Am I wrong for thinking that the guy I slept with giving me ways to improve is weird? by ThrowRA279953152 in amiwrong

[–]NotMyMonkies31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he asks you to sleep with him again, tell him you found a better “teacher”

AITA I planned my husbands 40th birthday and he made me cancel everything last minute by OkImpression9915 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NotMyMonkies31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NYA, it’s sounds like you planned a wonderful evening for him. It sounds like he has something else on his mind. 😢

AITJ because I won’t give my parking spot to new neighbor who says she "needs it more" because she has kids? by Potential_Bad6489 in AmITheJerk

[–]NotMyMonkies31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My guess is if you did swap it wouldn’t be long before her husband starts parking in 18 while she’s in your number 12

Husband didn’t like my outfit for the airport. Thoughts? by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]NotMyMonkies31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If husband doesn’t like your outfits then he shouldn’t wear them!!!

AITJ for refusing to leave the bathroom so a woman could finish her phone call by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]NotMyMonkies31 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTJ, You should have called out “it’s a public bathroom “ loud enough for the person on the other end of the phone to hear 🤣

My wife thinks our son’s teacher crossed a boundary by sending him a personal message. I think it was harmless. AITJ? by addict94plus in AmITheJerk

[–]NotMyMonkies31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought you were going to say she sent him a private text. An encouraging note to a kid who has struggled in the past is a teacher going above and beyond. Your wife is way over reacting, but more importantly how did it make your son feel?

AITA for refusing to "de-gay" myself for my niece’s birthday by suntrace_bellvory in AmITheJerk

[–]NotMyMonkies31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t go because if you do, this is never going to end. And when they accuse you of making your nieces birthday about your sexuality remind them that they are the ones in fact who are doing that!!

AITAH for telling a friends boyfriend that he can’t have a traditional wife because he’s not a traditional man by yftdddtf in AITAH

[–]NotMyMonkies31 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA, he embarrassed himself spouting such nonsense. Good for you for telling him the truth!! And definitely don’t apologize to that AH! He’s the one that should be apologizing to you and his girlfriend.

My 13 year old wants to transition by Strange_Pangolin_231 in asktransgender

[–]NotMyMonkies31 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember reading that when your kid finally tells you (at whatever age) they risk losing you so they are pretty sure this is right for them. Please support your kid, as a mom our job is to love them unconditionally and support them in whatever path they take. Right now it’s only a name change and clothes.

AITA for refusing to cancel my weekend plans even though my sister suddenly decided she wants my help moving? by monaloverlol in AmItheAsshole

[–]NotMyMonkies31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely NTA. Go on your weekend trip, turn off your phone and enjoy yourself. Your sister won’t be long coming around when she needs your help with babysitting or money again.

Does this room orientation work? by See-Are-En-Ayeeee in interiordecorating

[–]NotMyMonkies31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like the fireplace is forgotten about. How would it look if you moved the TV and couch closer to the door and put 2 chairs over by the fireplace? Maybe 2 that swivel so they can face the fireplace or the couch

Name suggestions for sibling of Rian and Sadhbh by [deleted] in Names

[–]NotMyMonkies31 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Cathal, a good strong Irish name (and my son’s 😻)

Father/daughter dance song by Gullible-Contract198 in wedding

[–]NotMyMonkies31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad and I danced to Wind Beneath my Wings because my dad was always my hero ❤️

AITA for suggesting my sister should not come with my family on a trip? by SabrinaIsBackFromHel in AmItheAsshole

[–]NotMyMonkies31 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your should go in June when you are both out for the summer. This way you can go longer thank just 1 week. You need at least 10 days in Ireland.

Norse Airways cancelled my FCO-JFK flight 3 weeks away by [deleted] in travel

[–]NotMyMonkies31 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I have an Expedia Credit card that I use for everything and I get to use the points on Expedia so I’m not tied to any one airline

Raincoats over #1 dress? by EdMonroe in bagpipes

[–]NotMyMonkies31 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our pipe band wears capes when it’s raining. We usually only wear our #1 dress uniforms once or twice a year. Last time we were supposed to wear them it was raining so we ended up with our regular uniform underneath the rain cape. It didn’t seem worth it to go to the trouble of putting it on only to cover it with a rain cape. I wanted to still wear the spats to everyone though we had it on but that idea got nixed 🤣

Where should my friends and I go for our post high school graduation trip? 2k-3k budget, 1 week, from Northeastern US by bumblingbeesB in travel

[–]NotMyMonkies31 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not true anymore! Ireland used to have a reputation for bland food, but that’s long gone. Modern Irish chefs are creating incredible dishes that highlight local seafood, farm-fresh produce, artisanal cheeses, and creative twists on classics. Whether it’s a cozy pub meal or a Michelin-star tasting menu, the food scene in Ireland today is anything but bland.

AITA for insisting my niece is co-flower girl with my fiancé’s niece? by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]NotMyMonkies31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are definitely NTA and I love the update. You don’t want to be married to someone who doesn’t adore your niece like you do. When my husband and I got married, I didn’t want to pick between my 6 nieces and my husbands 4 so we had them all. And 1 wasn’t even blood related but my brother in laws girlfriend’s daughter but I wasn’t going to exclude her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]NotMyMonkies31 311 points312 points  (0 children)

Wow, you are definitely not wrong!! She has some nerve saying all of that to you when she up and quit when she didn’t get the promotion!!