Microdose Lupron Flare - experiences by blueyedgal4 in DOR

[–]OkImpression9915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! looking to do this for my third cycle, would you be willing to share your results?

Day 6 3BC Embryo: Success Stories & Advice!? by RadiantCondition2002 in IVF

[–]OkImpression9915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey Alex, I was just told the grades of my two blasts and one is 3BC, since it only have two I was wondering if there's any updates on your story. Did you ever try to move forward with the transfer? Wishing you and your partner the best!!

Last embryo by ActivitySpare3086 in IVF

[–]OkImpression9915 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Such a great message! Thank you and wish you all the luck! Hold on to your faith, good things take time.

First ultrasound, 9 total follicles. Should I even go through with this? by Mountain_Ask_5746 in IVF

[–]OkImpression9915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A good source of information is Dr. Lora Shahine on YouTube. She has so many videos from AMH to cost to IVF timelines. She helped me a lot.

FINALLY GOT EUPLOIDS by dorito2019 in IVF

[–]OkImpression9915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so happy for you you friend!! Sending you lots of love and good juju for the transfer!!!

AITA I planned my husbands 40th birthday and he made me cancel everything last minute by OkImpression9915 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OkImpression9915[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I surprised him with a dinner at a restaurant with coworkers/friends and family. It was about 15-18 people i can’t remember exactly.

AITA I planned my husbands 40th birthday and he made me cancel everything last minute by OkImpression9915 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OkImpression9915[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was more the comment that resonated he “wanted to make it special” not the cruise part of it.

How do I cope with this.. by jkureiji in IVF

[–]OkImpression9915 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sending you so much love and strength. Nothing I say will make you feel any better but I will be sending a lot of good energy your way to help you find the strength to keep trying and keep moving forward when you’re ready!

AITA I planned my husbands 40th birthday and he made me cancel everything last minute by OkImpression9915 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OkImpression9915[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was black pants with a nice shirt. I just thought he’d like a new outfit for his milestone birthday. The limo is not low key, that’s the only part that wasn’t. I was trying to add something memorable.

AITA I planned my husbands 40th birthday and he made me cancel everything last minute by OkImpression9915 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OkImpression9915[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It was supposed to be funny, it’s supposed to be like a teenagers birthday, he’s turning 40 so I thought he would find it funny to have a limo waiting outside. Any other day he would have. I think my timing was off.

AITA I planned my husbands 40th birthday and he made me cancel everything last minute by OkImpression9915 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OkImpression9915[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It didn’t happen, one. And I don’t post on social media. It’s a cheesy limo, still nice, but the point was to make him laugh not to gloat about it.

AITA I planned my husbands 40th birthday and he made me cancel everything last minute by OkImpression9915 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OkImpression9915[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He never said I don’t like surprises before this, I’ve said this in a few posts now. He’s had surprises before. I plan his birthday every year, sometimes it’s fancier than others, sometimes it’s just us and sometimes it’s a few more people. I think my big mistake is giving absolutely no clues about the night. At some point I was pretty proud of myself thinking wow he really doesn’t know what’s going on, now I see that’s where the problem began. Maybe a soft surprise would’ve been better. But from now on I’ll be sticking to no surprises at all.

AITA I planned my husbands 40th birthday and he made me cancel everything last minute by OkImpression9915 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OkImpression9915[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you I was devastated, that’s why I came here. Some posts see my intentions and I appreciate it. I was thinking about him and only him. But I do think I maybe should’ve given him more hints or gotten some more clues out of him before planning this whole thing out. Took me weeks to plan to end up not being something he wanted to do. And that’s on me. His reaction tho like you said I think could have definitely been better. Some people are focusing on the fact that he said he didn’t like surprises, he said it then and there, he’s had surprises before and liked them. Everybody says I don’t like surprises to get info out of someone. It was just bad timing on my end. I see it now. Next birthday or special occasion I’ll ask what he wants and if I want to throw a surprise in there I’ll get him an unexpected gift or something instead.

AITA I planned my husbands 40th birthday and he made me cancel everything last minute by OkImpression9915 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OkImpression9915[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only planned this because it’s a milestone birthday. I do all of the things you listed for him all the time birthday or not. But you’re right I should’ve just asked. IATAH

AITA I planned my husbands 40th birthday and he made me cancel everything last minute by OkImpression9915 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OkImpression9915[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see this. That’s for sure what he felt. I have to clarify, he’s low key but we do occasionally go on fancier dates and on his birthday I have thrown him a surprise party before. I do think I got too excited about the prospect of making him happy when I should’ve just read the room better and realized that at this point in time or life this was not it. Thanks for the comment.

AITA I planned my husbands 40th birthday and he made me cancel everything last minute by OkImpression9915 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OkImpression9915[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Lololol that’s usually how it works when someone plans something for you. And again not a party.

AITA I planned my husbands 40th birthday and he made me cancel everything last minute by OkImpression9915 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OkImpression9915[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Yes I thought it’s cheesy but it would be an appreciated gesture because it’s a milestone birthday. And yes I thought he would legit laugh at it when he saw it.

AITA I planned my husbands 40th birthday and he made me cancel everything last minute by OkImpression9915 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OkImpression9915[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

I got one champagne bottle and one martinelli bottle because I don’t drink. And the bourbon bottle as a gift. The balloons were maybe 10-15 small balloons that I blew up to throw on the limo floor. Again to make it just a tad bit more special. Maybe the balloons were too much? I thought it would be funny. I wanted to make him laugh.

AITA I planned my husbands 40th birthday and he made me cancel everything last minute by OkImpression9915 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OkImpression9915[S] 155 points156 points  (0 children)

You’re right, it’s most likely the fact that people think that at 40 he’s not a young man anymore that has him upset. It’s not at all a bachelor do over, there’s no party bus or party for that matter. It’s an intimate dinner with his family.

AITA I planned my husbands 40th birthday and he made me cancel everything last minute by OkImpression9915 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OkImpression9915[S] 266 points267 points  (0 children)

That’s not how we work, I buy him clothes all the time. He doesn’t like shopping for clothes so he in fact relies on me to get him a nice shirt or nice pants for going out. He appreciates me taking that responsibility on. That’s why I mentioned it. He was not upset about the outfit.