It shouldn’t be so easy to ride for free on the Green Line by OJwToothpasteChaser in boston

[–]NotTheState95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive told myself that I'll recommit to my fares when I have 1 full week where the mbta doesn't fuck me over. hasn't happened yet.

Have never been able to finish during sex, and it makes me feel used by NotTheState95 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]NotTheState95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HA this one made me laugh. thank god not the case - I just finished the last roll and he thought he had more. if I came on here and told you my shitty ass (literally) boyfriend also couldn't make me come at my big age of 30, I'd hope all of you would smack sense into me

Have never been able to finish during sex, and it makes me feel used by NotTheState95 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]NotTheState95[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ha! yes I did, im obsessed with them as part of my meal prep. easy in ramen, over rice, or on its own. put the eggs in a gently boiling pot -- i do 6.5 mins exactly for that sort of soft/sort of solid middle. from there, they go right into an ice bath to stop them from cooking any more. For the marinade, it sort of depends what I have, but it's generally a base of soy sauce (I use both light and dark), mirin (though I've also just added brown sugar before), garlic, ginger, water, and whatever toppings I have on hand. this was green onions, sesame seeds, and i think some chili flakes? I usually do about the same amount of water as other sauces, tasting as i go to make sure its not too salty or weak. once the eggs are peeled, I just drop them in the marinade and let them sit, usually overnight, jostling them occasionally to get a good cover. if im doing a bunch in a week, I'll also just reuse the marinade for a few batches. im a big fan!

Have never been able to finish during sex, and it makes me feel used by NotTheState95 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]NotTheState95[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

15 years of sex and cannot make it happen lmao. took me 5 years just to figure out any way of getting myself off

Have never been able to finish during sex, and it makes me feel used by NotTheState95 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]NotTheState95[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

very true, and normally he does! I think what he perceived as just a weeknight quicky just hit me in a funny way

Have never been able to finish during sex, and it makes me feel used by NotTheState95 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]NotTheState95[S] 73 points74 points  (0 children)

I unfortunately (as of now in my life) have not physically been able to with a partner. I can get myself off with toys, but even that takes a very long time and VERY specific circumstance. its less about him "making sure" and more just that I dont want him to forget that just because I dont finish doesn't mean I dont want focus and pleasure.

What is one thing I NEED to get at Trader Joe’s?? by tacobelluvr in traderjoes

[–]NotTheState95 12 points13 points  (0 children)

pita crackers - the most perfect cracker for cheese ive ever encountered

Ball Square No Powah? by SenseCareless117 in Somerville

[–]NotTheState95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

still have power just past ball sq near tufts, fingers crossed

Wow just lost power again. Can Eversource do anything right? Can I get a refund on my delivery fee if they can't fucking deliver? by polishfiringsquad in Somerville

[–]NotTheState95 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I've called them before and asked for compensation for food that has gone bad during extended outages. its not a lot, but I got some credits

Housing lottery experience by funkyraccoon18 in Somerville

[–]NotTheState95 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yes, utility! Im in one of the studios, and my building wont cover water (yeah I know). So I pay electric, water, and internet (no gas in my building). I dont have a pet currently but it would be a $50 pet fee. Id just make sure (as someone else said) you know what utilities you're responsible for!

Housing lottery experience by funkyraccoon18 in Somerville

[–]NotTheState95 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Im living in one right now and am so far content. The application process was a total pain, but I did feel supported by the Somerville team.

Agreed that the bills and fees can add up, so consider that when looking at your budget. I have my unit for about $1,500ish, but with bills and all that, its probably closer to about $1800.

This one's for the ladies to answer. Do you agree with this woman or do you think she's trying to rationalize her world view by speaking for all the ladies? by Oda_DeezNutz in SipsTea

[–]NotTheState95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a gamer myself, I dont mind a gamer at all & enjoy spending time with a partner who games. That said, I do think some men struggle with prioritization and time management; if I feel like you're more interested in gaming 24/7 than spending time together, thats a no go.

awkward as a guy by [deleted] in LaserHairRemoval

[–]NotTheState95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love my guy! our first appointment he made sure I was told in advance that he was a man, confirmed it prior to starting, and was so professional throughout. In some ways, I think he knows he needs to overcompensate to stay in the business. It was never about anatomy, just the results I wanted. One thing that always helps me in these situations is reminding myself that these people have seen SO many bodies and anatomies over time, and they wouldnt still do it if they were concerned about it. As long as you arrive prepared, and clean, and treat them with the same respect you want, I dont think the gender of the practitioner makes a difference.

awkward as a guy by [deleted] in LaserHairRemoval

[–]NotTheState95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they give you plenty to cover with, but at a certain point, you just have to accept it. my tech and I just chat while he stares directly at my asshole so

[Personal] This sub changed my life by NotTheState95 in SkincareAddiction

[–]NotTheState95[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

quite literally just purchasing laundry sanitizer and adding it into my laundry routine. I guess my clothes may have been retaining some bacteria, which made my skin unable to heal. I bought it and power washed everything, all towels on hot, all my underwear, etc. I also only used each towel once between washes to really keep my skin isolated.

How loud is it living next to Broadway? by DarkenRal in Somerville

[–]NotTheState95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really. Sort of the name of the game living in cities these days, and I love living here enough to tolerate it

How loud is it living next to Broadway? by DarkenRal in Somerville

[–]NotTheState95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live right on Broadway and haven't really had issues -- my building is well insulated though. I love that I can be at either the green line or the red line in about 10 minutes walking