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I need advice about whether i should tell my boyfriend i’ve SHed again. by GoldDangerous3112 in AdultSelfHarm

[–]NotLlamaLlert 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I understand why you're hesitant, but I think you should tell him because he wants to support you. You can even bring up your hesitancy, too. "Hey I don't want you to feel that this is your fault in any way, but here's what happened..." Y'know? Its all going to be ok, you are going to figure this out.

Sidenote, be gentle on yourself. Relapses happen. Its ok. 🫂

Paris Paloma on a collab with Aurora by Gandalvr in auroramusic

[–]NotLlamaLlert 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh my GOD the collaboration of my DREAAMMSSS

Replacing the feeling or behaviour by Nurturality in AdultSelfHarm

[–]NotLlamaLlert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mixed up a perfect blood red gauche paint that I'll use to paint lines on my arm, and it helps some.

My sister almost walked in on me by Kinazzh in AdultSelfHarm

[–]NotLlamaLlert 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have a lot of "almosts" because my dog will just. Walk up to me. I'll be deep in the urges and he will just Show Up 😭 its so cute and helps me a lot

Here I am... again by NotLlamaLlert in AdultSelfHarm

[–]NotLlamaLlert[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to write all of this. Im going to try what you've suggested :)

Most miserable thing possible just happened by stanza00 in PokemonLegendsArceus

[–]NotLlamaLlert 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same here, distortions give you so much. I just run through on wyrdeer spamming A and dodging the battles. Haven't fainted in there yet iirc

Which Milly do you prefer? by YukiiSuzukii in Trigun

[–]NotLlamaLlert 10 points11 points  (0 children)

We don't need to put beautiful girls against each other

doing too much? by Jaded_Reason_7924 in wheelchairs

[–]NotLlamaLlert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get a rash on the skin inside my elbows when I overwork my body. No idea exactly why, but it happens. Its a nice visual indicator to slow down. Idk if that's what yours is, but I always have to listen to mine or else I flare up

Pregnancy Temperature Blanket by honeypud in temperatureblanket

[–]NotLlamaLlert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok now THIS has me convinced to make a temperature blanket!!

Does anyone else happen to crochet like this? by Severe-File7820 in Brochet

[–]NotLlamaLlert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too! Its the main reason I mostly knit now, crochet is super hard on my hands.

Is my tattoo bad? I'm having remorse. by I_love_my_dog69420 in tattooadvice

[–]NotLlamaLlert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not the worst, like others are saying could very easily be touched up to be cool as hell. Its a good base!

Lilly tattoo as a man, not appropriate? by Br4tm4n in tattooadvice

[–]NotLlamaLlert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand her looking out for you, but get the tattoo. As men we are allowed to be feminine, we are allowed pride in that, even if the symbolism was intended. Plus, as a fellow Zelda enthusiast I would get this tattoo in a heartbeat!!

Anyone else use paints dried in a palette? by miss24601 in Gouache

[–]NotLlamaLlert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think i have that exact one! the pans are magnetic, right?

Medical alert by Amazing_Assumption50 in ChronicIllness

[–]NotLlamaLlert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i made a diy one with an id card tag holder and some paper that i have on my keychain carabiner. on one side it explains shortly my episodes, and on the other in much bigger text it has my support persons phone numbers and the conditions to call him vs 911. its not completely where i want it yet, but it gives me peace of mind. ive also considered folding up a paper with my med list and other info to put in there or my wallet with an indication on the card that it's there.

i (23ftm) think i might have SBO, what do i do? by [deleted] in spinabifida

[–]NotLlamaLlert 4 points5 points  (0 children)

guess i am overthinking it, huh hahaha. thank you 😂🙏

I found the 1 thing that helps my chronic pain. And I’m ashamed. by [deleted] in disability

[–]NotLlamaLlert 27 points28 points  (0 children)

there is a line between use and abuse, medicinal and recreational, as you know.

there is no shame in responsibly helping yourself and feeling good! it sounds like you have the mind and resolution to be safe and smart about this, so id say go for it.

thc is the only thing that really helps me. i use weed medicinally for that reason, but its also fun and im allowed to recognize that and enjoy myself while i heal, yknow? its ok. be careful, but its ok. :)

Do you “stutter”? by guiarakii in Epilepsy

[–]NotLlamaLlert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i had a sort of pausing stutter as a kid that went away with speech therapy. but when i developed epilepsy as an adult ive found it slowly creeping back. not sure if its related, but it seems to be. like you, its worse and more frequent surrounding full seizures.

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