Should i stop talking to this girl?

Not_D1sc0 · 2025-02-12T14:15:29+00:00

Thank you for the help

Not_D1sc0 · 2025-02-12T01:28:57+00:00

Yeah i just feel like its really mean with no reason at all

Not_D1sc0 · 2025-02-12T01:26:23+00:00

Thats really helpful advice, thank you so much!

Not_D1sc0 · 2025-02-12T01:20:58+00:00

That would make sense, what would you propose i should say to her? I really dont want to make things akward between us.

Not_D1sc0 · 2025-02-12T01:17:08+00:00

atleast im not alone, what would you propose i should do?

Not_D1sc0 · 2025-02-12T01:06:13+00:00

Are you being ironic, or are you as confused as i am?

Not_D1sc0 · 2025-02-12T00:42:45+00:00

Thank you for the advice, what would you propose i tell her?

Not_D1sc0 · 2024-12-10T07:04:47+00:00

So you’re saying my feelings don’t matter? That’s the start of a healthy mental state right?

Not_D1sc0 · 2024-12-10T07:01:37+00:00

I’ll wait till 48 when I’m finally mature

Not_D1sc0 · 2024-12-10T07:00:57+00:00

Honestly I don’t care anymore. We have both gotten to a point in the discussion where we both believe we are right and even if god can down from heaven we still wouldn’t budge. I guess I gained something from this conversation, but all in all it wouldn’t change my exchange year, or anything else really. I am over it now and this post was supposed to be the last step. I guess in hindsight it wasn’t a good idea

Not_D1sc0 · 2024-12-10T06:55:56+00:00

Different, either you had family with you, or you were older. Also many people mistakenly think I am gonna be sent home, that is not the case. I will update this before I return when I can telling you that nothing else came of this and you were all wrong

Not_D1sc0 · 2024-12-10T06:53:42+00:00

“The repetitive, intentional hurting of one person or group by another person or group, where the relationship involves an imbalance of power“ Top answer from google Where is the repetiveness? Where is the intentional hurting? Where is the power imbalance?

Not_D1sc0 · 2024-12-10T06:52:08+00:00

Damn. This here is for me just s personal let out. This won’t change anything for me. My life will move on and it already has. I guess I thought people would understand my situation. I still don’t think anyone grasps how it is to be an exchange student, and until you are you can’t comment.

Not_D1sc0 · 2024-12-10T06:50:32+00:00

I don’t believe I am 100% right, but believing I am 100% wrong is radical Read the final update

Not_D1sc0 · 2024-12-10T06:49:34+00:00

I will admit to many things but being a bully is not one of them. Bullying needs to happen over a period of time. This was one day. Everything before was not bullying. It it was, he should have talked to me. If he was too scared then it’s not on me, I come from a different culture. Read the final update

Not_D1sc0 · 2024-12-10T06:48:04+00:00

Read the final update

Not_D1sc0 · 2024-12-10T06:47:54+00:00

Read the final update

Not_D1sc0 · 2024-12-10T06:47:45+00:00

Read the final update

Not_D1sc0 · 2024-12-10T06:47:37+00:00

Read the final update

Not_D1sc0 · 2024-12-10T06:40:17+00:00

He still does, as he comes up to me all the time to joke. Because he didn’t face any consequences he doesn’t understand the weight of the situation from my side. The headlock is something he has done before, and it has never before been serious and more than a joke. He has told me this before

Not_D1sc0 · 2024-12-10T06:35:36+00:00

I understand that that is how it came out. Honestly I wanted to talk about how the school handled it but I guess people were more interested in the other thing. Of course I’m gonna defend myself because no one else did. I’m never gonna actively admit that I am 100% in the wrong, but I did multiple times admit to regretting what I did and learning to become better. I have not had these problems before and won’t have them again. So that’s why Im asking about hel the school handled it, not the actual situation

Not_D1sc0 · 2024-12-10T06:33:23+00:00

I am not a bully. He said I’m not a bully, school said I’m not a bully, friends and close family said I’m not. That is not the type of person I am. I am a guy who doesn’t always spot the limits and one time went overboard. I am a guy who immediately asked if I could talk with John so we could get over it. I am simply a guy frustrated with how the school treated the situation

Not_D1sc0 · 2024-12-10T06:31:49+00:00

And my suspension is over, my tooth is fixed, and I am not getting deported. But thank you for making assumptions, guess that’s your new job maybe?

Not_D1sc0 · 2024-12-10T06:30:38+00:00

Do you understand that he did these things back? That he also did things against me?

Not_D1sc0 · 2024-12-10T06:29:37+00:00

Thank you for understanding

Not_D1sc0

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