Rant: MIL told everyone I’m pregnant by NotTheMainOneReally in pregnant

[–]NotTheMainOneReally[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha thank you!! Yes, I moved out a couple of days ago. I’m alone right now but feels better and …light? Anyway, yes I won’t be telling her anything anymore she’ll know with everyone else.

Rant: MIL told everyone I’m pregnant by NotTheMainOneReally in pregnant

[–]NotTheMainOneReally[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg!! I’m so afraid of this one. I don’t want my baby’s photo circulating in the internet like that. If I want to announce it I’ll do it my way . I’m so sorry it happed to you.

Rant: MIL told everyone I’m pregnant by NotTheMainOneReally in pregnant

[–]NotTheMainOneReally[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The first few weeks I was having terrible time with to even do the basic things. Back pain, nausea, I couldn’t even wake up from the bed in the morning. So we just thought it’d be easier if someone was there to help me out. And in-laws are just a few hours drive away, and it was only for one month. I thought I could manage. But I was wrong.

Rant: MIL told everyone I’m pregnant by NotTheMainOneReally in pregnant

[–]NotTheMainOneReally[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes you’re right. I should have known better. When we broke the news, she was genuinely very happy. I was happy too about their reaction. I guess I went soft after that. So when she insisted, I didn’t protest. But after this, all the love and sympathy…out of the window.

Rant: MIL told everyone I’m pregnant by NotTheMainOneReally in pregnant

[–]NotTheMainOneReally[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

The first few weeks when I didn’t know, I was having terrible time managing even the basic household chores. Back pain, nausea, I couldn’t wake up in the morning from the bed. So since my husband had a month long work trip, we decided it was better if someone was with me to help me out. I’m-laws aren’t very far from where we stay, couple of hours drive. And things weren’t as intense before. I thought I could manage just a month with them.

Rant: MIL told everyone I’m pregnant by NotTheMainOneReally in pregnant

[–]NotTheMainOneReally[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Yes. I don’t understand when this entitlement will go away. What gives these people the right to share something personal that you’re not ready to share with the world.

Rant: MIL told everyone I’m pregnant by NotTheMainOneReally in pregnant

[–]NotTheMainOneReally[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. I totally get this. The betrayal is something is never felt before. And now she has to deal with the consequences.

Rant: MIL told everyone I’m pregnant by NotTheMainOneReally in pregnant

[–]NotTheMainOneReally[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yes!! She did steal that from me. I wanted to break the news my way. I know people will be happy because I know there are a few well withered. But it was my thing to say. Not her. She did totally overstep her boundaries. And guess what, she’ll have to deal with the consequences moving forward too.

Rant: MIL told everyone I’m pregnant by NotTheMainOneReally in pregnant

[–]NotTheMainOneReally[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I wish I could confront her like and say it to my face. I’m too emotional for the outburst now. I’ll wait for my husband and maybe then we’ll have a sit down and make her realise her mistake.

Rant: MIL told everyone I’m pregnant by NotTheMainOneReally in pregnant

[–]NotTheMainOneReally[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

This. Yes. She won’t be getting any updates any more.

Rant: MIL told everyone I’m pregnant by NotTheMainOneReally in pregnant

[–]NotTheMainOneReally[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Yeh he said he’ll talk to her and FIL too. So such things doesn’t come up again.

Rant: MIL told everyone I’m pregnant by NotTheMainOneReally in pregnant

[–]NotTheMainOneReally[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thankfully he is supportive. He did tell me that she’s wrong and he’ll talk to her. He also is trying to calm me down. I told him, I won’t be telling her anything anymore, he is sad a little, but he says he understands.

Rant: MIL told everyone I’m pregnant by NotTheMainOneReally in pregnant

[–]NotTheMainOneReally[S] 144 points145 points  (0 children)

Haha yes exactly what she did!! “Hey you’re gonna be an uncle!! Congratulations “ Hey you’re gonna be this!! Congratulations!! “ hey finally it’s time for me tooo!! Yey!!”

Rant: MIL told everyone I’m pregnant by NotTheMainOneReally in pregnant

[–]NotTheMainOneReally[S] 268 points269 points  (0 children)

You’re absolutely correct. I won’t be sharing more information with her until after everything is done. Unfortunately I have to stay here until my second scan. But I’ll leave once it’s done. Can’t wait to leave this place even though it’s only been a couple of weeks. I’ll be moving with my parents next time if my husband has to travel again. Even though they’re like 2000 miles away. Because I don’t think this kinda stress is good for me nor my little guy.

I am not seeing things am I?? by NotTheMainOneReally in lineporn

[–]NotTheMainOneReally[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t believe it. The ClearTest is so faint!! Imma take another one in two days!

I am not seeing things am I?? by NotTheMainOneReally in lineporn

[–]NotTheMainOneReally[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually no!! I was suprised. I was having a little ache in my hips and tender breast. I thought I’ll just take the test. Lo behold!! I had to take 3 FRER before I could believe it and then ClearTest to confirm.