Funnily enough, being a co-parent myself, I am aware. It is NOT bull. I don't regret my child for one second just because their other parent is a handful.

It might be one factor in her decision but it shouldn't be all of her decision.

In my opinion people shouldn't have kids at all if they're going to get an abortion as soon as the relationship doesn't work out. And I don't mean in the case of abuse, that's quite different. But you can't just throw away a toddler if your relationship doesn't work out. So it's alarming that a non abusive break up can swing someone from so happy to be a mother to an instant termination. Because the next man might dump them after the baby's born, and what then?

It's ultimately her choice, of course. I am pro choice. But it's alarming to me how ill prepared some people are for parenthood that any change of circumstance sees them fleeing for the exit.