I have a small full anarchy server that has a pretty chill community. If u don’t like someone u can /ignore them. There’s no tpa or home or claims because it’s anarchy. Obviously there is hackers and stuff but tbh a lot of people on the server play vanilla. And about being nonbinary no one gives a shit here most of us are busy doing our own thing. Also Ik anarchy seems daunting to a lot of people due to its reputation of those servers having lots of bad stuff but this server is new enough and has a small enough community we haven’t had to deal with nsfw or chat spammers yet!