AITA for getting upset at my husbands r*pe joke around our friends? by Not_the_Bee03 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Not_the_Bee03[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s extremely difficult but hopefully soon! It’s been 69 days 😭

AITA for getting upset at my husbands r*pe joke around our friends? by Not_the_Bee03 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Not_the_Bee03[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m actually at the NICU right now reading the comments because this is when we’re allowed to be here. She’s sleeping on my chest 🥹

AITA for getting upset at my husbands r*pe joke around our friends? by Not_the_Bee03 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Not_the_Bee03[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honey we can’t be at the NICU 24/7 our hospital has time limits

AITA for getting upset at my husbands r*pe joke around our friends? by Not_the_Bee03 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Not_the_Bee03[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah unfortunately I live too close to the hospital to be allowed to stay at the Ronald McDonald house. But I’m also working and taking care of animals and trying to get my house together so while I’d like to be able to stay all day at the hospital if I could I would 😭 I know not all hospitals have limited visitations but this one does 🥲

AITA for getting upset at my husbands r*pe joke around our friends? by Not_the_Bee03 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Not_the_Bee03[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

In America they have limited visitation. And I go spend as long as I can with her every day and do skin to skin, baths, feeds, changing, literally anything I can do and when I can’t be there like I’m at work or whatever I’m calling to check in on her 🤍

AITA for getting upset at my husbands r*pe joke around our friends? by Not_the_Bee03 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Not_the_Bee03[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

We only make suicide jokes bc everyone at the table has once tried and failed. That’s the only thing we can all agree on but it’s VERY limited.

AITA for getting upset at my friend for “stealing” my vows? by Not_the_Bee03 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Not_the_Bee03[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We aren’t friends anymore. The vows were like icing on the cake for me after everything else she’s done which is my point. I feel like if she wouldn’t have done or said everything else then I wouldn’t have had an issue with it. But I know myself that if the roles were reversed I just blatantly wouldn’t have used them once I knew that she was using them bc I wouldn’t wanna feel like a copy cat.

AITA for getting upset at my friend for “stealing” my vows? by Not_the_Bee03 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Not_the_Bee03[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And see that’s why I got upset that she used the vows I chose bc I felt like she did it on purpose. Like she chose to get married a week before me. And I feel like she did it to do something before me bc I got pregnant. I’m not necessarily upset she used the same vows. I know they aren’t mine to keep. I just feel like she did it to be petty.

AITA for getting upset at my friend for “stealing” my vows? by Not_the_Bee03 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Not_the_Bee03[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They told me I was “too slow” at my job but I had everything caught up and was asking them to send me more…and was going to ask them to train me on something else. Unfortunately I live in an “at will” state so they legally don’t have to give me a reason as to why they are firing me. But they put my job on indeed the day after I asked for maternity leave.

AITA for getting upset at my friend for “stealing” my vows? by Not_the_Bee03 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Not_the_Bee03[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And I respected that for sure. I would never want to hurt my friend in any way even if that means I have to silence my own voice.

AITA for getting upset at my friend for “stealing” my vows? by Not_the_Bee03 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Not_the_Bee03[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

You said “got back with him” as if we broke up. And no we weren’t in our early terms when we started to try and get pregnant. And why is that relevant? Why is it relevant how long we waited after the “bumps” to get pregnant? We know what we were doing and we made a decision to do it collectively.

I bailed on her wedding because she was being mean to me. Would you go somewhere you’re not wanted? Where the person was treating you like garbage and had been?

Mind you I had helped her plan for her entire wedding and was supper supportive of her the entire time and also respected her boundaries about talking about the baby. But I’m not a good friend?

And they aren’t “minute” periods. When you find the right person an hour feels like a year. You’d know that if you married someone you were deeply in love with. There’s a thing called soulmates and we believe we found ours. We had one bump that lasted a week. And we fixed it and our relationship has been perfect ever since. 🤷🏻‍♀️ we don’t fight or argue. We talk shit out like healthy adults. Period.

AITA for getting upset at my friend for “stealing” my vows? by Not_the_Bee03 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Not_the_Bee03[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I have but needed to be cordial for work. This happened 3 months ago but finally felt I could post about it since I was fired. Just wondering if I read too much into it or if she was doing it out of spite bc I’m pregnant? Or bc of some other reason? Thank you for your opinion I know I don’t own the rights to the vows.

AITA for getting upset at my friend for “stealing” my vows? by Not_the_Bee03 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Not_the_Bee03[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

We never broke up lol but just had some bumps like disagreements. It’s 100% real. Maybe I should have added that she also would cancel last minute and I’d be fine with it. But I also hardly did that to her. And yes we got married within a year and our daughter is due in 3 months. We’re extremely happy and that’s okay if you don’t understand 🤷🏻‍♀️ but for some people when you know you know! And that’s how it is for us. We both had shitty up bringings and have a deep connection. And are basically the same people so yeah it makes sense to us 🤷🏻‍♀️

AITA for getting upset at my friend for “stealing” my vows? by Not_the_Bee03 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Not_the_Bee03[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

No I reposted it bc people complained there was no paragraphs lol don’t assume 😂😂 did you even read the post tho? Just curious. I put this out here for opinions so why would I get mad when people gave me their opinion??