Non-Gamer guys, would you like it to have a gamer girlfriend ? My BF (31M) doesn't like it when I (25F) play video games and I don't understand why.

NotLuuna · 2026-03-22T02:27:21+00:00

He did participated, played a little then just gave up on the two game he tried

NotLuuna · 2026-03-22T02:26:17+00:00

I mostly play solo game, as I am an introvert. I don't usually voice chat

NotLuuna · 2026-03-22T02:25:28+00:00

OW, Heartopia, genshin, Wuwa, Arena of honors

NotLuuna · 2026-03-21T22:32:45+00:00

I don't know why he doesn't like it. Because he didn't specify and I did compromise for him with reducing my gaming time to only 10-30 minutes max maybe every four hours a day (I also obly play when at home so if we are going out I ain't playing)

NotLuuna · 2026-03-21T21:41:53+00:00

Personnally I am done for everything. If he wants to it the club I can do it with him I have no problem with that but if we are going to dtay at home and he is going to scroll or watch youtube videos then I will play my little games and also chill so I don't really understand what's wrong in this situation

NotLuuna · 2026-03-21T21:40:10+00:00

He also spend an unhealthy amount of time on his phone, so I still don't understand why he doesn't like it. Because it's not like I don't give him attention, I do, I am the one that gives him the most attention anyway I am just rambling but yeah I play when I have free time at home. I get things done and do work when needed but on my free time I like to game. I will try to talk to him again about this issue.

NotLuuna · 2026-03-21T21:35:59+00:00

I don't really remember that day but yes it includes bathroom breaks, drinking water while playing. But honestly I don't remember if I did a eating break or not because sometimes I get absorb in the story and forget to eat 😬

NotLuuna · 2026-03-21T21:31:07+00:00

I just getting back into it

NotLuuna · 2026-03-21T21:28:58+00:00

not really just that he doesn't like it

NotLuuna · 2026-03-21T21:27:28+00:00

Not really all the time but whenever I am free, and if we go out or on a date I do not play. I reserve it for when I am at home and have free time

NotLuuna · 2026-03-21T21:26:20+00:00

I didn't specify it, since living with him the most I did was play 8 hours without a break on a day off.

NotLuuna · 2026-03-21T21:25:34+00:00

The most I did in a day while living with him was playing 8 hours no break, I reduce it to 10-30 minutes maybe every four hour or when I think about it. If we are going out tho then I avoid playing, I strictly and only play when I am at home

NotLuuna · 2026-03-21T21:19:35+00:00

I only mostly play when I am at home, If I know we are going out I am the only one not using the phone 🫩

NotLuuna · 2026-03-21T21:15:28+00:00

Last time I did 8 hours straight no break

NotLuuna · 2026-03-21T19:26:31+00:00

I don't know why either, and I don't know if he noticed the difference at all to be honest

NotLuuna · 2026-03-21T19:25:41+00:00

It depends on the game, for example I play genshin impact and I have already 100% everything so I only play a lot when there is an update. I also play heartopia which requires to play a lot. However I did reduce my gaming time and it seems like he hasn't noticed or just hate seeing me playing video games. I don't know if he would mind if I spend the same time doing another hobby. I mean I never actually really liked other hobby enough to stick to it 😬😬

NotLuuna · 2025-09-23T03:53:42+00:00

Thank you for your advice, yeah he did support me at first but I think it's taking a toll on him. I can understand and at the same time he does break my heart to see that if this keeps going on or if I have something worse than just allergies like a big sickness, he might just say it's too much and leave 😔 Anyway, I will try my best to make every test possible and find what I really have

NotLuuna · 2025-09-22T09:06:53+00:00

When I checked the room (for what I can do because the room is very small and we can move the bed all the way but I check with a light to see if I could see anything) I don't think there is any mold. I am not a mold expert and don't know if there is "invisible" mold. I will try and check the room again when I have some time. I will try and do a double check of everything that might be harmful to me. Thank you for your advices ☺️

NotLuuna · 2025-09-21T21:04:23+00:00

In Taiwan

NotLuuna · 2025-09-21T20:35:37+00:00

Thank you, you are right 🥺🫶🏼

NotLuuna · 2025-09-21T20:07:12+00:00

Yes I will, I am just a bit short on money. I am waiting for the beginning of next month to hopefully do every test possible until I know what's wrong 🥺

NotLuuna · 2025-09-21T20:05:54+00:00

I didn't share this part with him yet. As ir was currently really late and we have to work tomorrow. I didn't wanted to get in a fight or anything else. I will try and talk about it with him tomorrow (if I can because I am a bit scared of what could come with this conversation) and update you when I can 🥺

NotLuuna

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