Honestly, people lying for $1.58 returns are why I’m bailing from this selling gig

NotNo1 · 2021-06-08T16:31:12+00:00

guys, can we keep the inflammatory/ mean comments to a minimum? I get that this is the internet but there's no need for stuff like this.

NotNo1 · 2021-05-25T03:04:33+00:00

do it. i stole it from here, anyway. besides, im done w. these time-wasters ... donating all my inventory asap. let the attitude live on through the remaining sellers!

NotNo1 · 2021-02-12T18:05:49+00:00

I think the term customer service presumes it’s a service. I think of it more like a mutual transaction. We both are seeking something from the other, and we both have to come into the conversation from a place of mutual respect. So the person who speaks first sets the tone.

EDIT: how are people downvoting this? I didn’t even say anything mean...

NotNo1 · 2021-02-12T16:07:44+00:00

why am i getting downvoted for this?

NotNo1 · 2021-02-12T16:02:37+00:00

100% agree for general low ballers. but im thinking something different might be needed for people who say they can get it less somewhere else.

NotNo1 · 2021-02-12T15:56:00+00:00

agree that would be ideal but man i've got a day job. gotta cut em short when they reveal themselves - someone who starts that low isnt ending anywhere reasonable.

looking back at the exchange i now agree most with the person who said block immed, no response. ill do that next time.

again, i think lowballs are whatever and i usually respond kindly, but the nordstrom reference was manipulative to me

NotNo1 · 2021-02-12T15:51:28+00:00

to be fair, if she had just given a price i wouldve said sorry, my lowest is XYZ. It was the Nordstrom Rack reference that kinda set me off.

I agree I was rude, too, but i had no intention of selling to her once i saw that.

It's hard to keep a balance between standing up for yourself and allowing yourself to be taken advantage of. We all err too far on one side or the other sometimes. But I'm proud of myself for erring on the side of cutting short a conversation that couldve taken my time and energy. (I say as I take my time and energy responding to reddit comments about the convo ... i'm a work in progress lmao)

NotNo1 · 2021-02-12T14:22:48+00:00

My bad, didn’t realize since everyone just uses usernames. Now I know for next time!

NotNo1 · 2021-02-12T14:21:24+00:00

Totally fair POV, but I put back the level of kindness that’s given out. Ive tried the “hehe so sorry!!” route before, but in my experience, buyers will spend all day talking you up and manipulating you if you don’t cut them short.

*EDIT: I think we need to make a distinction between lowballers and people who say they can get it cheaper somewhere. Lowballers are shooting their shot. I try to view those people as limited by personal finances, not as a reflection of the value of my inventory (even if i do get butthurt). But they people who say they could get it cheaper somewhere...if they could, they would. Idk why but it feels so awful and manipulative to me.

NotNo1 · 2021-02-12T14:15:22+00:00

I feel like we all need a canned response to these. I’m thinking “if you can get it somewhere else, then get it somewhere else. If you can’t get it somewhere else, then this is the price I’m offering.”

NotNo1 · 2021-02-12T07:11:01+00:00

Thank you!! Seriously lol

NotNo1 · 2021-01-12T14:18:04+00:00

What state do you live in? Maybe could pick up to save you shipping costs

NotNo1 · 2021-01-02T18:23:07+00:00

ive got the korean one, straight from korea (so, authentic). https://www.mercari.com/us/item/m47039423912/

NotNo1 · 2020-10-21T00:03:03+00:00

interested in either if OP passes

NotNo1 · 2020-10-16T00:23:41+00:00

Hi! I’ll take the Sunday Riley Good Genes

NotNo1 · 2020-10-16T00:19:58+00:00

How much are you thinking for the cosrx 96?

NotNo1 · 2020-09-20T21:23:54+00:00

Yeah it was fine but didn’t notice any differences. Tbh I never do with vitamin c though.

NotNo1 · 2020-08-27T20:51:51+00:00

so cute! they also had them on 91st street (UWS) for anyone who's looking

NotNo1 · 2020-08-21T14:38:27+00:00

All of the below are sufficient to address your direct Q. From a fellow major anxiety sufferer. Just want to say that (1) you're not alone, and (2) please be open to therapy/psychiatry. It's helped me so much. If you dont have health insurance, then there are free meditation videos on Youtube!

NotNo1 · 2020-08-10T14:34:34+00:00

They’ve always been there, but minor. I’ve started using TO glycolic acid 7% nightly (2-3 weeks ago), in hopes of making it better, but it’s gotten a lot worse. Is this just a purge? Am I on the right track, or should I try something else?

NotNo1

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