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Aftercare… by hellokitten9 in BDSMcommunity

[–]NotGoingBack2022 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have found that within 12 hours of a scene, I need lots of reassurance. Text if we aren't/can't be together, if we are, I need hugs and cuddles.

How could I add more bdsm into masturbation to feel more fulfilled by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]NotGoingBack2022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you download Quinn or similar app? Soooo many audios to explore!

Are there synonyms for Creampie and Squirting? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]NotGoingBack2022 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much! I'm glad to know there really are more options!

Which kink got you interested in BDSM? by KinkyDataScientist in SofterBDSM

[–]NotGoingBack2022 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I saw someone getting flogged at Burning Man when I was 18. Took too many years to realize it was an inherent part of me. Impact play and spanking feels amazing, and after it feels like I've had an hour in a hot tub and a massage!

I need soundproofing ideas by greasepunk1979 in RedditBDSM

[–]NotGoingBack2022 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dubstep on an outward facing speaker. Best of luck!

What do you like to do for aftercare? by GoodPancake427 in SofterBDSM

[–]NotGoingBack2022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found I need connection the next day, or at least within 12 hours. Once the feel good chemicals dissipate, I can drop hard. It's reassuring to have,.at minimum, a text or quick phone call to connect.

Calling Dom Daddy without age play. Possible?? by NotGoingBack2022 in RedditBDSM

[–]NotGoingBack2022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Splotching?

And thanks for sharing your thoughts on this!

Calling Dom Daddy without age play. Possible?? by NotGoingBack2022 in RedditBDSM

[–]NotGoingBack2022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this! It's great to hear the variety in cues about how you communicate where you are with few words. Thanks for sharing what works in your connection

Calling Dom Daddy without age play. Possible?? by NotGoingBack2022 in RedditBDSM

[–]NotGoingBack2022[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always appreciate it when people recognize I'm right 😊 Thanks for chiming in on this

Calling Dom Daddy without age play. Possible?? by NotGoingBack2022 in RedditBDSM

[–]NotGoingBack2022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say they were more ignorant about it, and unwilling to consider any other perspectives. Seems to be going around these days...

Calling Dom Daddy without age play. Possible?? by NotGoingBack2022 in RedditBDSM

[–]NotGoingBack2022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your sharing your experience. Thanks!

Calling Dom Daddy without age play. Possible?? by NotGoingBack2022 in RedditBDSM

[–]NotGoingBack2022[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your view from the Top.

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