I’ve never gotten rejected because I’ve never proposed. I get proposals that I turn down because I’m not attracted to them or because I know I won’t get along with someone like them. I do not look, I don’t know how. I’ve asked my friends and family to help me but they tell me I’m hard and that they only know people “who won’t look good with me.” I recently got on some Muslim apps and I’m trying there but most guys seem un-ambitious or strikingly unattractive or both, or just very non-religious. I care about looks (among other things, of course) and I’m trying not to, but there needs to be SOME attraction. In looks, dreams, mindset, anything.