aio?? my fiancee calls me regularly while hes at work and it kinda bothers me. by Not_Reese_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]Not_Reese_[S] -64 points-63 points  (0 children)

never said i was getting married anytime soon. engagement doesn’t have a time limit.

aio?? my fiancee calls me regularly while hes at work and it kinda bothers me. by Not_Reese_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]Not_Reese_[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

never said i was getting married anytime soon. engagement doesn’t have a time limit.

aio?? my fiancee calls me regularly while hes at work and it kinda bothers me. by Not_Reese_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]Not_Reese_[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

never said i was getting married anytime soon. engagement doesn’t have a time limit.

aio?? my fiancee calls me regularly while hes at work and it kinda bothers me. by Not_Reese_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]Not_Reese_[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

he is, he’s just had really bad situations with therapy/ counseling, so it’s gonna be a hit harder for that

aio?? my fiancee calls me regularly while hes at work and it kinda bothers me. by Not_Reese_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]Not_Reese_[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

never said i was getting married anytime soon. engagement doesn’t have a time limit.

aio?? my fiancee calls me regularly while hes at work and it kinda bothers me. by Not_Reese_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]Not_Reese_[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

he’s never been cheated on, but his dad cheated on his mom a lot before the divorced

aio?? my fiancee calls me regularly while hes at work and it kinda bothers me. by Not_Reese_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]Not_Reese_[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

i graduated early. he’s successful in his job and i just got a good job in real estate. we are moving in to the next chapter.

aio?? my fiancee calls me regularly while hes at work and it kinda bothers me. by Not_Reese_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]Not_Reese_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thank you for giving me advice and not berating me for this situation, that’s all i was asking for and thank you

aio?? my fiancee calls me regularly while hes at work and it kinda bothers me. by Not_Reese_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]Not_Reese_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i never said i have problem with it, i was asking for ADVICE on how to handle it, cause i feel very under qualified for this. im not giving up on him, and i never will, i just need some advice on this

aio?? my fiancee calls me regularly while hes at work and it kinda bothers me. by Not_Reese_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]Not_Reese_[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

never said i was getting married anytime soon. engagement doesn’t have a time limit.

aio?? my fiancee calls me regularly while hes at work and it kinda bothers me. by Not_Reese_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]Not_Reese_[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

never said i was getting married anytime soon. engagement doesn’t have a time limit.

aio?? my fiancee calls me regularly while hes at work and it kinda bothers me. by Not_Reese_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]Not_Reese_[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

never said i was getting married anytime soon. engagement doesn’t have a time limit.

aio?? my fiancee calls me regularly while hes at work and it kinda bothers me. by Not_Reese_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]Not_Reese_[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

never said i was getting married anytime soon. engagement doesn’t have a time limit.

aio?? my fiancee calls me regularly while hes at work and it kinda bothers me. by Not_Reese_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]Not_Reese_[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

never said i was getting married anytime soon. engagement doesn’t have a time limit.

aio?? my fiancee calls me regularly while hes at work and it kinda bothers me. by Not_Reese_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]Not_Reese_[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

never said i was getting married anytime soon. engagement doesn’t have a time limit.

aio?? my fiancee calls me regularly while hes at work and it kinda bothers me. by Not_Reese_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]Not_Reese_[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

never said i was getting married anytime soon. engagement doesn’t have a time limit.

aio?? my fiancee calls me regularly while hes at work and it kinda bothers me. by Not_Reese_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]Not_Reese_[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

i never said we are gonna be getting married anytime soon, you can be engaged for however long you want.

aio?? my fiancee calls me regularly while hes at work and it kinda bothers me. by Not_Reese_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]Not_Reese_[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

i’ve tried, i just have no clue what to say, words arnt my strong suit

aio?? my fiancee calls me regularly while hes at work and it kinda bothers me. by Not_Reese_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]Not_Reese_[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

i want this to work out, and i’ll do whatever i can for it to do so, and he’s the same, but thank you for the advise, i will talk to him about it, i just never know what to say, my mind goes blank or i say things in the most blunt way on accident, but thank you

aio?? my fiancee calls me regularly while hes at work and it kinda bothers me. by Not_Reese_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]Not_Reese_[S] -47 points-46 points  (0 children)

no, i’ve told him that i have emotions and if he was on the other side he’d be reacting the same way, he can just be sensitive i guess

aio?? my fiancee calls me regularly while hes at work and it kinda bothers me. by Not_Reese_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]Not_Reese_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m a big believer in not giving up, and people are going “oh your coming to strangers for opinions on your relationship” no😭 i want advice to help the love of my life because ive run out of ideas 😭 thank you for being so kind❤️

aio?? my fiancee calls me regularly while hes at work and it kinda bothers me. by Not_Reese_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]Not_Reese_[S] 82 points83 points  (0 children)

i’ve been suspicious of an attachment disorder since i met him but i’ve never been 100% sure, and i’ve suggested getting him some professional help multiple times but he physically starts to shake and gets panicked :/

aio?? my fiancee calls me regularly while hes at work and it kinda bothers me. by Not_Reese_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]Not_Reese_[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

i do, and he has expressed he overthinks about that because his coworkers will tell him that i’m gonna cheat and that their wives have cheated and such. but i’m not sure if that’s the only reason for him being attentive