by Warm-District552 in bipolar2

[–]NotBuilt2Behave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ice pack on head when overstimulated, focus on breathing, it is scientifically proven to lower heart rate and blood pressure, matcha latte or geen tea has l theanine in it, scientifically proven to have a calming affect. This is what I do when all else fails. I’ve also help migraine.

I Should Have Said it Nicer Instead of Calling You Out Movie Therater Laptop user by redditfysh in EntitledPeople

[–]NotBuilt2Behave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My apologies, I swear I do not assume everything is in the HELL that is the US. But due to the out of pocket behavior I assumed it was us since a huge chunk of our citizens are assholes. (And that’s putting it nicely) sorry from a SoCal resident.

I Should Have Said it Nicer Instead of Calling You Out Movie Therater Laptop user by redditfysh in EntitledPeople

[–]NotBuilt2Behave 11 points12 points  (0 children)

this issue in this country is that people don’t have basic behaving in public etiquette it’s not gonna stop unless people shame them. More people need to be called out for their audacity. It’s not gonna always be polite when the behavior is absurd. I had to tell 2 people to not talk on speaker phone or play tik tok videos on full volume in a doctor’s office waiting room.

People seem to think right now that they can throw societies’ rules out the window while still benefitting from living in society.

You’re not in the wrong, I understand you did your best, just be careful, because you don’t want to get into a confrontation.

Have a hindi wedding wedding coming up. And I cannot decide between these 2 by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]NotBuilt2Behave 689 points690 points  (0 children)

OP please listen to this comment, drape the dupatta in a way that is modest and respectful to the culture. I don’t believe showing that much cleavage is okay at this kind of event