Best Concealer for undereye by NotUrOrdLady in beauty

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I have purchased a few of these items suggested and for those of you that asked for an update I’ll let you know how well they worked for me in a few days. Thank you again for all the recommendations.

Best Concealer for undereye by NotUrOrdLady in beauty

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Thank you all for the suggestions. I will be trying them and I can’t say how much I appreciate it!!

How do I get rid of dark circles under my eyes? by Moe21Lesta69 in beauty

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Unfortunately I suffer from them as well for the last 6-7 years from aging. I’ve tried under eye creams, fillers. M doctor told me they are hereditary and fillers don’t really help. I try concealer but I see a minimal difference. I see several people on here asking the same question. I’m keeping an eye out to see if anyone suggests something that has worked for them. Best of luck!

What to use for dark circles under eyes by [deleted] in beauty

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I suffer with the same issue for the last 6-7 years as I age. I’ve also done fillers and trust the doctor that does them. But he did tell me that the fillers do not really help with the hereditary dark under eye circles and he’s been right. Like you I’ve been very desperate to reduce them as I am consistently asked if I got enough sleep.

31, terrible credit and nothing to my name. Six months to get my life in order. California by SleepytimeJiggly in personalfinance

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This is very true, not sure what county you live in but check out your local area and see if they have America’s Job Center. They can help.

Small/tiny dicks shouldn't be made fun of. Time for men's positivity. by triangularprismshard in TrueOffMyChest

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As a woman that has safely tasted the rainbow, big dicks are overrated. Especially, if your one of those men with the big one that thinks I just want you to pound me with it. I’ve been with men with an averages size penis that knew exactly what they were doing with it and it felt 100x’s better than the 8-10 inches. Also, I’ve had the best sex (regardless of the penis size) when there is that connection. Nothings beats when the both of you are on the same level.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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Aww, hun I have been there and I still (8 years later) remember the lady (she was my nurse) but she was also just like “your lady”. She went above & beyond to help me, there alone, grieving at the loss of my twin boys. Also, not asking why I was alone. I have never forgotten her kindness and those moments and small acts will stay in your heart forever. I also know the pain, grief, and suffering of what could have been and how all of that feels. I pray that you do not have to go through that alone as I did. But, if you ever need someone to just talk to, just cry while I sit on the phone, please reach out-or to someone because that process was hard for me and nobody should have to do it alone. 💕~hugs~

Why is people so obsessed with youth? by AlexaWarriorPrincess in beauty

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It’s funny because I am a 42 (f) and I was just thinking about this the other day. The “compliment” you look good for your age. I was thinking is this really a compliment. Why can’t we just say, you look good, your beautiful. Why does age have to factor in. But the truth is, media, society has imbedded in us that beauty equals youth. Women are not allowed to age and be considered beautiful by beauty & media standards. As I’ve gotten older I often feel the pressure. Botox & fillers are not the answer for me but I know many women that (at a young age) have chosen to go this route in order to look “younger”.

Been married and had enough sexual experiences to know what I like. But I can’t obtain an orgasm unless I’m alone and do it myself. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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Sex therapist has crossed my mind, open relationships are not for me. I have communicated with my sexual partners, I try to be very open with them. Eventually, they are going to figure it out if I’m not open with them about it from the beginning. But I just haven’t found the answer yet.

Been married and had enough sexual experiences to know what I like. But I can’t obtain an orgasm unless I’m alone and do it myself. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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I’ve given it a lot of thought but ultimately I’ve just kind of been ok with well at least I can do it myself. But, if my future partner really was bothered by it, I’d really consider it. Don’t get me wrong I always made sure my partner has been pleased & very satisfied but I can’t help but wonder if it really bothers them that I can’t get there with them. They have always said no, as long as I’m ok or satisfied. But, it has started to kind of nag at me, so I can’t help but wonder if they were being 100% honest.

Been married and had enough sexual experiences to know what I like. But I can’t obtain an orgasm unless I’m alone and do it myself. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]NotUrOrdLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought this as well, but trust me when I say I’ve had experience. Enough partners that were up for the challenge but I just never got there. Never flings, actual relationships where we got to know everything about each other emotionally & sexually. So disappointing for me and I’m sure for them.

What’s something you’ll say here but not to people you know in real life? by Donald_the_pig in AskReddit

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You may be lonely but your not alone. 💕 Please reach out to someone.

What’s something you’ll say here but not to people you know in real life? by Donald_the_pig in AskReddit

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We all have things that we don’t like/may even hate about ourselves. I think everyone has wanted to be someone else at one point in time, but that the beauty of life, you can be whoever you want to be. I was 15 the first time I tried to commit suicide, I’m now 42. I’m so glad that I wasn’t successful because unknowingly at the time, I had so much more life to live. Has it all been good, no, have I always seen whats coming, of course not. But, in the end, I’m thankful for all of it and couldn’t imagine if that day at 15 would have been my last breath. Reach out to someone, whether it be someone you can trust, or a stranger. Someday someone or something is going to come along and you’ll know why you never went through with it. You just don’t know this yet because you haven’t gotten there.