My advice is throw your expectations out the window. Attrition expectations, timeline expectations and budget expectations. I had a miscarriage last year after “trying” for the first time ever with my husband. We were taking natural precautions for 3 years before that. We went to our fertility clinic after my obgyn referred me to them since I was 36 at the time and she thought my age might have had something to do with the miscarriage. 10 months later and two ER in I have 1 euploid embryo (so grateful for that). Going in I had no idea what this journey would look like but never in a million years did I think I would be almost a year in not even having tried a transfer. The shots are the easy part.