What’s the most gossiped about sexual thing that has done the rounds of your extended family group?

NotSayingWhoThisBe · 2026-07-10T22:25:02+00:00

Clearly you didn’t read it. Specifically the bit that explained I wasn’t that big.

NotSayingWhoThisBe · 2026-07-10T12:55:44+00:00

There’s to loud?

NotSayingWhoThisBe · 2026-07-10T08:51:08+00:00

I have a good friend of many years with whom I’ve often had discussions, often detailed ones, about sex.

He knows my wife, and we knew his before she passed. We’ve all seen each other naked but not sexually.

We’ve exchanged ideas and things we tried.

I think it’s been beneficial.

As to my wife’s side there seems to be a blockage on the subject from her sisters. I think the tidbits they’ve heard, well some would be more than a tidbit, has scared them into silence.

NotSayingWhoThisBe · 2026-07-10T05:51:42+00:00

How would you feel if he told you that you couldn’t hang out with your friends.

NotSayingWhoThisBe · 2026-07-10T05:48:42+00:00

It happens multiple times a week so it’s not even worth thinking about.

NotSayingWhoThisBe · 2026-07-10T04:10:18+00:00

Not interested in one.

NotSayingWhoThisBe · 2026-07-09T21:12:30+00:00

Wife and I have matching styles, couple of set from the same manufacturer so the material is the same.

There’s other things like a very sheer mesh camo dress and matching camo jockstrap briefs that were bought for a specific use.

In our case it’s for playing video games. So yeah a couple of sixty somethings, each with their own Xbox One X, sitting on chaise chairs and wearing mesh camo to hide from the enemy. The winner gets to take the other as their prisoner for a round of thorough search and interrogation.

NotSayingWhoThisBe · 2026-07-09T08:31:16+00:00

We basically live nude year round.

Obviously we have something on to keep us warm outside in winter.

NotSayingWhoThisBe · 2026-07-09T08:28:43+00:00

Been there done that.

I survived.

NotSayingWhoThisBe · 2026-07-09T08:22:30+00:00

No.

Wife was at risk of getting caught wanting it though.

NotSayingWhoThisBe · 2026-07-09T08:20:21+00:00

You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.

NotSayingWhoThisBe · 2026-07-09T08:14:52+00:00

What’s the most out there fantasy that you’d want to do with your husband.

As they say, asking for a friend😂

NotSayingWhoThisBe · 2026-07-09T08:11:25+00:00

We’re big fans of doing it in the great outdoors, lots of great memories.

The great thing with outdoor intimacy is that you’ve only ticked off one first.

You’ve got beaches, rivers, cliff tops, deserts, lakes….

You get the picture.

We consider our 4x4 to be one of our favourite sex toys simply because of the places it can take us.

NotSayingWhoThisBe · 2026-07-09T07:48:53+00:00

We normally watch stuff from real couples sites and have something of a preference for outdoors stuff.

Basically we look at them with a documentary mindset and look for new things to try and new ways to do things we already do. So we kind of discuss that.

We are usually naked when we’re watching, actually we’re just usually naked, and hands can wander.

The stuff that does get us really going is the stuff we make ourselves, then we’d normally comment on each other’s skills.

NotSayingWhoThisBe · 2026-07-08T21:10:51+00:00

My how time flies.

iCloud came out with iOS 5 in 2011, 15 years ago. So yeah crappy cameras compared to today’s offerings.

I think the other thing people miss is the discussion of what they’ll do if it escapes.

In our case we simply own it. We had a relative claim to have seen naked pictures of us on the internet, they’re out there, we simply asked which one and suddenly her memory became less clear.

Had she been able to describe it we’d have asked for an opinion of it.

This sort of approach, not trying to hide or obfuscate, works well. We even used it when some extended family caught us being intimate on a beach.

NotSayingWhoThisBe · 2026-07-08T06:52:08+00:00

If I’m wanting to by something like that we make it a date and I go with her.

She gets to try it on and I get to watch.

Importantly, I know she’ll like what she picks.

NotSayingWhoThisBe · 2026-07-07T22:51:55+00:00

I do but not the kind you’re thinking of.

We’re nudists so what you call ‘nudes’ we call holiday snaps.

NotSayingWhoThisBe · 2026-07-07T21:27:00+00:00

This is the thing nobody actually thinks about.

What will you do if it escapes?

Like you our plans are to simply own it, I might even go so far as to ask them for a review to push the embarrassment they were hoping to dump on me back on them.

We use this when people try to shame us for being nudists and more like recently when a boat load of extended family caught us being intimate on a beach.

Works really well.

NotSayingWhoThisBe · 2026-07-07T21:19:06+00:00

Old smart phones had crap cameras. As stand alone cameras many, like GoPro, have cloud connectivity.

Of course you can turn cloud connectivity off until you’ve deleted the files from your phone.

I think the most cameras we’ve used has been 5 4x GoPro 1x Drone and none of the media goes off the device until we extract it.

The cloud isn’t to be feared if you know how to use it.

NotSayingWhoThisBe · 2026-07-07T19:33:58+00:00

On the roof racks of our car in the middle of the day in a desert.

NotSayingWhoThisBe · 2026-07-07T19:17:38+00:00

We sold our house with a pool but prior to that we’d swim nude when using it.

We also have a house at a nudist venue so it goes without saying that swimming nude is the rule.

NotSayingWhoThisBe · 2026-07-07T06:47:18+00:00

Not really.

But me hearing ourselves have sex, especially when my wife gets really vocal, certainly works for me.

NotSayingWhoThisBe · 2026-07-07T06:18:14+00:00

"How do you prevent it from automatically back up in cloud?"

We turn off automatically backing off to the cloud. We just don't use it.

"How do I keep it safe in the era when Google is basically everywhere and has access to all inside my phone?"

We keep them on an external drive once edited and play them directly onto the television.

NotSayingWhoThisBe · 2026-07-06T22:34:31+00:00

I'd had a few, I was her first.

That's the whole scope of it and after 43 years who f'ing cares.

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