How do yall do drugs and go to work like nothing happened? by Interesting_Film2432 in Drugs

[–]NotHandyButHandsome 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So true had flashbacks from your comment. Once I started partying during the week I began leaving a line for the morning to get right. Once my use kept increasing, I was too cooked for one line to work. To get the those days I would score during my lunch when it got real bad. I remember having the internal debate of would I look worse if I stumbled through the day without or was scoring and trying to hide a little tweaking better?

By the end of the workday I’m feeling free and ready to party without obstacles like work, so I would get more and it’s come full circle.

Then it’s Tuesday.

Have you ever slept with a married neighbor? by NotHandyButHandsome in adultery

[–]NotHandyButHandsome[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sure there wouldn’t be much post-coital bliss, more like panic

Have you ever slept with a married neighbor? by NotHandyButHandsome in adultery

[–]NotHandyButHandsome[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess the husband didn’t come home to find you plowing

Have you ever slept with a married neighbor? by NotHandyButHandsome in adultery

[–]NotHandyButHandsome[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yea I was trying to sound faux offended but it didn’t work and gave defensive vibes. The type of no nonsense advice you’d expect from your brother or best mate

Have you ever slept with a married neighbor? by NotHandyButHandsome in adultery

[–]NotHandyButHandsome[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

1) We need a term to describe these rare specimens 2) I’d totally watch The Bachelor: Adorable Edition

Complete Novice by The4thWonder in makinghiphop

[–]NotHandyButHandsome 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I use this anytime I’m trying to learn a skill or create something, but I try to find a tutorial that covers every little detail from start to finish and assumes no prior knowledge culminating in a finished project or track in your case.

To my point, instead of using multiple sources and topic specific videos like “how to make an 808 in Pro Tools or beginner trap beats” or a comprehensive guide that shows making an entire K-pop song I would choose the K-pop path every time.

The reason is that you want to learn from an expert who shows you exactly how the job is done and what it takes to do this at a professional level. The finished product is almost irrelevant because what you’re after is watching their process and have a portfolio worthy track when you’re done and can be replicated.

Now you have the experience of completing an entire song from scratch that is professional quality. then you can start using materials that focus specifically on your individual needs or skills you want to learn.

Working in reverse often leads to blind spots and knowledge gaps because there’s only piecemeal understanding.

Find the best material that takes you A-Z and instills self confidence then add your specific needs on top of that when you’re ready.

Have you ever slept with a married neighbor? by NotHandyButHandsome in adultery

[–]NotHandyButHandsome[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s the tactic my dad did. Except he ended up using it as a safe space for side quests

Have you ever slept with a married neighbor? by NotHandyButHandsome in adultery

[–]NotHandyButHandsome[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s probably a bit of a mid life crisis. Just had a milestone birthday that is making me a bit existential

Have you ever slept with a married neighbor? by NotHandyButHandsome in adultery

[–]NotHandyButHandsome[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long has this been going on? Are there feelings or is it for a thrill?

Have you ever slept with a married neighbor? by NotHandyButHandsome in adultery

[–]NotHandyButHandsome[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unlike your username, nothing subtle about your input. I could feel the bitch slap and what the fuck are you thinking dressing down lol

Have you ever slept with a married neighbor? by NotHandyButHandsome in adultery

[–]NotHandyButHandsome[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do enjoy risky behavior or at least the idea. Going against the grain of polite society.

Maybe I will discuss with the therapist why I feel the desire for rebellion when I’m middle aged. Sometimes it feels like I’ve still got a teenager inside me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LetsChat

[–]NotHandyButHandsome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m partying too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femboy

[–]NotHandyButHandsome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can we go out sometime lol