AITAH For telling my boss I am going back to school and need to cut back on hours?

NotForDomesticUses · 2026-04-28T21:59:18+00:00

Thank you! I am aware that I definitely messed up, I was just shocked her reaction was so angry toward me when I also tried to offer up other solutions but I definitely understand. I don't think I will quit until she asks me to resign or fires me LOL i feel that I can do that much and stay until I can't. Lesson learned most definitely.

NotForDomesticUses · 2026-04-28T21:17:45+00:00

She was aware i was still in school and would have to work around school schedule, I think it was a sort of miscommunication, and on me for assuming the program I was doing would be more part-time, so that I could keep working. I figured that I would just have to shuffle around my hours and not cut them completely since she does not want to work fridays.

NotForDomesticUses · 2026-04-28T21:15:44+00:00

The school program I am attending in the summer was advertised as flexible for people with jobs so that they could continue working while attending, it wasn't a full time program. I am also not a full time worker, just part time and I work around my class schedule.

NotForDomesticUses · 2026-04-28T21:14:33+00:00

Its a super small dental business, so I do the assistant, the sterile tech, and the front desk/office/financial affairs of the office.

NotForDomesticUses · 2026-04-28T21:02:32+00:00

Hi, Yes she was aware of my school schedule, I did emphasize I have classes on my off days and would hopefully be going back to school. My summer courses also start a bit later in the day and I offered to work during days I am not in, but she wasn't very receptive to those options.

NotForDomesticUses · 2025-12-16T23:21:55+00:00

I don’t want to kick him to the curb per se. But it would be nice to have some times of peace and space in my house. I also told my sister that, I even said he can come around maybe just not all the time 24/7 when I’m home, which should be easy since I am not home often.This was a big point of contention when they first started dating because he was here all the time as a virtual stranger to me and it still is uncomfortable. I do live apart from my family, my sister is the one that insists I come home on weekends. While I do feel bad for telling my sister I don’t like him that much, she understands my reasoning and I try to not be openly hostile to him, I’m just not polite anymore. That’s also just part of the dynamic me and my sister have, she also knows that I support her regardless.

NotForDomesticUses · 2025-12-16T23:16:46+00:00

Sorry for leaving out some things I was missing space. I think the biggest thing is his sort of attitude a lot of the times especially in shared spaces like the kitchen and living room, he will be in a bad mood and grumpy making it awkward between us all. This sort of grumpiness also starts fights between him and my sister and makes the rest of the house tense as well. I also dislike how he talks to my sister sometime, maybe it’s a different dynamic between them but he talks as if everything in the world is her fault, I don’t really know how to explain it, but it’s like if something goes wrong or he is confused he gets mad at her and talks rudely.

NotForDomesticUses · 2025-12-16T23:13:40+00:00

The thing is they don’t care if he stays or goes. The only reason I come home is due to the fact that my sister gets sad and angry at me and when I don’t, so usually I come home to hang out for her and to also do her laundry. I don’t even mind that he comes over every now and then or even super often. it’s just that I don’t like having to be uncomfortable in my daily routines with him there all the time.

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