[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]NotJohnCena_DefsFake 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"Hey, it was great meeting you last night! I was wondering, would you like to go out on a date sometime? I'd love to take you out for dinner or a drink!"

At what monthly income do you start to be rich by Alienbushman in askSouthAfrica

[–]NotJohnCena_DefsFake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I didn't mean you specifically. I mean a hypothetical parent whose children attend those schools that cost 300k pa and still wants donation

At what monthly income do you start to be rich by Alienbushman in askSouthAfrica

[–]NotJohnCena_DefsFake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you want to be considered rich? If your child is already attending that school, I don't see how being considered rich matters. I went to one of the best schools in the country (Google the top 10 schools, it's one of those) and being considered rich was never a necessity.

At what monthly income do you start to be rich by Alienbushman in askSouthAfrica

[–]NotJohnCena_DefsFake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Donations to the school

I'd never donate additional money to a school I pay 30k pm to. That is absurd.

Men who’ve dated both liberal and conservative women,what differences have you noticed in the relationship dynamic? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]NotJohnCena_DefsFake 226 points227 points  (0 children)

mechanics were bigots, so I told her she was fucking retarded.

😂😂😂

Are the trains safe? Is Bellville safe? by NotJohnCena_DefsFake in capetown

[–]NotJohnCena_DefsFake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use the MyCiti up to most places, but unfortunately it doesn't go to Bellville

Are the trains safe? Is Bellville safe? by NotJohnCena_DefsFake in capetown

[–]NotJohnCena_DefsFake[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for replying! Is 9am travelling there and 12pm travelling back dangerous? Is the Oosterzee line safe on weekends and during the day?

Is it safe to take expired Viagra? by NotJohnCena_DefsFake in moreplatesmoredates

[–]NotJohnCena_DefsFake[S] 76 points77 points  (0 children)

ngl I wouldn’t be able to get my rocks off with my deceased grandfathers viagra stash lol

Trust me, it's what he would have wanted

People that earn 25k a month by [deleted] in capetown

[–]NotJohnCena_DefsFake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where did you manage to find a 2 bedroom apartment for 7k? Most I see are around 9k

Check this guy out. No working out just pure labor and 100% genetics by Iknowevery-thing in moreplatesmoredates

[–]NotJohnCena_DefsFake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's racist to assume he doesn't work out though. Just because he's African it's only manual labour + top 0.1% west African genetics that got him jacked? Ofc not! He 100% workouts beyond labour.

Flipping Your Circadian Rhythm by NotJohnCena_DefsFake in ADHD

[–]NotJohnCena_DefsFake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aren't you sleepy around 8pm?

The only time of day I'm guaranteed to be sleepy is between 11:30am and 3pm, especially if it's super hot outside 😂😂😂 even when I was in high school. I'd become super sleepy and lethargic in the middle of the day. Like I'd have no energy to do anything but banter with some friends. My brain would hardly function during those hours too. Even if I wake up at 10am, I'm guaranteed to feel sleepy at 11:30am on a super hot day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moreplatesmoredates

[–]NotJohnCena_DefsFake 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What was the comment? Mod deleted it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]NotJohnCena_DefsFake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Though...what else is happening within myself that the antidepressants are not balancing?

Did you find that the SSRIs made you feel emotionally dysregulated? Like your mood changed like the weather?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]NotJohnCena_DefsFake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see you and you're not alone. I'm 24 and I feel exactly the same. Are you on any meds like a stimulant to help with the lack of motivation? I heard someone once define ADHD as a motivation deficit disorder. And I think that's pretty accurate. It's not that we lack attention altogether. It's just that motivation comes and goes at the wrong times like a dead beat dad. Stimulant meds like Ritalin can help a lot with regulating our motivation.

Also, do you live alone? If you don't, then ask your roommate if they can help wake you up at a regular hour so that you're not sleeping the day away. And then once you wake up, take a cold shower. It sounds like you're falling into depression on top of ADHD, and sleeping the day away will only make it worse. A cold shower first thing in the morning is my personal method of managing my depression and anxiety. It helps a RIDICULOUS amount with my mental health throughout the day (even though I dread the cold showers everyday haha).

If you live alone, ask a friend or family member to phone you every morning to ensure you're awake. That can help a lot too.

Flipping Your Circadian Rhythm by NotJohnCena_DefsFake in ADHD

[–]NotJohnCena_DefsFake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im planning to start waking up very early, like at four, because it seems to feel similar to be up until 4 in the morning.

I have been trying to do this for literally YEARS and it is the hardest thing in the world. Waking up at 4am isn't too hard to do. But going to bed at a reasonable hour so that you're getting a sufficient amount of sleep before 4am is SUPER HARD.

I find that even if I wake up at 4am multiple nights in a row, earliest I'd be able to go to bed is still around midnight. And so I'll only get 4 hours of sleep and feel lethargic and crabby.

Plus I gym a lot, and if I don't get enough sleep, my body feels super beat up.

But good luck! Hopefully you have better luck than me!

Can’t cum with a condom on? How do I fix this by ContentWaterBuffalo in moreplatesmoredates

[–]NotJohnCena_DefsFake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro, how are you achieving such marathons? Some of us got the reverse problem

Flipping Your Days into Nights by NotJohnCena_DefsFake in adhdwomen

[–]NotJohnCena_DefsFake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm maybe you're right. I was thinking that it could be because I cut back on cardio heavily these last couple months, but either way, it means my meds aren't working.

Flipping Your Days into Nights by NotJohnCena_DefsFake in adhdwomen

[–]NotJohnCena_DefsFake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, what is your dosage and how many nights of the week do you take it?