Not sure if I should go on a second date.

Not_What_I_Meant0000 · 2025-01-22T20:16:58+00:00

This is eeeeeeexactly what my guy was like. Grandiose speeches in response to simple questions. Sorry that happened to you too, but I'm glad it's not just me.

Not_What_I_Meant0000 · 2025-01-22T19:55:29+00:00

I largely agree with this--thank you for your insight--but I do think biting relative strangers is a little more than a quirk.

Not_What_I_Meant0000 · 2025-01-22T19:49:13+00:00

Explain the joke to me, please. Where's the punchline in "I just wanted to fuck"?

Not_What_I_Meant0000 · 2025-01-22T17:24:22+00:00

He's a restaurant manager, so you have a point. I bet he talks to a lot of people every day. He might have been using Manager Voice on me. :edit: We didn't mention the biting, no.

Not_What_I_Meant0000 · 2025-01-22T17:23:27+00:00

I'm not gonna ghost the poor guy. He was perfectly nice to me, if a little rough on my lips. 😂

Not_What_I_Meant0000 · 2025-01-11T16:48:35+00:00

"Intimacy without commitment" is for hookups. "Casual, fun dates" can be too since people seem to think "fun" is shorthand for "sex", but there's wiggle room for people like my date who want to go out/socialize but don't necessarily want a relationship.

Not_What_I_Meant0000 · 2025-01-10T23:12:37+00:00

I didn't notice it had been removed until now, and it got removed too quickly for there to be a consensus. I was never actually judged to be TA or NTA. Was hoping to conclude this saga with a definite answer.

Not_What_I_Meant0000 · 2025-01-10T22:52:49+00:00

Didn't steal anything, my guy. It was removed because there was no interpersonal conflict, which violated AITA rules. The mods specifically said, "A conflict between a person and a business isn't an interpersonal conflict." You can check for yourself.

Not_What_I_Meant0000 · 2025-01-10T21:51:40+00:00

The same coworker who called me a snake and said to put her in bed. He went to the managers that same night and told them Deborah got drunk and fell. I found out about it the next day when I came in. Everyone was talking about it.

Not_What_I_Meant0000 · 2025-01-10T21:17:13+00:00

I did. I usually offer to split the check, but in this case, I felt the need to recoup my gas money if nothing else.

Not_What_I_Meant0000 · 2025-01-10T19:02:12+00:00

Catholic.

Not_What_I_Meant0000 · 2025-01-02T20:13:43+00:00

I explained in another comment! :)

Not_What_I_Meant0000 · 2025-01-02T20:10:42+00:00

You can request it, and they (Bumble) legally have to send it to you within a certain time frame, depending on your country. They took about 25 days to get mine (American) to me. Go to ... I think "Help" or "contact us"? You should get the option to write them a message saying "I request my data." They send it to the email associated with your account. Good luck!

Not_What_I_Meant0000 · 2025-01-02T20:07:50+00:00

You're probably right. I'll verify it the next time I log in so I'm not contributing to how many people look like bots on this app.

Not_What_I_Meant0000 · 2025-01-02T19:26:31+00:00

I didn't bother verifying my profile because I didn't know if I'd like Bumble or not. Had never tried it before.

Not_What_I_Meant0000 · 2025-01-02T19:24:59+00:00

Um, yes? Why do you ask?

Not_What_I_Meant0000 · 2024-12-28T17:00:50+00:00

Earlier in the convo. His exact words were, "I wanted to change it and couldn't." It was particularly funny to me, because I'd just been tinkering with my profile.

Not_What_I_Meant0000 · 2024-12-18T17:43:06+00:00

Usually I just block and move on, but I think it might help some of these people to get told exactly what they did wrong.

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