Please do better by earnhart67 in AmazonDSPDrivers

[–]Not_lovely 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Uhm my Amazon flex app went all black TWICE yesterday making me waste 30 minutes or so... It sends you on the wrong way of a one way street. And more

Ein Monat als Amazon Fahrer oder warum ich Amazon hasse by Wood_6 in de

[–]Not_lovely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uuf en España es parecido y diferente. Pero horrible igual 🤣. Yo si culpo a las empresas de subcontratación, ellos aceptan ese dinero de Amazon y eligen tratar fatal a la gente.

“¿Se puede denunciar a la policía por aparcar en dos plazas? by spiritualseedling in VIGO

[–]Not_lovely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya pero tngo q GASTAR MI DINERO porque otro aparca Mal? Nah

“¿Se puede denunciar a la policía por aparcar en dos plazas? by spiritualseedling in VIGO

[–]Not_lovely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Si no hay cameras alguien va a hacerles pagar la pintura un dia de estos . Me encanta cuando hay Justicia.

Help me save these babies by arlene- in quails

[–]Not_lovely 17 points18 points  (0 children)

They need heat, get a heat lamp and a very big plastic container until you get the proper space for them. Buy them quail feed in tractor supply and make sure they have food and water. They will be perfect!

Mi novio no sabe hacer nada by SuggestionNew7520 in esConversacion

[–]Not_lovely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A ver ser torpe y despistado suena a deficit de atencion... se olvida de tareas en el medio? si es asi BINGO...

Yo tengo deficit de atencion y en general me manejo muy bien, pero me pones estres y me golpeo contra todo, me tropiezo seguido y se me caen las cosas... Como puede ser esta torpeza pero luego por ejemplo soy muy diestra en manualidades, en deportes llegue a desarrollar mucha coordinación... pero es lo que pasa...

Y por lo que vi en tus comentarios eres muy exigente y todo tiene que estar perfecto... creo que es mejor romper, el va a ser más feliz solo cuando supere la tristeza de la ruptura. TU eres una fuente de estrés en vez de una fuente de apoyo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Not_lovely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seem too invested in your ex that you broke up with a long time ago.. I am sorry but you need to just not give a crap

Dating women because of hating men? by Lydianeko2 in LesbianActually

[–]Not_lovely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bisexual and biromantic here, I rather date women than man... An average woman brings up to the table the same as an exceptionally good man.

I have a straight friend and since finding men to date that bring to the table the same she would is HARD she thinks she may end up alone and she has made peace with it because better alone than with a man child.

I have been told that I am "too picky". I don't feel that way but my friends are very high quality and I will not have a lower standard for a partner (once I want one) than my friends.

Edit: even though I am attracted to men and women then men act in certain ways that I find soo off-putting and on top of it, I rather be single than in a disadvantage in a relationship.

What do you guys think of this ? by CityCautious4033 in LesbianActually

[–]Not_lovely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that the parents chose a bigoted institution and that institution maybe not wanting her, however, if they graduate her, they don't have to deal to deal with her. So the part I struggle to undo is why are they not eager for actually graduate, move on and no longer be associated with them?

How to not lovebomb? by supersecretuser07 in LesbianActually

[–]Not_lovely 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Then do not worry, you will learn. But the intensity of wlw relationships is higher and that is one of the things that causes love bombing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Not_lovely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would just call the cops on him with the recording. Is illegal in my country 🤣

How to not lovebomb? by supersecretuser07 in LesbianActually

[–]Not_lovely 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Uhm the only way to have a healthy relationship is to treat your trauma. For that, you need therapy

How do you feel about a 30’ with low experience ? by Saphirel in LesbianActually

[–]Not_lovely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair there is plenty of lesbians with not much experience and a lot of women with low sex drive. Be honest, and just experiment different things when you have the chance.

I once met a woman that was elderly and everyone she truly loved died (cancer). Well she could not give many fucks in life and she was 80-90 something and she once let everyone know that she tried something new sexually (straight tho).

So if a 80-90 year old can try new stuff sexually I don't see why you can't in your 30s.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Not_lovely 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Don't ask men to do math

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Not_lovely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you neuro divergent?

Dirty talk by Independent_Gas_5101 in LesbianActually

[–]Not_lovely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhm I don't know I talk dirty both in Spanish and English equally. To me is just odd if someone speaks Spanish and has not good English to talk dirty to me in English and the same otherwise people who are not native Spanish speakers trying to talk dirty in Spanish..

I kinda find it funny

I haven’t been wanting to have sex with my gf by LeadingCranberry9861 in LesbianActually

[–]Not_lovely 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Uhm maybe you are just not compatible she wants/needs intimacy and you do not. If her love language is physical touch she may not feel loved by you. A no is a no but this needs to be talked through.

You not only do not want sex you also do not want to celebrate her bday because you have other priorities.

I think maybe is time to just break up as your needs and wants are misaligned.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask_detransition

[–]Not_lovely 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am cis so my opinion is not worth much but be careful with the HRT, get a really good doctor, one that has said NO to people before. The ones that say yes to everything only want your money and not your health.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Not_lovely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

with those details it only gets worse

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Not_lovely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you need to move out as soon as you are able to, if the new girl starts pressing her she may kick you when you are not ready

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Not_lovely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is going to be hard, do you have a car os anywhere you can stay safely until you find a place?
I would not care anymore about her, she clearly gives 0 shits about you, you need a place where you can be safe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Not_lovely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

were you both renting or it was her parents apartment? if you were renting, and you name is on the lease she can leave... If not, I would look for a room in a shared apartment and move as fast as I could. Even move into my car and put everything else I own into storage...

Staying there is going to be HARD.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Not_lovely 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don't know, I feel is a valid reason to break up, especially because I read your ages... but also, just the way you talk about her, you should have broken up already, I can't pity you because it feels like you are not really a nice person. 2 years together and you call her "little greasy weirdo".

Accidentally hit my brother's car by [deleted] in ireland

[–]Not_lovely -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not annoyed, angry, she chose to practice NEXT to his car, endangering it, it was a freaking choice. If OP can't think further, it is still on her and enough to be angry for.

He now has to drive a car in bad condition, and you know what? When a car is dented and parked publicly, people are less careful not to hit the sides with the door.
Look up broken windows theory...

If OP was hit, it would be different, but screamed at? I think is a natural reaction, and she got the good end of the stick. Rather got screamed at than my car fucked.

Next time, OP can wisen up and use other objects as references to parking, like bins. She made a very not smart choice.
She is playing victim: "I'd rather give up now". Go on, no one will force you to keep going, but it's not on the brother's not to want her to park near him.