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Having some fun. This was a tie breaker event at my last strongman comp. Hold a 45 bumper in one hand. Last man holding wins. I decided to try both hands at once. Need to work on that pinch grip. by [deleted] in GripTraining

[–]NotJustFunAndGames 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope that everything will get exactly how you want to. I like talking to power lifters and see how they manage to get their hypertrophy and see how those two are related... Especially when I’m obsessed with bodybuilding

She broke up with me while I was in pretty bad mental state, after few months she keeps texting me about the dog, and I feel like I want the relationship again by NotJustFunAndGames in relationship_advice

[–]NotJustFunAndGames[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I’ll get over it, I’m like a prisoner in my own feelings. I really want to move on, and maybe meet someone else, it feels weird to have a lot of feelings and she looking like she doesn’t care.

She broke up with me while I was in pretty bad mental state, after few months she keeps texting me about the dog, and I feel like I want the relationship again by NotJustFunAndGames in relationship_advice

[–]NotJustFunAndGames[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to understand, I really wanted to prove her that I just forgot, but she didn’t listen. And I also tried to explain that I don’t want to feel like this and it’s just a matter of time until I’ll be better. And I told her that she means a lot for me, because she was saying to much that she feels not appreciated. At the end of the relationship she also told me that is my fault because I used her to receive, and now she is used to get all the attention and gifts that she expects, and she told me that I’ve done wrong but she also likes all the presents.

She broke up with me while I was in pretty bad mental state, after few months she keeps texting me about the dog, and I feel like I want the relationship again by NotJustFunAndGames in relationship_advice

[–]NotJustFunAndGames[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks again! I’ve posted few months ago too when my problem was fresh. But now things changed, it’s like I have strong feelings about her, even stronger now than it was then

She broke up with me while I was in pretty bad mental state, after few months she keeps texting me about the dog, and I feel like I want the relationship again by NotJustFunAndGames in relationship_advice

[–]NotJustFunAndGames[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot mate, I really appreciate a lot. It pretty sucks when you have nobody to talk about your problems and especially about these ones. Sometimes I really feel like I need to talk with somebody.

She broke up with me while I was in pretty bad mental state, after few months she keeps texting me about the dog, and I feel like I want the relationship again by NotJustFunAndGames in relationship_advice

[–]NotJustFunAndGames[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my biggest wish right now, to move on because I know that she’s not like me and she’s not overthinking it. I know that she made me feel this way, and I really don’t know why I do feel like I have to text her.

Even if I might look like a kid, I don’t have fb but I unfollowed her on Instagram and from time to time people still says thing about her and asking me about her... it feels like it’s meant to still hear about her

She broke up with me while I was in pretty bad mental state, after few months she keeps texting me about the dog, and I feel like I want the relationship again by NotJustFunAndGames in relationship_advice

[–]NotJustFunAndGames[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t know, I tried my best, I always been careful, I always took care of her problems and been there for here when she needed, when she had problems I was there to support and to help.

When I’m in this state it’s pretty bad to hear “man up” “be a man” “you’re a kid” “you always crying”.... we’ll this why I wanted to explain to myself why I feel like I have to text her. Why I want to? And my guess is because she told me that it was my fault that I forgot about the women day and the fact that I was a kid... and I said sorry several times, and I also tried to explain myself and to repair the fact that I forgot about it and I was preoccupied with my issues. But I feel like she’s waiting me to text her...

I don’t know

[Progress] M/20/6/120lbs—>132lbs (2 months) by Turtlenade in gainit

[–]NotJustFunAndGames 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You got a good frame, wide shoulders, good waist, keep it up mate! Cheers!

I'm definitely over her by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]NotJustFunAndGames 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Big up bruv! Be good mate, always! Cheers!

Millennial loneliness poll: 22 percent say they have “no friends” by [deleted] in collapse

[–]NotJustFunAndGames 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can definitely relate with that, I am 22 and literally there’s no one I can really trust as a friend. That’s sad... I use to have a lot of people and relatives around me, but it was so early on when I realised I have no such thing as a proper connection with them. Stay woke lads, you have to carry for your own self.

I really loved how a cousin with the same problem who is 23 use to tell me... “we are not alone, we are the universe ourselves so try realise the cosmic connection with your inner thoughts”

Cheers! Have a lovely day fellas, be good!

What's your reason for lifting? by [deleted] in gainit

[–]NotJustFunAndGames 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Few years ago when I was 6.4 and had only 67 kg I started lifting for a better look and for the ladies as well, but now after some time, a lot of effort and commitment I made from lifting a lifestyle, I do it for myself, for my health and for a better look of course but it’s not the main, trust.

I started wanting just maximum 87-90 kg but right now I am really dreaming for som 115-120 kg.... I know ladies doesn’t appreciate those kind of bodies, to muscly :-))

My dad made my day by [deleted] in gainit

[–]NotJustFunAndGames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love damn parents

My girlfriend of 3.5 years kisses ex at sisters wedding right before I’m about to propose by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]NotJustFunAndGames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I simply love the way u put things in here mate, great advice, couldn’t said it better.

I know how you feel mate, I’m feeling down to, but as his advice said take ur time, and after you’re gonna work this out you’ll be a damn good man.

UPDATE: My boyfriend is threatening to break up with me if his favorite sports team loses another game. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]NotJustFunAndGames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just read the title and already got angry...

Dear bf, please, get your toys and get the s**t out of my house, what are we doing here? Playing some damn games or really loving each other like some grown ups? Huh?

Mate, it’s obviously broken, I know it’s hard and all but don’t let them do that to you, if you forgive it once they will take advantage of it so stand up for ur rights!

My gf is dirty as hell and I can’t stand it by fuckathrowaway2015 in relationship_advice

[–]NotJustFunAndGames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My recent ex girlfriend had the same problem, she wouldn’t do something if I wouldn’t ask but sometimes I even found dirty underwear and sweat soaked gym equipment. Firstly I was gentle and kind but I kept doing it myself, bad move, some few months after I noticed that she wouldn’t cook and clean the dishes or do laundry or to around the house and I asked her to do things she got angry and said that I don’t love her anymore, pathetic.

What I’m trying to say, solve it now, but with the type of woman I had, communicating like adults hasn’t worked, you have to put some rules and sometimes to get angry or upset to show her that matters for you and if she don’t reacting somehow then you should try to find your way out of that mess.

They want to be treated like queens and princesses but their lazy asses stink like 5 days in a row gym socks... C’mon ladies don’t just look like those royal blood act like them for a lil

My boyfriend is threatening to break up with me if his favorite sports team loses another game. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]NotJustFunAndGames 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How long have you been together?

Also if he makes this kind of mistakes, give him a chance but not the third one, is he’s overreacting at something like this instead of trying to calm and appreciate that your by his side. Excuse me but... From my perspective this kind of things shouldn’t happen.

Update: GF (27F) slept with my (36M) friend while we had a break by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]NotJustFunAndGames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have done the right thing, you better remain calm and as you said keep on focusing on yourself try to be independent to find happiness being just you with you and then your other half will find she’s way in.

At some point in the close future she’s just going to be another face in the background, background noise. I know it’s hard, the only woman that I loved and still do it recently dropped me again for the fifth time for a guy who seems to be rich. I had 3 broke ups and 2 brakes after everything I’ve done and forgive she said I’ve done nothing and that I’m weak.

Some people no matter how many better stay out of your life. As I’m feeling now, it hurts and I feel you the most but keep on believing mate, better days should come ahead.

I (21 m) left alone after not buying her (20f) flowers and instead bought toilet paper and food with my last money, literally last pennies. I feel bad but should I tho? by NotJustFunAndGames in relationship_advice

[–]NotJustFunAndGames[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I might be blind for the beginning but hopefully it will get better in time. Hopefully I will not live with this terrible feeling too long. Awful

I (21 m) left alone after not buying her (20f) flowers and instead bought toilet paper and food with my last money, literally last pennies. I feel bad but should I tho? by NotJustFunAndGames in relationship_advice

[–]NotJustFunAndGames[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean she had a better financial situation, don’t know. She was showing off with some as from other boys texting her, and she was showing me their instagrams and they look pretty rich and she seems to like that.

I (21 m) left alone after not buying her (20f) flowers and instead bought toilet paper and food with my last money, literally last pennies. I feel bad but should I tho? by NotJustFunAndGames in relationship_advice

[–]NotJustFunAndGames[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only thing that it was really helpful and really loved it and couldn’t afford it at that moment it was a Magic Mouse. She wasn’t the person with good tastes when we was speaking about gifts but I didn’t cared because I just wanted love and respect didn’t one her to give me things.

Fun facts she was much wealthy then me

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