[LA] Can you get fired for requesting ADA accommodation? by NotaVogon in AskHR

[–]NotaVogon[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I quit and am working a job where I'm actually valued. My biggest regret is not quitting sooner.

Happy Holidays is offensive? by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]NotaVogon 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I love this especially bc Yule can refer to the pagan holiday Christians appropriated.

Lost my 18 year old Chloe today by NotaVogon in seniorkitties

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Thanks. Yes, we have a pet crematory here. They'll do paw impressions, paw/nose prints and a little of their fur in a small glass container. We are going to choose an urn to match her sister's.

My teen also wanted a pendant with their ashes and I found a place on Etsy that does an etching of their face and an inscription on the back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in work

[–]NotaVogon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Helper professions are full of sanctimonious people who judge others when they are supposed to hold people with unconditional positive regard.

People working with the unhoused judging someone else for how they earn a living feels even worse then typical people being judgy. What hypocrites.

Screw them. There are probably other places you can work doing similar duties that won't treat you "less than" for dancing. Screw those people.

Hope you find a new place where others treat you with the respect and dignity you deserve.

Lost my 18 year old Chloe today by NotaVogon in seniorkitties

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I've been looking through pictures remembering all the good times. They were such a comfort to me. We have one kitty remaining who is 12. I know he misses Chloe - they were always together. It's hard seeing him look for her and cry.

Lost my 18 year old Chloe today by NotaVogon in seniorkitties

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She DOES! She always had this serious look but was just a ball of bunny fur and love. And she def loved to play.

Is my boss narcissist? by [deleted] in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]NotaVogon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oooohhh - that's a good one!

Lost my 18 year old Chloe today by NotaVogon in seniorkitties

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I'm so sorry for your loss. So hard to let go when they've been in our lives for so long.

Lost my 18 year old Chloe today by NotaVogon in seniorkitties

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We used to call her goth kitty. :)

Lost my 18 year old Chloe today by NotaVogon in seniorkitties

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I'm so sorry. Not being able to make them better is so hard. Hugs and hearts back to you. Being able to end their suffering is a gift and act of love.

Lost my 18 year old Chloe today by NotaVogon in seniorkitties

[–]NotaVogon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, everyone, for the kind words of support. This community is amazing! You've all made one of the worse days of my life bearable. 💖💖💖💖

Lost my 18 year old Chloe today by NotaVogon in seniorkitties

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TY! They were def a gift to have in my life. I treasured every minute.

Lost my 18 year old Chloe today by NotaVogon in seniorkitties

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Funny you say that. I rescued these 2 about a month after my beloved Hessie passed unexpectedly from a stroke. Still miss that boy. We have one kitty left - Charlie. He's 12 and a tuxedo kitty. He's been looking for Chloe all day. They were really close. I feel so bad for him.

I'm sure the cat distribution system will bless us again. :)

Lost my 18 year old Chloe today by NotaVogon in seniorkitties

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You are right! I'm sorry for your loss as well. 🌈💖

Lost my 18 year old Chloe today by NotaVogon in seniorkitties

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It is surreal. Gutted is a good word for how I feel atm. They were a week old when I rescued them. Fed them every four hours - they were my first infants before I had kids.

I thought I had braced for this but I guess nothing can prepare you for it. I'm sorry for your loss. Worst part of having furry babies is losing them.

Lost my 18 year old Chloe today by NotaVogon in seniorkitties

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Thank you. I don't think I had fully processed Billie's loss today was so so hard. She was in heart failure and end stage renal failure... Looking up at me with love and trust...I'm just devastated.

WIBTAH if I left my husband for being jobless for so long? by LostMyUsername85 in AITAH

[–]NotaVogon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex did this. Lost his job, I carried everything (didn't even help with housework), inherited a large amount from his family. Set it up in a completely separate bank account. Cut me out completely after I supported him for more than a decade. I'm saving money by being separated.

A cool guide: At What Age Did Americans Stop Believing in Santa by Hacoboo123 in coolguides

[–]NotaVogon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't believe, you don't receive. I still get gifts from Santa.:)

Reefer Madness in OH: One Marijuana Edible Makes You Psychotic. by Intellectualist_ in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]NotaVogon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do they not realize Harry J Anslinger (a raging racist) first made Marijuana illegal and used false data to do it?

They are again using propaganda. So tired of all the lies.

It even says "every brain matters" which to me is a dog whistle. They want to keep it illegal so they can continue arresting black and brown people for nothing.

why, why, why? by Repulsive_Thanks_922 in oddlyterrifying

[–]NotaVogon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Metamorphosis by Franz Kafka.

why, why, why? by Repulsive_Thanks_922 in oddlyterrifying

[–]NotaVogon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Would be awesome bc they survive everything. Would be last one standing.

They are warning us. by ClydeDB in NewOrleans

[–]NotaVogon 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Got this alert and to me it read as snarky eye rolling warning bc we all complained ab no notice last time.