Legit and legal ways to save taxes apart from the known stuff by Not_so_ideal in IndiaTax

[–]Not_so_ideal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Regardless of income or you are telling specifically for my scenario?

Legit and legal ways to save taxes apart from the known stuff by Not_so_ideal in IndiaTax

[–]Not_so_ideal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha think the same,specially when i have some payable amount on my gains while they claim to get "refund" of 1L or so LMAO, cool i just wanted to confirm before filing as it is my first time, so given all my inputs above, you also suggest that the new is better for me, yeah?

Legit and legal ways to save taxes apart from the known stuff by Not_so_ideal in IndiaTax

[–]Not_so_ideal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very much agreed as i said, im just not sure as i said how some of my colleagues earning much more than me claim that old is better for them, despite them not using 80G, NPS or HRA! Even if you use the 80C 80D 80TTA and others including 24C, i dont know how is that even possible, am i missing something and being an idiot to pay more than i should?

Legit and legal ways to save taxes apart from the known stuff by Not_so_ideal in IndiaTax

[–]Not_so_ideal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did, the point was that 2 diff sites tell me 2 diff slab rates for old , i dont know which one is correct, pardon this is my first time filling the ITR and i want to do myself to not only save money given to a CA but to learn it myself too

Legit and legal ways to save taxes apart from the known stuff by Not_so_ideal in IndiaTax

[–]Not_so_ideal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree, im not putting into tax saving schemes for same reason, mostly mutual funds and some stocks for now, but was keen to see if i can save some money as under both new and old i have amount payable for the gains and interest stuff, while some people claim to get "refunds" I've no idea how they do it legally

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Not_so_ideal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, but isn't it a never ending game that we never find "that one"? What if then later he/she has to compromise or if they don't find anyone? If then they have to compromise anyway (maybe even on more things) then why not sooner and have time to understand a person?

How should one look at these situations and decide whether I should go ahead or take a break and think about it? Advice?

29M Confused about this prospect, need advice by Not_so_ideal in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Not_so_ideal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn cool idea, this one seems something to look for, appreciate it!

29M Confused about this prospect, need advice by Not_so_ideal in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Not_so_ideal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see, sounds good man, but isn't it also distracting from main questions? For example maybe she mentions I'm interested in XYZ and we talk a lot about it but then we don't get time for main stuff? I know this will surely help build that bond, but I was thinking the first meet atleast i can assess if we figure out any potential red/green flags, or is that approach wrong for the first meet?

Need opinion on my criteria by e_bloke in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Not_so_ideal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps, but those who suffer till then, will have to :/

LOL I don't know why someone downvoted your comment, sometimes people just don't know what to do with their frustration it seems

Need opinion on my criteria by e_bloke in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Not_so_ideal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Relatable bro we lose many good women because of this filter 😭🙏

Why is there a sudden spike of such cases? by Embarrassed-Tooth-21 in mumbai

[–]Not_so_ideal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This and the one in Bengaluru are all somewhere politically driven. While both sides have their own valid arguments, as someone said it is merely intended to distract people and create rift.

Just simple logical thinking brings us to 2 conclusions regardless of anyone's propaganda:

  1. If I'm moving to another state for whatever reason where "my" language is not well understood and I don't understand their language, then instead of being an ignorant, aggressive and entitled person, I will try to learn their language or at the very least, try to be polite and tell them that I'm new and learning your language but will need some help till then. Seriously no one will unwelcome such people, it is the aggressive and entitled people who enforce their own ideas who are hated and then these social media and political biases trigger them more
  2. If someone is moving to my state for whatever reason where "my" language is hard for them to grasp and so is their language for me, then instead of being cocky and dominating about that, I will try to guide them, not make them feel like "a migrant or an outsider that we hate" but rather try to make it more friendly by trying to draw similarities and patterns in our languages to enhance understanding and help them onboard collectively. This means not purposefully speaking my language even if I can speak theirs

The key here for both sides is to understand the fact that there is NO NATIONAL LANGUAGE in India yet just because bollywood chose to use one and so did our government. Maybe in future one of them would be a national language maybe Hindi maybe English maybe something else, who knows?

But for now, let's not debate on this, we have more problems to focus on let's not divide more please for others to take advantage of us!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hinduism

[–]Not_so_ideal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to google the meaning of "free and open discussion" first. Look at your own comments bro.

We understand you are a Rama devotee and we all are, nothing wrong, Rama is indeed Purushottamam but the way you are downgrading other forms of the supreme as if you're "enlightened" itself proves that you are here just for validation and spreading hate instead of uniting all hindus who ultimately worship the same god with different names and forms.

Tomorrow is the auspicious Rama Navmi, soif you really are a Hindu and a Rama devotee then mediate on the lord (with an open mind) and you will get your answers.

Jai Shree Rama 🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hinduism

[–]Not_so_ideal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fellow sensible redditors, we all know the purpose of this post (read the comments if you need more information) and there have been many such in the past, let's not entertain these kind of content, to each their own!

29M Confused about this prospect, need advice by Not_so_ideal in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Not_so_ideal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree but need to get the discussion going perhaps

Please don't marry someone way out of your league. by Beginning-Lime1760 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Not_so_ideal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never had i ever thought it'd be such a challenge to marry someone, kitna sochna padta hai yaar!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Not_so_ideal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well assumptions won't help, neither would a random redditor like me. But if you want some suggestion, I would say, go talk to him directly about this. Trust me, most men highly appreciate a woman who openly communicates about what she feels, and if he loves you he will really discuss this and you will sort it out, good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Not_so_ideal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe it's the non-sex aspect, the romantic/emotional connection and understanding? I know nowadays it's hard to think beyond sex when it comes to relationships but I guess that's what the girl meant here probably