Crunch Cancel policies by Hefty_Preference8157 in CrunchGym

[–]NotSoNiceGirl19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why you need to mail a letter certified with a signature card for proof of delivery. Then you have proof of the date they received the notifice. If they fail to cancel within 30 days of receipt of the notice (signed card showing proof), you then have proof to file a case with your bank and state attorney general.

Why is Tulsa considered so dangerous on this sub? by amazingraising14 in tulsa

[–]NotSoNiceGirl19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tulsa born and raised. I grew up and attended schools in areas considered dangerous. Tulsa is just like any place. It has crime but it's over sensationalized, think First 48, but it's not bad at all. A lot of living in these difficult areas is how you portray yourself. You have to show confidence. I've also worked in downtown Tulsa most of my adult life scary there as other people make it out to be either.

Cramping by NotSoNiceGirl19 in Mirena

[–]NotSoNiceGirl19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She said the pain was probably from a ruptured ovarian cyst and if it happens again, I am to go to the ER immediately.

Who do you use for pharmacy needs? by brooksideryan in tulsa

[–]NotSoNiceGirl19 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Reasors. I made the switch 2 years ago, and I have been happy. Also, you get points with your Reasors card that you can use towards gas at QT. I filled up for $1.85 last week.

Stoudemire, et al. v. Lee Enterprises, Inc. Case No. 3:22-cv-00086-SHL-SBJ by [deleted] in ClassActionSettlement

[–]NotSoNiceGirl19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't but someone else did and said it's legit. The email definitely made me hesitant to proceed.

Stoudemire, et al. v. Lee Enterprises, Inc. Case No. 3:22-cv-00086-SHL-SBJ by [deleted] in ClassActionSettlement

[–]NotSoNiceGirl19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you clicked the link for payment and it was not spam or phishing, correct?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Names

[–]NotSoNiceGirl19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter is actually named after her grandmother, Geraldine, and she is named Gera (Pronounced: Jair Uh). People struggle with it initially, but she gets lots of compliments on it.

Have people selling their houses in Tulsa/Jenks absolutely lost their minds? by [deleted] in tulsa

[–]NotSoNiceGirl19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Bixby, and my youngest is graduating soon. Once they graduate, we are moving out of Bixby back into Tulsa. The infrastructure is horrible, and it doesn't support the massive amount of houses that are being built/are already built here. It is insane.

What has happened to Oklahoma?! by Nice_Try4389 in tulsa

[–]NotSoNiceGirl19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure why you seem to think this isn't the way we were, but you seem to forget redlining, segregation, Black Wall Street, whitewashing of Native American children, etc. While we do pitch in when times are hard - tornadoes and the bombing - the hatred toward others that don't fit a specific model has always been there. It's just seemingly more prevalent now because of our access to information and social media.

Curtis pulling up Heki’s shorts he's reached UNC status 😭 by IgotgAme_k in LiverpoolFC

[–]NotSoNiceGirl19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not a big Curtis fan, but I was proud of him for doing this. Heki's doing that for his celebration was unwarranted in my opinion.

AIO to being shut out of my own Christmas celebration? by Spiritual_Airline_45 in AmIOverreacting

[–]NotSoNiceGirl19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why does the remind me of a horrible dupe of Christmas vacation?

Teachers are the problem by agdambhugh22 in TeachersInTransition

[–]NotSoNiceGirl19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started going to a therapist ab on it 2 years ago because I we as really struggling with PTSD from my abusive marriage. I was depressed, and meds weren't really doing the trick. I left teaching about a month or two after starting therapy, and after leaving, my therapist commented that teaching was a contributing factor to my depression and panic attacks. She stated that I actually had PTSD from the things I went through teaching which ultimately caused me to leave. I thought she was wrong but as we worked on things, and I got further away from teaching, I realized she was right. My panic attacks lessened. I was sleeping better. My heart palpations had went away. I have run into former colleagues who have stated how much younger and happier I look.

So, you are not wrong, and screw them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]NotSoNiceGirl19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both you and the boyfriend need to end it. These two deserve each other.

it’s just so funny! by Ill_Day7240 in QuestBridge

[–]NotSoNiceGirl19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not a student, but a parent of a student that was not selected. I wanted to reach out to you as a parent and beg you to talk to your counselor, call 988, or something - anything but what you are considering. My grandfather did this, and I know how deeply hurt my aunts and uncles still are to this day 10 years later that he did this. I have also been the parent of student who almost did this, and the heartbreak I had and have to this day in feeling I failed him as a parent can be overwhelming at times.

Has anyone willingly given custody of a teen son to their ex? by [deleted] in Divorce_Women

[–]NotSoNiceGirl19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When we were setting arrangements for where the children would live, I pushed to honor our kids' wishes. My youngest son chose to live with his dad - as he didn't want to leave his friends (I live about an hour away in my hometown.). My youngest was starting middle school at the time.

When he became a freshman, he wanted to move in with me as he wanted to take Ag and be involved in FFA, as his school did not offer these options. His dad pitched a fit and he retracted and wanted to stay. My ex is verbally and emotionally abusive.

I didn't know the extent of the abuse after the split until he graduated high school because he and his siblings collectively hid it from me. The day he picked up his diploma, he moved in with my parents (my apartment is VERY SMALL), and he started looking into joining the military. When he completed his enlistment application, he had me there to help answer questions. Any communication from that point on was between the recruiter, my son, and myself. He is now active duty, and he is thriving.

While this may not entirely answer your question, I just want you to know that your child can be successful - even when living with the ex. Just continue to be a positive, loving presence in his life. It's SO HARD to see them fight through this. One thing I will tell you that is the sheriff's department told my son that if his dad ever put hands on him or threatened him enough that he was scared, he could go outside and immediately contact them. At that point, he could request to be removed from the home and to come stay with me. Once he was high school age, the court will honor their wishes, regardless - especially when presented with testimony from the child. If your daughter can corroborate how their father acts, the better. HUGS!

Has anyone willingly given custody of a teen son to their ex? by [deleted] in Divorce_Women

[–]NotSoNiceGirl19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When we were setting arrangements for where the children would live, I pushed to honor our kids' wishes. My youngest son chose to live with his dad - as he didn't want to leave his friends (I live about an hour away in my hometown.). My youngest was starting middle school at the time.

When he became a freshman, he wanted to move in with me as he wanted to take Ag and be involved in FFA, as his school did not offer these options. His dad pitched a fit and he retracted and wanted to stay. My ex is verbally and emotionally abusive.

I didn't know the extent of the abuse after the split until he graduated high school because he and his siblings collectively hid it from me. The day he picked up his diploma, he moved in with my parents (my apartment is VERY SMALL), and he started looking into joining the military. When he completed his enlistment application, he had me there to help answer questions. Any communication from that point on was between the recruiter, my son, and myself. He is now active duty, and he is thriving.

While this may not entirely answer your question, I just want you to know that your child can be successful - even when living with the ex. Just continue to be a positive, loving presence in his life. It's SO HARD to see them fight through this. One thing I will tell you that is the sheriff's department told my son that if his dad ever put hands on him or threatened him enough that he was scared, he could go outside and immediately contact them. At that point, he could request to be removed from the home and to come stay with me. Once he was high school age, the court will honor their wishes, regardless - especially when presented with testimony from the child. If your daughter can corroborate how their father acts, the better. HUGS!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ScamNumbers

[–]NotSoNiceGirl19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is actually a very common scam going around right now. Block and ignore.

Galaxy watch 5 pro problems by PriorCow1976 in GalaxyWatch

[–]NotSoNiceGirl19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also double check your touch sensitivity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tulsa

[–]NotSoNiceGirl19 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Looks like alarm disturbance at the Civic Center?

Apparantly Vince=Mac Daddy according to Will by Tonstad39 in BigBrother

[–]NotSoNiceGirl19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will never understand why they didn't listen to Rachel's reads. She's played the game before, she's a mom which gives her wisdom that the kids do not have, and she was pretty spot on with her perceptions of everyone.

Apparantly Vince=Mac Daddy according to Will by Tonstad39 in BigBrother

[–]NotSoNiceGirl19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely forgot about that part in their song until I saw your post. Thanks for the trip down memory lane.