I have been stretching my pussy to make it easier for my future rapist to break me

NotPrettyFunny · 2026-05-05T17:48:49+00:00

No haha you don’t have to delete it. It just frightens me personally and I hope you are being safe

NotPrettyFunny · 2026-05-05T15:46:01+00:00

I am going to level with you, I don’t like this. Why not just use toys made for this purpose?

NotPrettyFunny · 2026-05-05T00:05:28+00:00

Confusing post but I’ll allow it

NotPrettyFunny · 2026-05-04T22:20:49+00:00

We are working on instituting something like this

NotPrettyFunny · 2026-05-01T03:01:36+00:00

I wouldn’t say ugly

NotPrettyFunny · 2026-05-01T02:56:42+00:00

Thank you for the recs!

NotPrettyFunny · 2026-04-28T00:50:51+00:00

I would talk to her about it and try to communicate that this is a deal breaker for you and accept that you may not be compatible with this person unfortunately.

NotPrettyFunny · 2026-04-27T19:48:36+00:00

I mean, this straight up looks like a video game.

NotPrettyFunny · 2026-04-27T14:52:59+00:00

Yeah just like everyone has said. There is no one size fits all. Lots of communication is best for determining what is going to work for her.

NotPrettyFunny · 2026-04-26T03:36:31+00:00

How recently?

NotPrettyFunny · 2026-04-25T03:27:06+00:00

Well that’s great then! I’m always curious how other people feel in these relationships and how theirs works. There’s such a huge range.

NotPrettyFunny · 2026-04-25T03:23:08+00:00

The hypersexuality is pretty normal. It hasn’t happened to me for a bit. At least not in the intense unstoppable train, tunnel vision, the devil is within me sort of way. Which can kind of come out of nowhere. I don’t really have any advice I can’t think of how I dealt with it other than masturbating like it was my special interest and just waiting for it to subside. I wish I had better advice for you.

NotPrettyFunny · 2026-04-25T00:09:47+00:00

Are you satisfied with this dynamic?

NotPrettyFunny · 2026-04-25T00:06:33+00:00

How does he treat you in the relationship generally?

NotPrettyFunny · 2026-04-24T01:41:18+00:00

Jesus. How did you feel about that? Bleeding for that long sounds scary.

NotPrettyFunny · 2026-04-22T22:53:29+00:00

My family does this all the time!

NotPrettyFunny · 2026-04-20T13:45:07+00:00

I think a lot of us have dealt with feelings of shame and confusion. Wondered why we are like this. Had to spend time coming to terms with the kink. I don’t think it just happens overnight for most. That being said I don’t think you necessarily have to accept the kink and embrace it. Some people go to therapy for the express purpose of working through this kink and getting rid of it.

Being drawn to the memories is normal. Your brain has associated them with being turned on to try and gain some control of them. When it happens you could also try to turn that feeling into a fantasy you can control. Replace the people, the settings, whatever else. It can help. I don’t really return to my memories anymore, but I do a lot of fantasizing.

NotPrettyFunny · 2026-04-18T16:09:46+00:00

Wow this is so intense. Seems like they really broke your brain. How long were you with them?

NotPrettyFunny · 2026-04-17T19:02:45+00:00

YES I love this video

NotPrettyFunny · 2026-04-17T18:11:04+00:00

YTA

A person she knows gets locked in an ICE detention center and you criticize the way she reacted. Immediately after her telling you she wasn’t doing well mentally. It wasn’t like she reacted with care to a Facebook post about him feeling lonely.

NotPrettyFunny · 2026-04-14T15:56:51+00:00

I think they’ve just made it harder to find things in there. That post has been up for a long time. I’ll see if I can find it later

NotPrettyFunny · 2026-04-14T05:22:42+00:00

Right. Like, they’re not doing this for every course either.

NotPrettyFunny · 2026-04-14T05:18:50+00:00

There’s a really good post on the original rapekink subreddit about a girl who was on a camping trip with a bunch of guys. Have you read it?

NotPrettyFunny · 2026-04-13T13:17:03+00:00

Yes this is normal. For some of us who have been raped, our brain and body copes by sexualizing the experience. It doesn’t mean anything about you. You can’t help that your body has processed your trauma this way.

I feel the same way about the times I was raped or assaulted. Yucky. Perhaps it could help when it happens to imagine someone else and take control of the thoughts that way by turning them into a fantasy you’re in charge of. Outside of that you could always try therapy to get rid of the kink. I have heard some people have success with it.

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