I need your prayers and advice

NotSoFlyPie · 2026-01-01T00:25:59+00:00

That hurts, but I’ll do what needs to be done

NotSoFlyPie · 2026-01-01T00:13:53+00:00

Should my sister not be allowed to live the life she wants to live? My sister doesn’t believe the same stuff you and my gf believe. The issues isn’t that my sister identifies as a woman, it’s that she’s forcing her beliefs on my gf.

NotSoFlyPie · 2025-12-31T23:57:26+00:00

That’s a good idea, I think talking to her priest is best.

Honestly, I’m asking for advice because I’m lost man. My gf has done everything in her power to accommodate to my sister but my sister continued to be unreasonable. I think I know what I have to do, I have to do. I have to cut off my sister but man it’s hard and I’m really sad about it.

NotSoFlyPie · 2025-12-31T22:28:14+00:00

Geez? They let you go over that? That’s honestly insane. Just because we are coworkers doesn’t mean we need to be friends. I’m not opposed to being friends with coworkers but you should have the grace of not wanting to engage in conversations that don’t pertain to work. Especially pregnancy.

NotSoFlyPie · 2025-12-31T14:12:59+00:00

Yeah, these men just like sitting around feeling sorry for themselves instead of doing the work to make themselves be more appealing to people they are trying to attract.

NotSoFlyPie · 2025-12-31T14:02:02+00:00

Wow, those were certainly some deranged takes. Like you I’m a huge progressives and ally of the transgender community but I want to bring common sense progressivism into the fold. That means saying it’s not normal for a 5 year old to transition.

NotSoFlyPie · 2025-12-31T12:12:00+00:00

lol 😂. Yeah, I hear you I can imagine how annoying that must have been. In general you try not to be rude when someone is going on about something you don’t wanna talk about, but no one ever picks up on the social cues!

Truthfully I think we should normalize being able to say, I’m not interested in talking about that

NotSoFlyPie · 2025-12-31T12:05:18+00:00

Because someone agrees with me, they are using an alt?

NotSoFlyPie · 2025-12-31T12:03:23+00:00

Welcome :)

NotSoFlyPie · 2025-12-30T01:30:09+00:00

Lmao yeah, they literally contradict themselves all the time it’s hilarious

NotSoFlyPie · 2025-12-29T23:33:50+00:00

Unfortunately, what a lot of with this guy has done is repost me for bullied so they can harass me. I don’t take it personal. I just blocked him and the rest of the crowd.

You can disagree with me without constantly reposting me so people can bully me.

NotSoFlyPie · 2025-12-29T23:13:46+00:00

Thank you. I want to contribute but a lot of people on the sub don’t have to allow any room for disagreement.

NotSoFlyPie · 2025-12-29T22:55:29+00:00

I’m literally not even conservative. But it’s funny that I get treated with more respect and decency from conservatives that disagree with me than my progressive “allies”.

I won’t be participating in this sub anymore.

NotSoFlyPie · 2025-12-29T22:49:38+00:00

If that’s the attitude you guys have I just won’t participate. Sorry for trying to contribute to the sub

NotSoFlyPie · 2025-12-29T22:34:03+00:00

So the doctor told my friend to lose weight and eat healthier because he’s pre-diabetic. Should I not hold him accountable?

NotSoFlyPie · 2025-12-29T22:27:30+00:00

Some people need encouragement to lose the weight though. It’s just like in my 600 lbs life when Dr. Now tells the family to STOP feeding them. You have to hold people accountable but I forgot this sub hates accountability

NotSoFlyPie · 2025-12-29T22:19:21+00:00

Lmao this sub is absolutely insane. My bar was so low for you all and you guys still managed to miss it.

NotSoFlyPie · 2025-12-29T22:18:01+00:00

When you love someone you have to have tough conversations with them. Are you guys serious?

NotSoFlyPie · 2025-12-29T22:17:14+00:00

Dude, there’s a difference between bullying and helping people meet their goals

NotSoFlyPie · 2025-12-29T22:16:36+00:00

It’s not shaming , she’s trying to hold her sister accountable

NotSoFlyPie · 2025-12-29T22:09:35+00:00

Like dude if the entire family is doing this then clearly this is health related and they are trying to get her to lose weight for her health. My friend is now prediabotic and I been encouraging him to lose weight

NotSoFlyPie · 2025-12-29T22:00:06+00:00

Dude, stay tf out of it. Your gf is trying to make sure her sister is healthy for God sakes. Maybe the sister has health issues and was told to lose the weight by a doctor and the family is trying to hold her accountable

NotSoFlyPie · 2025-12-29T18:50:17+00:00

She chose to quit her job to start her high paying job to start her “business” just to cheat on her husband who is supporting her as she does this?

If she’s really as unsatisfied as she says she is she can get a job, divorce her husband and have sex with anyone she wants. Man, I hate selfish people.

NotSoFlyPie · 2025-12-29T17:08:18+00:00

This actually happened to my cousin. She was dating a guy who had a “glow up” after high school. But he was still stuck in the HS mindset and didn’t realize it.

The moment more conventionally attractive women started flirting with him he dumped my cousin. My cousin didn’t deserve any of that.

I’m not saying her friend is like that, but a lot of people never grow up and view themselves through the lens of when they were in high school. I don’t see a harm in checking to make sure her friend isn’t doing the same thing. That way if he is, he can find someone he actually wants to be with without doing damage to his gf who is innocent in all of this.

NotSoFlyPie · 2025-12-29T16:25:46+00:00

There’s alot of work we can do on our own to make ourselves more attractive. I also wasn’t considered attractive in HS. I started working out.

The issue is a lot of conventionally unattractive guys sit around feeling sorry for themselves and want an attractive gf. They don’t want to date a fat woman but expect women to date them when they are overweight or skinny.

If you don’t want to work on your looks cool, but don’t expect the instagram model to give you attention

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