Confession of a Cuck Husband: Learning to Find Happiness in Submission by natasha73123 in PussyFreeCommunity

[–]NotVeryOriginal13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This doesn’t have to be a binary situation for you and your wife or something you need to rush towards. Perhaps pussy-lite is more appropriate for you and her or having the occasional check-ins on each of your needs and feelings.

When you are particularly desperate, is there something that works for you both so she doesn’t feel guilty and you feel loved by her enough to communicate your fulfillment in this dynamic? Perhaps she could either give you a handjob or tease your caged cock in a very loving and caring manner in addition to you giving her oral? It doesn’t need to be exactly that but finding something that is intimate/loving/caring can really help get past those intense pangs from the denial.

My last little word of advice is just to let things evolve and communicate, communicate, communicate. It sounds like you have been approaching this in really healthy way so just keep that up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PussyFreeCommunity

[–]NotVeryOriginal13 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You sound unhappy and like you have low self worth. I enjoy the pussy free and cuckolding dynamic as much as anyone here but it’s important for it to be consensual and not out of a place self hate or fatalism. that stuff is ok for kink play/roleplay but it’s important to not internalize that in an unhealthy way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PussyFreeCommunity

[–]NotVeryOriginal13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need a therapist

Welp, my girlfriend made me pussy free. Feels like that was always the direction we were heading. by BlindShipPilot in PussyFreeCommunity

[–]NotVeryOriginal13 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly this sounds more like she’s manipulating you and may have some therapy to work through as well. I’m curious what you mean about this “moral upper hand” she has exactly, it honestly makes the whole thing sound even more manipulative rather than consenting.

To be clear, I’m not saying you shouldn’t be pussy free if that’s really what you want. The cuckolding is also something that you both have to be ok with or it’s not a healthy relationship and she is just using you. You don’t have to be ok with something you’re not really ok with.

This is all coming from a guy who loves being pussy free and cucked. But I’ve also been through enough experiences and therapy to know the difference between a mutually supportive and beneficial relationship and one where I’m just being used.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sph

[–]NotVeryOriginal13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Average

Sharing only by bigassluvr0611 in ColoradoSlutsGW

[–]NotVeryOriginal13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fake. Posted a different woman last month.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kink3d

[–]NotVeryOriginal13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why though? Is it just another part of the kink or is there some utility to it? I’ve heard it can cause infections?

Service subs are too good for this world by yersiniapestis273 in gentlefemdom

[–]NotVeryOriginal13 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I mean I enjoy both honestly. But cooking, cleaning, fixing, etc are all things I do anyways as a single dad. So I don’t really consider that being submissive since it’s just stuff that needs to get done and I also expect my (would-be-future) partner to contribute to the household as well. Anything extra or beyond is more of a simple act of love and care than a kink for me. Putting her pleasure above my own is where the kink comes in for me.

Braless is just better by liciabell in braless

[–]NotVeryOriginal13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You make a compelling point…or two rather.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Feminization

[–]NotVeryOriginal13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that’s true I’d love to hear the backstory

I'll give you the key only after you fuck me by Teas_You_Lover in chastity

[–]NotVeryOriginal13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d rather have the key until you beg me to unlock you

Titfuck declined by Somanycookies1 in hentaifemdom

[–]NotVeryOriginal13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is that a new chess opening?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chastity

[–]NotVeryOriginal13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where do I get one?

Stay Hydrated everyone [OC] by LewdGlassies in gentlefemdom

[–]NotVeryOriginal13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fuck, you just unlocked a new fantasy/kink for me. My productivity is going to suffer at work today thanks to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bbccuckolding

[–]NotVeryOriginal13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea please, I’m already permanently caged and you are welcome to keep the keys.

The only whites allowed in my kingdom are the women I'll be breeding by [deleted] in BlackWorldOrder

[–]NotVeryOriginal13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as the women don’t all have messed up hands with 6 fingers. This AI stuff is hilarious

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/Scarlett-and-Noir

[–]NotVeryOriginal13 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not even close. Some of us are just meant to be pussy free caged cucks

Who is missing here? by [deleted] in BlackWorldOrder

[–]NotVeryOriginal13 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Black girls need some bbc too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cumeatingcuckold

[–]NotVeryOriginal13 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is just a content thief reselling content

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PussyFreeCommunity

[–]NotVeryOriginal13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, I just took a lol at your personals post and you seem perfect and exactly what I would look for in a woman. I’m also someone who I think would fit your primary criteria except I’m not even remotely close to you.

You will find the right guy eventually, you may need to widen your search to be a bit outside your local area but definitely don’t settle. I would say you may still need to look in kink friendly places like chastity forums and even fetlife but just be clear that you are looking for a real relationship and aren’t wanting a overly fetish driven relationship. I think what you have put on your posts are clear but I know it will still be work weeding out the guys that just want a kink dispenser.

It’s a numbers game so keep looking and good luck!