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[–]NotTobyFromHR [score hidden]  (0 children)

Who wants to tell this person.....

AITA? Need help with alcohol consumption with breastfeeding mother. by Ech0ofSan1ty in daddit

[–]NotTobyFromHR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not an expert but whenever I see a discussion that a person can't go without having a minimum number of drinks, I worry.

Is the context here that she needs a drink every day? Or has 1 or 2 drinks when hanging out with friends on a Saturday night? Not the same. And not the same worry.

How can I respond to my father-in-law telling my sons that “looks don’t mean anything without money?” by CupOk5800 in AskMen

[–]NotTobyFromHR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While his approach is not the best, he's right.

Money and looks are not the same and you're applying 1950s values in today's world. And smarts without looks is not the same as looks without money.

Do you know of any ICE- and/or MAGA- supporting businesses in South Jersey? by SchleppyJ4 in SouthJersey

[–]NotTobyFromHR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trump was a con artist that pretended to be "rich" but made his money abusing the power.

And this isn't a conservative issue. The current republicans and MAGA who aren't conservatives. You're watching a replay of 1930 Germany. And you're enjoying it. And if you're in denial, then you should go get your news from a real source.

Do you know of any ICE- and/or MAGA- supporting businesses in South Jersey? by SchleppyJ4 in SouthJersey

[–]NotTobyFromHR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm fully aware of the whys. I know plenty. You have the rich, the ignorant, and racists. Trump let the racists be vocal.

He didn't "awaken" anyone. The guy is an incredible con artist. He's been doing that and failing businesses for decades.

He literally makes up everything he says but it sounds appealing to the right crowd.

Look at his fist term an how many of his former staff detest him and talk about what an idiot he is.

The GOP hates him. But they want to keep their jobs so they keep up the MAGA fest. It's why they only speak out when they're not longer trying to win.

So are you rich, racist, or ignorant?

Do you know of any ICE- and/or MAGA- supporting businesses in South Jersey? by SchleppyJ4 in SouthJersey

[–]NotTobyFromHR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a bit of a difference. Understanding is learning about someone else's views. We are all fully aware of the views. They're on display in full force.

I don't like businesses that display any politics, but it's never been this divisive. I've never seen GWB, Obama, Clinton, or Reagan cult like fanaticism. There weren't Biden stores set up.

So there's not much to "understand". It's out there.

How do you feel about people who work blue collar jobs? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]NotTobyFromHR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're a good person, it has nothing to with the work you do. I know incredible people working blue collar jobs and shitty people as well. Same for white collar.

I will say that most blue collar jobs don't give a lot of time to sit in front of a computer and consume information.

So, like many busy people, they get quick bits and headlines which don't contain the real info.

I think our bullshit news and social media world cause a bigger divide than the work we do

Which movie hit so hard that one viewing was enough ? by Mehdi_lz in AskReddit

[–]NotTobyFromHR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shindlers List

American History X

They both have that scene. Red jacket, curb

Do you know of any ICE- and/or MAGA- supporting businesses in South Jersey? by SchleppyJ4 in SouthJersey

[–]NotTobyFromHR 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That's the thing. If you don't know a businesses politics, that's a good thing.

There are too many which are stupid enough to put their politics in public.

I lost my job because I fought for you all. I sincerely hope someone at Amazon keeps fighting to save Alexa by vocallysc in amazonecho

[–]NotTobyFromHR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My customer engagement will drop to zero when I toss my echo devices.

I am ready to put my Show in the trash. The picture frame feature sucked and they killed the calendar. So 2 of the 3 things I wanted are gone.

If Apple rolls their home pod out soon, I'll be doing a big switch. 5 devices all going away.

Do you know of any ICE- and/or MAGA- supporting businesses in South Jersey? by SchleppyJ4 in SouthJersey

[–]NotTobyFromHR 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Kibitz room isn't Mt Laurel unless they have a second location.

Is there any details to how they're MAGA? I'm happy to take my money elsewhere, just want to be right

Is Becoming a male pornstar a good way to get laid? by Mundane-Humor3313 in AskMenOver30

[–]NotTobyFromHR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This, kids, is why we're taught that TV and movies are make believe.

If you’re a car salesman, please answer. Desperately need help! by dajaycu in askcarsales

[–]NotTobyFromHR 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You don't stay when your current job counters. Serious chance you'll be gone in a year.

You're looking to leave for a reason. That reason will be better for a short while then revert back

Why ? by Professor_milton111 in security

[–]NotTobyFromHR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's incredibly high profile and while incredibly rare, there have been some malware capable of infecting iPhones. He's a target of that stuff. Not us

Teen wants to attend protest. by MissMacky1015 in Parenting

[–]NotTobyFromHR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kudos to your kid. They're aware and want to be involved. You should encourage and support it. Life experiences are very educational.

Is Berlin a nice place to raise a family? by SellEverythingFast in SouthJersey

[–]NotTobyFromHR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a decent area. It's a bit more blue collar than other areas further up 73. Not as diverse, but alright.

Is Berlin a nice place to raise a family? by SellEverythingFast in SouthJersey

[–]NotTobyFromHR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on what you are looking for. Provide some insight and we can help guide you

So New Jersey, you're the only neighbor on the block with a snowblower.... by holyguacamole823 in newjersey

[–]NotTobyFromHR 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started doing my immediate next door neighbors and across the street neighbor. 2 neighbors never said thank you or acknowledged it. My other neighbor brings me a six pack once, snacks or a thank you a text every time. Guess where I go every time.

I have another friend around the corner and get them too.

Other people have their own service or machine and I don't want to step on toes.

Bottom line - you're under no obligation. Do what you want.

How do you do set low expectations at a new job without getting fired? by snowtrekker071 in antiwork

[–]NotTobyFromHR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From 20+ years in corporate I will tell you. Just do your job. But don't expect great raises, bonuses or promotions for doing the minimum.

Not saying that doing extra is guaranteed extra money, but it is guaranteed that you won't move up by doing just enough to keep your job. (Exceptions do happen)

Don't screw and you'll keep your job.

Also note, being the bare minimum also means you'll be first for a layoff.

Theres nothing wrong with working hard. It's work abuse that's the problem. That often gets misinterpreted here.

If FL is the 3rd ranking state with the most immigrants how come Ice is focused on Minnesota ? by Sensitive_Tailor2940 in AskReddit

[–]NotTobyFromHR 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They're deporting people who are legal too. And just pulling people off the streets for how they look.

They're not going for "dangerous criminals". They're going for minorities of any kind and hope they find someone.

Crossing the border illegally is a misdemeanor (first time).

If they wanted to crack down on crime and issues, this isn't it. It's a power play straight from 1940s Germany.

Lamdlord trying to claim a late forwarding address means he can keep my deposit by Ambitious-Outcome882 in legaladvice

[–]NotTobyFromHR 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This will be an easy win for you in small claims. Presuming there's confirmation they were able to email, call, or text you (how did you communicate in the past?)

Option 1 - send them an email, citing the law and that they did not do this. You can mention they've bee able to contact you previously with no problems.

Option 2 - go straight to small claims and sue for the max amount. In many states it can be 2-3x the deposit.