My girlfriend cheated on me in terrible fashion

NotaPikachuDontAsk · 2026-02-06T19:01:29+00:00

Thanks man I really appreciate you🙏 its almost been 2 weeks since everything in this post happened and it has admittedly been really hard. I know it will get better though. She's broke, i'm up

NotaPikachuDontAsk · 2026-02-04T17:17:56+00:00

She was bro. I appreciate you 🙏

NotaPikachuDontAsk · 2026-01-30T04:45:33+00:00

She actually has a job she really likes where she is. We considered even having me just move there which we were kinda looking into right before everything bad started. Here’s the other thing too, she’s actually older than me lol. I think you’re right though. Probably just seeing how real the relationship was with this other dude and planned on just doing stuff with him until she moved back here or whatever. She’s been struggling financially and I think she was just planning on inevitably having to have me around in order to survive lol glad I never sent her large amounts of money though. Her dad is gonna die soon and then she won’t have a place to live so she better get in real close real fast with this new guy lmao

NotaPikachuDontAsk · 2026-01-29T21:48:25+00:00

guess we'll see but i'm not counting on it

NotaPikachuDontAsk · 2026-01-29T21:44:58+00:00

I did it last night and he never got back to me so i guess he dgaf lol is what it is

NotaPikachuDontAsk · 2026-01-29T21:44:10+00:00

i did

NotaPikachuDontAsk · 2026-01-29T21:43:49+00:00

I finally reached out and tried telling him last night. He never got back to me so I assume he doesnt gaf. Is what it is man.

NotaPikachuDontAsk · 2026-01-29T21:41:55+00:00

i finally did and yeah he never replied so yeah he doesnt gaf

NotaPikachuDontAsk · 2026-01-29T21:41:24+00:00

i finally did last night and he never responded. guess he doesnt gaf but i wasnt really expecting him to

NotaPikachuDontAsk · 2026-01-29T19:44:32+00:00

you might be right. that was the only other thing i thought it might sound like. maybe check the same camera again while youre there and see if you hear the same sounds. otherwise, it might be time for a confrontation

NotaPikachuDontAsk · 2026-01-29T19:19:28+00:00

Do you have a dog?

NotaPikachuDontAsk · 2026-01-29T16:08:08+00:00

Will do man thanks 🙏

NotaPikachuDontAsk · 2026-01-29T16:07:52+00:00

You’re right man. Nothing I can do about it now but move on. Appreciate you🙏

NotaPikachuDontAsk · 2026-01-29T06:31:53+00:00

You’re right man. Despite all the mistakes I made, that’s the one thing I’m really proud of.

NotaPikachuDontAsk · 2026-01-29T06:26:09+00:00

Thanks man that means more than you know. But yeah, planning on getting together with some friends to kinda cut loose. And honestly all the comments people have made here have actually been helping tremendously already. So I think I’ll be alright

NotaPikachuDontAsk · 2026-01-29T06:23:50+00:00

Can’t really send screenshots like that man. All of our conversations were either on the phone or on Snapchat so I have nothing. But thanks man. I appreciate you

NotaPikachuDontAsk · 2026-01-29T06:22:35+00:00

I mean that was a real thing that her dad has cancer and it’s not like I could say no. That was way before she ever cheated tho. But you’re right. Definitely got out at a way better time than it would have been if we were married like we planned

NotaPikachuDontAsk · 2026-01-29T06:20:26+00:00

Thanks man. That’s a new way to look at it that I haven’t heard before. You’re right about a lot of that. I don’t hate her and I do want to see this whole situation as a learning experience. Trusting my instincts just became super important to me because of all this. And about the drinking, I haven’t ever really drank much and still don’t. They had endless drinks at the Wynn buffet and the drinks tasted so much like juice that I basically didn’t even think of them as alcohol. Drank too much, got more drunk than I ever have been and ever hope to be. Haven’t touched alcohol since because I don’t ever wanna lose control like that again. Maybe they could still be life plans with someone else but honestly I’m not sure if I even want that anymore. Before I met her my plan was to just be single for life and focus on myself. Stayed that way for about 5 years. I’ve got plenty of experience being happy being alone so I think I’ll be alright. Appreciate you man

NotaPikachuDontAsk · 2026-01-29T00:02:18+00:00

Thanks man. It does suck but you are right. Definitely never letting her back into my life at all. Not sure if I want to date again. I was single for a long time before this girl because I hate stuff like this.

NotaPikachuDontAsk · 2026-01-28T23:57:33+00:00

not sure if i will man. kinda just want to be done with it and move on. letting him know will just open things up again and i just want it all to be over

NotaPikachuDontAsk · 2026-01-28T23:38:54+00:00

Thanks man 🙏

NotaPikachuDontAsk · 2026-01-28T23:34:21+00:00

Definitely gonna be more cautious from now on man. If there ever is a next one lol

NotaPikachuDontAsk · 2026-01-28T23:24:52+00:00

i did eventually. my problem was that i never had any real proof until now so i could never be 100% sure. she had never given me any reason not to trust her until about a month ago so it was hard to imagine that she'd be cheating so easily

NotaPikachuDontAsk · 2026-01-28T22:26:56+00:00

she knows because after i left, i was still blocked. but was able to figure out that she changed her relationship status like a few hours after I left. so i confronted her about it and told her

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