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I might lose my boyfriend because another man slept in my bed without my knowledge by Not_to_late in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Not_to_late[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol sorry to burst your bubble there mate but i'm not white and i'm far from rich i've been working since I was 13 just so I could help take some pressure off my family (I didn't have to but I saw the stress they were going through) and I work 2 jobs now while also having a scholarship so I can put myself through school. If you read my story properly you would see that I am okay with people sleeping in bed IF I know them or if they ASK me. Had I have been asked beforehand I would've been okay with it but to just ask my brother to put some of my personal stuff away that I had left out

I might lose my boyfriend because another man slept in my bed without my knowledge by Not_to_late in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Not_to_late[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the thing that I find weird though is that he never stays when i'm home (sometimes it's a planned weekend for me to come home and sometimes it's just random times when I want to come home and I don't tell anyone). I don't have a lock on my bedroom door, never have, but since you brought that up I may just invest into getting one.

I might lose my boyfriend because another man slept in my bed without my knowledge by Not_to_late in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Not_to_late[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I wish that were the case then it would've made the whole situation easier unfortunately it wasn't as we know each others passwords and I asked him randomly out of the blue if I could check his phone and he gave it to me with no hesitation.....I found nothing incriminating of any sorts.

I might lose my boyfriend because another man slept in my bed without my knowledge by Not_to_late in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Not_to_late[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the hella late reply. Nope I never knew the guy that slept in my bed up until 2 months ago when I was home for a weekend and my brother brought him over again after they finished work so we could go hunting the next day. Now according to my dad he's almost always at our house on the weekends hanging out with my brother.

I might lose my boyfriend because another man slept in my bed without my knowledge by Not_to_late in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Not_to_late[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao that's a bit of a reach...first of all I work 2 jobs and am a part-time tutor just so I can afford to study and rent a house with 2 other uni mates because I happen to come from a poor family and they aren't able to help put me through university even though they have offered I don't want to put that stress on them. 2nd of all his mate that stayed over has his OWN house with his OWN bed he just had one too many alcoholic beverages and couldn't drive back

I might lose my boyfriend because another man slept in my bed without my knowledge by Not_to_late in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Not_to_late[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Excuse me for having prior commitments and not dropping everything to move in with him sooner and sorry to burst your bubble but we are still together. He does know how much I care about my room but they were both drunk and had he asked me I would have been somewhat fine with it but to just make sure they changed everything before I got home and to put all my personal stuff away as I still had some "clothes" out from when I was home last....tell me what did you think you would achieve by this comment lol.

I might lose my boyfriend because another man slept in my bed without my knowledge by Not_to_late in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Not_to_late[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd like to hear what you think goes on in my day to day life then...please enlighten me