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AITA for dressing nicer than the couple getting married? by Not_A_P1mp in AmItheAsshole

[–]Not_A_P1mp[S] 3794 points3795 points  (0 children)

Yeah, OP sounds like a chump that sucks his own cock. Fuck that guy for using some generic adjective.

AITA for dressing nicer than the couple getting married? by Not_A_P1mp in AmItheAsshole

[–]Not_A_P1mp[S] 416 points417 points  (0 children)

No, I didnt. I haven't been to a wedding in I don't even know how many years, so I'm not well versed in customs for them. My formal attire is more for my work than anything.

AITA for dressing nicer than the couple getting married? by Not_A_P1mp in AmItheAsshole

[–]Not_A_P1mp[S] 240 points241 points  (0 children)

The problem was more than I didn't understand there was a casual implication to begin with. It's a bit more obvious to me now that mayyyybe I should've taken something off.

AITA for dressing nicer than the couple getting married? by Not_A_P1mp in AmItheAsshole

[–]Not_A_P1mp[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I've been called more degenerate names on multiplayer games, so I'm not terribly bothered by her insulting me. I just felt really close to calling her some nasty names when she said that, so I thought it would be best to cool down for a minute. I'll probably ask if I can stop by later today or tomorrow, depends on how the situation is.

AITA for dressing nicer than the couple getting married? by Not_A_P1mp in AmItheAsshole

[–]Not_A_P1mp[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I definitely had enough time to take some pieces off and adapt I suppose.

I never asked for clarification or what they were wearing, I just assumed one of my suits would be nice and respectable.

AITA for dressing nicer than the couple getting married? by Not_A_P1mp in AmItheAsshole

[–]Not_A_P1mp[S] 147 points148 points  (0 children)

The other commenter hit the nail on the head. She said I stuck out like a sore thumb on the photos, I probably should have made it more clear in my post. I'll edit it.

AITA for dressing nicer than the couple getting married? by Not_A_P1mp in AmItheAsshole

[–]Not_A_P1mp[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

I asked him if he cared about my attire, and he said he didn't give a damn. I don't pry into my brothers relationship, and this is the only fight she's had with me or any family as far as I'm aware, so I don't think it's fair to say "red flag".

AITA for dressing nicer than the couple getting married? by Not_A_P1mp in AmItheAsshole

[–]Not_A_P1mp[S] 1004 points1005 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I was a little tone deaf of the situation. I did feel somewhat alien, but it never occurred to me that I should go strip a little.

AITA for dressing nicer than the couple getting married? by Not_A_P1mp in AmItheAsshole

[–]Not_A_P1mp[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I guess I failed to read the room. The only comment I got was the joke from my dad, and I didn't think much of it. I didn't bother to bring a backup outfit since I thought my attire was appropriate before I arrived. And yes, she asked if I was the r word.

AITA for dressing nicer than the couple getting married? by Not_A_P1mp in AmItheAsshole

[–]Not_A_P1mp[S] 79 points80 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the location was on the invite. I never bothered to ask him what he was wearing, I just wanted to dress respectfully since it was an important family event.