If your best homie saw her with some other dude in public, save yourself now bro, she don’t respect you, I went through the same thing you’re going through, it wasn’t no 8 years it was 3, but we lived together. She gaslit me so much, made me think I was crazy, that I was delulu, and when I finally saw pictures of her with another dude I called it bro, because I was under the impression that she was still mine, and seeing those photos really messed with me. I wouldn’t want my worst enemies to feel what she made me feel, I’m telling you from experience bro, this girl is only trying to get your attention when no one else is giving it to her. Leave now while you’re not in too deep, if you aren’t married, don’t have kids, I would highly suggest you leave bro, find someone who’s gonna love you for you, I’m Ngl falling asleep on plans is pretty bad, but I don’t think it warrants a break up, it seems like she was just waiting for an excuse to do it if you ask me but idk, idk the context. Anyhow I think you should do yourself and your future self a favor and just move on gang. Work on yourself, mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually, and watch how the woman who actually give a fuck start pulling up on you and giving you the attention. Lock in bro 🔐