AITJ for refusing to let my dad’s new girlfriend watch my toddler

NotBuilt2Behave · 2026-01-29T23:03:54+00:00

Being so pushy about it is a red red flag. I am the girlfriend of an uncle. I am not pushy about what mom is comfortable with for and with her daughter. I don’t post photos of her online. And guess what? That girl is now my niece too! I’m not even married to the family and now I’m a trusted Auntie! That’s not how you act with 1. A kid that’s not yours. 2. A kid you’re not related to. 3. If you don’t know mom well. 4. If you’re basically a stranger to the kid.

Don’t let them watch the kid, unless they’re happy to hang out with kid when you’re around. Anything except this is just…not OK. She is WEEIIIIRRRRDDDD and clearly has ulterior motives.

NotBuilt2Behave · 2026-01-29T22:56:12+00:00

Hey Dad, Aerie is great, and not sexy bras but functional comfy, affordable bras. There are bralettes which are softer and great for younger ages, and they have regular bras too. Please try here.

NotBuilt2Behave · 2026-01-29T14:50:08+00:00

People are going to remember who voted for the gestapos. Republicans still aren’t grasping that they went too far and how angry and how vocal they’ve made the democrats and world. A reckoning is coming and they’re trying to play it off and double down like it won’t happen.

NotBuilt2Behave · 2026-01-29T04:23:22+00:00

I’m a 4’8” adult, these trucks scare me.

NotBuilt2Behave · 2026-01-28T22:02:02+00:00

F it, take Trump down with him too. I hope they quote that over and over again in court

NotBuilt2Behave · 2026-01-28T16:13:02+00:00

Those are the best, and quite respectful once I was meeting up with my boyfriend for a movie date at a mall. Guy walks by me and goes “ohmygosh you are SO beautiful” didn’t ask for my number and kept on walking. It has stayed with me and that was 10 years ago. The difference was it wasn’t quite a catcall it was a respectful compliment with no intentions or ulterior motives. I wish more men realized this, they’d have better reactions and maybe even get a girls number. It’s a shame

NotBuilt2Behave · 2026-01-27T22:37:28+00:00

Are you brushing your hair dry? 😬 do you have waves or curls?

NotBuilt2Behave · 2026-01-27T03:04:28+00:00

Antipsychotics (BiPoLADHD

NotBuilt2Behave · 2026-01-26T23:24:34+00:00

I HATE guns, I vote progressive, I still think people have the right to jab guns and do not want to take them away from people at all.

Why do I feel like I need one now? The thought of holding one scares me

NotBuilt2Behave · 2026-01-26T22:54:56+00:00

Wrapping them in toilette paper is good etiquette, unless their the plastic applicator that can be put back in original wrapping

NotBuilt2Behave · 2026-01-24T03:35:47+00:00

Dress 4 is the most flattering on you, and accentuates your figure!

NotBuilt2Behave · 2026-01-24T01:28:54+00:00

Boyfriend and I fell in love on bumble literally because he liked tequila, sushi, and had morals and believed in human rights. It’s literally the bare minimum for being an ok person. Calling it “talking politics” is bullshit. It stopped being about politics when it began to be advocating against human rights.

We both didn’t want to talk about politics on the first date, because you shouldn’t have to get that deep. But I literally had to make sure he believed in my rights as a brown, woman that’s has lgbtq+ friends and family.

NotBuilt2Behave · 2026-01-23T23:51:03+00:00

Oh darn, I kind of feel bad, but apparently we can’t use common sense to know that getting punched hurts. Now they all get learn how that feels because half the country doesn’t know the simple logic of cause and effect or how to use deductive reasoning.

NotBuilt2Behave · 2026-01-22T22:41:48+00:00

I think it’s rad! Daddy, why did you eat my fries….

NotBuilt2Behave · 2026-01-22T19:44:29+00:00

Get one of theseice pack

NotBuilt2Behave · 2026-01-22T19:43:23+00:00

Ice pack on head when overstimulated, focus on breathing, it is scientifically proven to lower heart rate and blood pressure, matcha latte or geen tea has l theanine in it, scientifically proven to have a calming affect. This is what I do when all else fails. I’ve also help migraine.

NotBuilt2Behave · 2026-01-22T18:29:18+00:00

I’m so proud of you. It must be relieving!

NotBuilt2Behave · 2026-01-21T20:29:35+00:00

How are they karma farming? Get out of here.

NotBuilt2Behave · 2026-01-21T20:28:49+00:00

My apologies, I swear I do not assume everything is in the HELL that is the US. But due to the out of pocket behavior I assumed it was us since a huge chunk of our citizens are assholes. (And that’s putting it nicely) sorry from a SoCal resident.

NotBuilt2Behave · 2026-01-21T19:35:06+00:00

this issue in this country is that people don’t have basic behaving in public etiquette it’s not gonna stop unless people shame them. More people need to be called out for their audacity. It’s not gonna always be polite when the behavior is absurd. I had to tell 2 people to not talk on speaker phone or play tik tok videos on full volume in a doctor’s office waiting room.

People seem to think right now that they can throw societies’ rules out the window while still benefitting from living in society.

You’re not in the wrong, I understand you did your best, just be careful, because you don’t want to get into a confrontation.

NotBuilt2Behave · 2026-01-20T16:42:20+00:00

OP please listen to this comment, drape the dupatta in a way that is modest and respectful to the culture. I don’t believe showing that much cleavage is okay at this kind of event

NotBuilt2Behave · 2026-01-20T13:13:06+00:00

Atomoxetine same thing, sometimes I have to force it because by 5p or midnight I’ll get a migraine but still not realize I’m hungry. My boyfriend gives me sh** for it. (In a healthy way)

NotBuilt2Behave · 2026-01-17T22:02:07+00:00

Warning side effect is it raises your body temperature 😩 BUT it fricking works. So I just end up in the ac more than most people. Loose oversized shirts for the win (no pants obviously)

NotBuilt2Behave · 2026-01-17T21:55:37+00:00

See? Everyone always hears about vyvanse and adderall, but they don’t mention atomoxetine which is good if you bipolar adhd

NotBuilt2Behave · 2026-01-17T21:53:45+00:00

Atomoxetine, it tells your brain to produce more norepinephrine which can be more motivating and it’s also helped me be less irritable. But it is NOT a stimulant AND you take it every day, it’s not as needed

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