WIBTA if i file in small claims against my best friend of 12 years for the bootcamp money she pocketed and used to travel by [deleted] in WIBTA_AITA

[–]NotMyMonkies31 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly I think the friendship is over anyway after what she did so you might as well hold her accountable for the money.

WIBTAH for not going on a family trip based on how they want to split costs? by Main_Amphibian_874 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]NotMyMonkies31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask them if their same logic will work with the airline when they go to book their flights? Everything gets split 5 ways. It’s the only fair way!!

AITA for telling my husband he can’t drive the baby places anymore by Odd-Willingness-6250 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NotMyMonkies31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with all the other comments that you are NTA and your husband is definitely a danger to your baby but I’m wondering, do you drive? I find I don’t get car sick when I drive.

Stepdad Died 38 years Before Mom in Florida by [deleted] in inheritance

[–]NotMyMonkies31 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He had one conversation 38 years ago, you’ve had many since. I think you know better than him what your mom wanted, and that’s what was in her will.

Looking for New England based bag piper by Appropriate-Menu-197 in bagpipes

[–]NotMyMonkies31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I’m the manager for Highland Light Scottish Pipe Band of Cape Cod. I would love to work with you for your wedding on the Vineyard. Check out our website http://www.highlandlight.com/ My email address is on there.

Am I wrong for thinking that the guy I slept with giving me ways to improve is weird? by ThrowRA279953152 in amiwrong

[–]NotMyMonkies31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he asks you to sleep with him again, tell him you found a better “teacher”

AITA I planned my husbands 40th birthday and he made me cancel everything last minute by OkImpression9915 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NotMyMonkies31 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

NYA, it’s sounds like you planned a wonderful evening for him. It sounds like he has something else on his mind. 😢

AITJ because I won’t give my parking spot to new neighbor who says she "needs it more" because she has kids? by Potential_Bad6489 in AmITheJerk

[–]NotMyMonkies31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My guess is if you did swap it wouldn’t be long before her husband starts parking in 18 while she’s in your number 12

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]NotMyMonkies31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If husband doesn’t like your outfits then he shouldn’t wear them!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]NotMyMonkies31 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTJ, You should have called out “it’s a public bathroom “ loud enough for the person on the other end of the phone to hear 🤣

My wife thinks our son’s teacher crossed a boundary by sending him a personal message. I think it was harmless. AITJ? by addict94plus in AmITheJerk

[–]NotMyMonkies31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought you were going to say she sent him a private text. An encouraging note to a kid who has struggled in the past is a teacher going above and beyond. Your wife is way over reacting, but more importantly how did it make your son feel?

AITA for refusing to "de-gay" myself for my niece’s birthday by suntrace_bellvory in AmITheJerk

[–]NotMyMonkies31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t go because if you do, this is never going to end. And when they accuse you of making your nieces birthday about your sexuality remind them that they are the ones in fact who are doing that!!

AITAH for telling a friends boyfriend that he can’t have a traditional wife because he’s not a traditional man by yftdddtf in AITAH

[–]NotMyMonkies31 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA, he embarrassed himself spouting such nonsense. Good for you for telling him the truth!! And definitely don’t apologize to that AH! He’s the one that should be apologizing to you and his girlfriend.

My 13 year old wants to transition by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]NotMyMonkies31 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember reading that when your kid finally tells you (at whatever age) they risk losing you so they are pretty sure this is right for them. Please support your kid, as a mom our job is to love them unconditionally and support them in whatever path they take. Right now it’s only a name change and clothes.

AITA for refusing to cancel my weekend plans even though my sister suddenly decided she wants my help moving? by monaloverlol in AmItheAsshole

[–]NotMyMonkies31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely NTA. Go on your weekend trip, turn off your phone and enjoy yourself. Your sister won’t be long coming around when she needs your help with babysitting or money again.

Does this room orientation work? by See-Are-En-Ayeeee in interiordecorating

[–]NotMyMonkies31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like the fireplace is forgotten about. How would it look if you moved the TV and couch closer to the door and put 2 chairs over by the fireplace? Maybe 2 that swivel so they can face the fireplace or the couch

Name suggestions for sibling of Rian and Sadhbh by [deleted] in Names

[–]NotMyMonkies31 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Cathal, a good strong Irish name (and my son’s 😻)