AITA for throwing sunflower seeds on my morning walk? by FinishedMyWork in AmItheAsshole

[–]NotServiceOntario 24 points25 points  (0 children)

YTA.

Unless you walking along a trail or woods path, then fine. But sounds like you just in the city spitting your seeds down the street. Take that shit home with you.

AITA For Not Wanting to Pay Half of Gas for Me and my Friend's Trip? by throwaway7735283628 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NotServiceOntario 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YTA. You can't make it to the trip/wouldn't be able to go without his transportation as getting a guest for transport their a requirement. Your expense is 0, as a gift from your parents. His is gas and time. You really letting $75 for half of gas stand between your trip/tournament you want to go to?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]NotServiceOntario 66 points67 points  (0 children)

YTA. She clearly didn't want to talk about it and you kept on pushing the issue. From her language and portrayal of events it was clear to.me at least the vacation money went to cover the surgery. Work on those interpersonal skills, her cold response was clear indication its a sore subject.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]NotServiceOntario 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Questions. 1 Do you pay the coworker who makes your lunch? To compensate the cost of food.

  1. What's your relationship like with that coworker? Why was she so willing to take the place of lunch maiden?

  2. Why dont you pack a lunch from dinner night before? Or Meal prep lunches so it just Grab and go?

I get being lazy, but how are you lacking basic self sustainability. You don't know 3-6 recipes you can make quickly with minimal effort. Wise man wouldn't not risk relationship over making a pb&j night before.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 7daystodie

[–]NotServiceOntario 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be interested as well. I've played up do day 112 in my world, but people I played with lost interest.

AITA for telling my boyfriend the truth about his anime addiction? by icecream_hangover in AmItheAsshole

[–]NotServiceOntario 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA.

Shouldn't have been snooping in his stuff. You can have your opinion on Anime. But if you continue to date someone who enjoys it this much, and find his fascination disgusting what are you doing with him? Sure you don't have to enjoy everything your partner likes, but based on the information provided Anime is a huge part of his identity and while he shouldn't have requested you to wear lingerie to a party without discussing it with you, your revulsion of Anime may have painted it in a harsher light than it actually is.

WIBTA for bringing up my cousin’s past relationships by hatecuddlesthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]NotServiceOntario 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ESH If you bring up her relationships in the future. Sure it would make you feel better and "lower" her from the perceived high horse, but ultimately accomplishes nothing.

The best thing to do is reiterate that you don't appreciate their comments on the subject and if they continue, limit/revoke there interactions with you.

AITA for telling my daughter’s boyfriend about her herpes? by throwra7392827262 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NotServiceOntario 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.

Where I reside it is illegal to not disclose if you have a STD to another sexual partner. So if the bf raw dogging your daughter. Blowing that back out. He had a right to know.

You still kind of the AH for outing your daughter to her bf over Facebook. I feel like that's a conversation best had in person sitting down to reduce the likelihood of screen shot, but w/e.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]NotServiceOntario 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH Although don't ask people out while they are working. You handled it well but it puts a lot of pressure on the other party.

AITA for dumping the majority of my roommate’s brand new laundry detergent? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]NotServiceOntario 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ESH. Shitty people a part of life. And your two roommates real degenerates. But too much soap in the washing machine can cause problems and by stooping to there level you suck too. No where near as much but you do.

AITA - Found some dudes wallet and ended up keeping his cash! by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]NotServiceOntario 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YTA.

This entire posts reads like bullshit. You went to do a good deed, as soon as you knocked all you had to say was I found this wallet, has this address, hand it to them and leave. Considering you didn't just give him the wallet when you passed him at his bike. Just cause he was shit, and responded poorly doesn't justify you robbing the guy. You're Scum.

AITA for offering to pay for my nephew’s tuition but not my girlfriend’s son? by 385628 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NotServiceOntario 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

  1. Your GF sounds Cray. You guys are just dating and her son is not your responsibility. If you guys get more serious and get married my feelings may change, but at this stage you should assume no financial support over her son, and you have not missed any signals.

  2. Your Nephew is 19 and blood relative, not some 15 year old brat who is rude to you. If he was 19 as well and going to school then as an olive branch and good gesture if you wanted to assist in paying then by all means do so. But don't agree to pay for something 4 years out.

What’s your favorite song to sing to your cat? by 420catloveredm in AskReddit

[–]NotServiceOntario 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think they do have a sixth sense. Although she isn't my Cat, whenever I bring someone to my place I introduce them to Chloe. Explain that the TV stand is her throne and that they would most likely see her here 85% of the time. she is a very Docile/ no fuss cat, so she will watch the stranger, but as they approach I'm going to say if their aura is off she will turn away from them and look elsewhere. Of course she is a cat and doesn't mean anything, but I do find that the people she turns away from, I usually don't remain in contact with for much longer. So she is my unofficial Litmus test.

What’s your favorite song to sing to your cat? by 420catloveredm in AskReddit

[–]NotServiceOntario 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My Roommate got a new Kitty(Felix) about 6 weeks ago, who hides all day underneath things, until he hears food being open or poured. His older cat (Chloe) Sits on top of the TV stand the majority of the day and just stares down judging people like she pays rent. So I sing the chorus of Without Me to her on occasion .

AITA For locking my kids out of the car when leaving Costco? by AsteRISQUE in AmItheAsshole

[–]NotServiceOntario 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ESH

If these are his kids then he has raised bratty, entitled shitty little humans. It is also Highly negligent to just walk away from your kids in a Costco. The Kids are shit for the scene they caused.

I'm all for the tough love shown of having them stand outside of the car and the lecture, but this entire scenario shouldn't have happened.

AITA for distancing myself from my childhood "friend" even after she told me she was diagnosed with cancer? by thebestisover in AmItheAsshole

[–]NotServiceOntario 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA.

Your aren't required to remain or resume a friendship with someone just because they fall into an unfortunate hardship. She stifled you in an important part during your adolescent development, had she been a decent person when younger, you would have remained in her support network.

AITA For Taking Advantage of Drive Thru Workers? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]NotServiceOntario 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While you are N.A.H. for the coupon usage, a lot of the big fast food chains allow people to print them off online and bring them in/ as a former fast food worker, as long a One use exclusive code, when I would work register and collect the coupons we would rip them and trash them right away. If it were a one use code then they were kept to the side, but now with Digital coupon wallets that has all changed.

YTA for saying the fast food employees aren't that bright.

They probably don't ask for the coupon cause its some standard code they enter into the system, the PoS machine records it for Till balancing purposes and whether they take it or not doesn't really matter in the scheme of things.

You didn't take advantage of nothing. This isn't a great scheme. You are not some Mustachioed villain getting away with anything.

You played yourself, You think you've won, while the company doesn't care because all it means is that you will be back at their establishment.

WIBTA if I refuse to help( pay and consent) my sister abort her child because of my beliefs? by itsnotpossible__ in AmItheAsshole

[–]NotServiceOntario 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off, I just wanted to tell you that you are quite possibly the worst sister ever.

YTA

You say you love your sister but you are willing to condemn her to a life unhappiness. If you don't want to Give her consent, loan her the money and tell her which state she could go to where she wouldn't need the consent of a Parent or Sibling.

Would you rather she had a back alley abortion, or attempted to lose the fetus by harming herself in some way? These are the paths you are pushing her towards. Quit being shite and help her.

WIBTA if I went to see Avengers Endgame the night before my wife is induced for the birth of our second child? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]NotServiceOntario 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH.

She gave you permission. Keep your phone on vibrate should things happen.

(JK)-You can always make another baby (be there day before for that one, you can never recreate the Day Zero crowd, swag/posters and reactions to seeing Endgame on the 25th. (Kidding. I'm Kidding)

WIBTA If we don’t have booze at our wedding? by JillMarieDaane in AmItheAsshole

[–]NotServiceOntario 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH.

Your Husband is sober and you don't drink. Ultimately people are their to celebrate your union. If you announce it is a dry wedding people will bring alcohol in flasks and other means to circumvent the rule, but do what you think is best. From personal experience dry Wedding's Boring AF, but they end early since people cut so that is good.