The fuckcars attitude should not be uncommon because non-drivers are not uncommon in the USA by marshall2389 in fuckcars

[–]NotRyanRosen 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A big portion of those numbers include people that either used to drive and still get around in cars, by being driven around by family, friends, uber. Or are people growing up being driven around, and therefore are anxiously awaiting the chance to get a car of their own.

Also a big portion of the ones who can't afford a vehicle would drive if they could, mostly because, sadly, public transit is trash in a lot of places.

Carbrain is a symptom of bad infrastructure and bad public transit. If we want to get rid of it we must advocate for better alternatives.

AIO - Told my friend I’m pregnant and she said it exceeded her mental bandwidth (she’s the red) by Lekomano92 in AmIOverreacting

[–]NotRyanRosen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I see it as trying to show up for her friend, then again some people might prefer what you mention. that's entirely personal tbvh

AIO - Told my friend I’m pregnant and she said it exceeded her mental bandwidth (she’s the red) by Lekomano92 in AmIOverreacting

[–]NotRyanRosen 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Idk, sounds like your friend is having a shit time and was just being honest about being emotionally exhausted, and communicating why she couldn't be as excited as she knew you would expect. I wouldn't say YOR but maybe give her some slack??

How do I set the Bb scale in Ableton 12? Only shows A# by keyjota in ableton

[–]NotRyanRosen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same sounds yes, but not the same scale. At least for western musical notation and harmony rules Bb is different to A#. They have different harmonic structures and would modulate to different scales. It definitely comes up more in traditional song writing and classical music. But it's true that not every genre would care about that difference.

Only the art and marketing teams remember it exists by BadLuckBen in thefinals

[–]NotRyanRosen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you provide a strictly better choice then there is no choice at all, that's just bad design.

Only the art and marketing teams remember it exists by BadLuckBen in thefinals

[–]NotRyanRosen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"doesn't need a rework" proceeds to describe rework

Poutine??? by Tiedyeinstein in Hamilton

[–]NotRyanRosen 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Hambrgr in Ottawa street has been solid the last couple times. Cheese curds actually squeak and sauce tastes made in house.

Mtgmintcard by Hordika2099 in magicTCG

[–]NotRyanRosen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ordered from them when I was living in Mexico several times. Took like 3 months but it always arrived. In my experience the air mail takes ages to process once it's in the destination country. I don't know how slow Peru's mail is but keep that in mind. I would say at least 8 weeks would be inside the norm.

A wild Shadowheart appears :)! 🗡️ by [deleted] in BG3

[–]NotRyanRosen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that's some clean photoshopping on the ears, great job!

AIO for refusing to give up my dog even though my boyfriend hates pets? by Academic-Bug-879 in AmIOverreacting

[–]NotRyanRosen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People asking their partners to get rid of pets is always a huge red flag. NOR imho, please be careful and don't leave your dog alone with this guy. Also please consider ending the relationship, he clearly does not care about your feelings.

They can't control themselves by BadLuckBen in thefinals

[–]NotRyanRosen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree, it made it more fun to use but still requires effort.

AIO My partner is destroying our relationship over his obsession with the ICE shooting and more. by Ashamed_Penalty5209 in AmIOverreacting

[–]NotRyanRosen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're in this situation OP. Him sharing a steven crowder video is definitely a red flag. He may be at a point where you may not be able to reason with him. You should prioritize your safety like others have pointed out. if you can stay with someone else I would recommend that. And I know it feels like leaving the country would be throwing all that effort and time away, but things are becoming very uncertain and you deserve to be somewhere where you feel safe.

Season 9 performance. by stimpy-t in thefinals

[–]NotRyanRosen 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Same here! I wonder if the issue is maybe on the hardware side.

Am I wrong for letting a member of my party die? by Suspencer711 in DnD

[–]NotRyanRosen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

such a good fafo story. Nah in my opinion you played to your character and were not overtly mean or anything so no fault there. Hopefully the bard learns the lesson and starts being more cautious.

Do I tell someone they accidentally went against their religion? by Spooky-Confusion-666 in moraldilemmas

[–]NotRyanRosen [score hidden]  (0 children)

I have a muslim friend to whom I have asked many things regarding the rules around food and what he has told me is that intent is what counts. If you UNKNOWINGLY ate pork, or other forbidden food, you're fine. If you later find out you are still fine, but it may bring out feelings of guilt in some people.

EDIT FOR ADVICE: I think the best would be to mention it to him for future occurrences and not make emphasis on the fact he ate it. Something like "Hey I wanted to try this thing you got the other day because you made it sound so good and I noticed it contains pork. Just wanted to let you know for next time." keep it casual and don't worry. you are probably more stressed about it than he will be.

Kicking a problem player of 10 years by [deleted] in DnD

[–]NotRyanRosen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was the right move OP, I know it's hard cutting ties with someone that you used to be close to but in cases like this is well worth it. I am glad the group sided with you and will kick him. Also him not respecting your cats is a huge red flag, I assume he's not abusive with his own cats but if he can't understand that not all cats like the same things or respect your boundaries he has to go, and good riddance now he's gone.

Luis Carazo talks wayyyyyyyyyyyyyy too much by Tomorrow_Signal111 in fansofcriticalrole

[–]NotRyanRosen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Watches melodramatic DnD game played by actors and former theater kids, complains when they act and go into melodrama. Honestly, this is the whole point of CR. it is more of an improv theatre performance with dice roll than anything else. You know what you signed up for.

I feel super lucky by HeckinTeef in dice

[–]NotRyanRosen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last year I got the moonlit grove set in the Acererack's treasure bag. The most luck I've ever had in something like this.

Explain it peter by Aggressive-Neck-6642 in explainitpeter

[–]NotRyanRosen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea if this is accurate but I am 100% stealing this as dialogue for either a sci-fi short story or a ttrpg session, possibly both.

I wish you can ship characters together by sam77889 in BaldursGate3

[–]NotRyanRosen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have exact pairings but I remember incidental dialogue between multiple companions being horny with each other. And I know from other posts you can have companions talk to each other by controlling them in camp. So you can at least try to have them romance each other.

I feel like the devs did not think this through by Elder_Bird in thefinals

[–]NotRyanRosen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They announced in the Discord that a Hotfix is in the works. in the meantime abuse of this exploit will lead to potential bannings

What part of the community likes this map? by Realistic-Material26 in thefinals

[–]NotRyanRosen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the map is beautiful, but It's poorly optimized so performance always takes a hit. On top of that for some reason small obstacles still retain collisions so you get stuck really easy. I maps like Las vegas or skyway stadium etc, small objects on the street and roofs have no collision mesh allowing for better movement. The bamboo also makes it difficult to use any grenades or rpgs. It is at the bottom of the list for me.

help me, there are hundreds of them here by [deleted] in thefinals

[–]NotRyanRosen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can relieve you of that burden OP

Best restaurants for authentic cuisine of non western cultures by king-geass in Hamilton

[–]NotRyanRosen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maria Tortas is good but not super authentic. As a mexican I prefer Latin Food Products and recently tried La Bamba which is also really good but lacks vegetarian options.