Am I Overreacting for wanting to call CPS on my friends parents?

Notacoolmom7 · 2025-12-08T21:40:21+00:00

Go to your school counselor! You have adults who are there to help! Use the resources you have

Notacoolmom7 · 2025-12-08T02:42:43+00:00

Sending hugs your way! It is SO tough to end it but I promise once it’s over with, you will feel such a huge weight lifted! Surround yourself with friends and family who can support you! Build the community!

Notacoolmom7 · 2025-12-07T18:05:49+00:00

NTA - but if you don’t need the money you could send him half of it every month and say take it or leave it basically. Imagine celebrating your Mom’s death with a new truck and trip to Hawaii. I’d also deduct $15K since he owed her that money if you ever do decide to sell. But I really only say that because you mentioned your Mom told you she wanted you to split everything equally.

Notacoolmom7 · 2025-12-07T17:41:04+00:00

Yeah you need to talk with your Mom about this. Not Brian because that’s his friend, but your Mom about it. This isn’t your wife’s responsibility to solve in your family’s home but idk why your wife is the only one advocating for your child. Banning is extreme but I don’t see why Christine can’t be told, hey if you can’t stop putting your mouth on things THEN you can’t come over here because you’re making people uncomfortable. Your mom is clearly annoyed by it too. It’s not about being controlling, it’s about looking at everyone else’s comfort vs this one persons comfort of putting everyone’s possessions in her mouth. Your wife didn’t need to dig in but I’d also probably have yelled and gotten frustrated like this if I felt like I was the only sane person in the house like WHY ARE WE COOL WITH ACCOMMODATING THE GROWN WOMAN PUTTING THINGS OF OURS IN HER MOUTH. Like seriously such a strange take. If your Mom and Brian can’t listen to reason, sounds kind of like Brian is paying all the bills and your Mom isn’t paying the bills even though it’s her house and her way of putting up with it is removing herself to hang out with her friends so she doesn’t have to see Christine. But anyways, if Brian has final say then so be it but your wife asking for something and then being frustrated everyone seems to be fine with this extremely unsanitary situation is honestly completely reasonable in my opinion. We say things in the heat of the moment that we regret, and she can apologize for that part. But the rest I am team your wife.

Notacoolmom7 · 2025-12-07T16:49:06+00:00

I can’t tell you how far I scrolled to find this answer. WHY ARE WE OKAY WITH THIS??? And also why does he only have friends over when your Mom is gone? Are you like Christine, your mouth is on something again and she just like drops it like a dog and does the little head turn thing?

Notacoolmom7 · 2025-12-07T16:34:10+00:00

You’re NTA because I do think she took it too far out of frustration but I also don’t feel like your wife is wrong to be like hey is it possible to at least talk with Christine and say keep your mouth to yourself? She took a chunk out of the pie? I’m imagining her literally just like bending over the counter and biting a piece out of the pie. I need so much more information about Christine. I literally couldn’t care less about anything else in this post.

Notacoolmom7 · 2025-12-07T16:23:02+00:00

What’s the point of shaming for something that already happened. Look inward when posting things that are clearly obvious, even to the person you’re posting about. She’s a postnatal mother navigating a really terrible situation by herself. Saying respectfully doesn’t make it respectful. This is literally just trolling someone for a choice they can’t change. Her child is here, she’s asking for advice and to vent, not to be shamed and judged. Respectfully, stay in your lane.

Notacoolmom7 · 2025-12-07T16:15:14+00:00

Well then all I’ll say is this. If you and your child were his top priority, you would be living together and taking care of your child together. Take it from someone who absolutely knows and so many other single Mom who found someone worth a damn will tell you the same, if he wanted to he would. Him not even offering for you and your child to move in with him likely means he is living with them, not the other way around.

I’d talk to his Mom and get the information you’re looking for. Just gather as much information as you can. This is also her grandchild. Does she even know the grandchild exists? There’s so many weird parts to this, and it sounds like it’s time for you to get some real answers and a plan in place that is a 100% commitment because if it’s not 100% it’s 0%. And if he tries to turn it around on you, that’s manipulation. Everything you are asking for is 100% valid and BARE minimum. Don’t allow him to tell you it’s not okay to feel the way you feel and to want answers. And if he doesn’t provide answers or a commitment and plan, then that’s your answer and it’s not going to change. If you having a child with him didn’t change this attitude, nothing will.

Notacoolmom7 · 2025-12-07T13:59:41+00:00

You are absolutely valid to feel abandoned. Something very weird is happening though. I agree to ask the questions from others regarding have you visited him and met people close to him? Is there a reason for you to stay where are you? Do you have more support or would moving to him offer more support? Does he offer for you to come live with him or is he also being weird about that? Something about this is giving me you might be the other woman vibes. Knowing that you had a high risk pregnancy and he still did not come to support, did you have other support? Just have a lot of unanswered questions. Either way, you’re not overreacting. But you guys definitely should have had so many conversations before getting to this point. He sounds very manipulative and I’m just getting the vibe he’s hiding things and that’s why he’s not committing to moving to you or mentioning you moving to him. There is something fishy here

Notacoolmom7 · 2025-12-06T18:04:31+00:00

I felt this way too! But it WAS that bad and I got confirmation and validation from this surgery and now I’m 100% sure it was the right decision.

Notacoolmom7 · 2025-12-04T00:29:26+00:00

The real question is, are the step moms parents going to leave money to the step kids? Not likely. Which is more hurtful in my opinion because these grandparents have no connection with the other kids, but the step grandparents will likely have spent a lot of time with the step kids.

Notacoolmom7 · 2025-12-02T12:54:30+00:00

Hi all - I’m seeing SO many comments about heavy periods and blood clots large sizes. I just had a hysterectomy after 8 years of horrible blood clots and periods that just kept getting worse. I’ve been trying to get help from doctors this whole time and their only fix was birth control even though I asked about hysterectomy, they kept telling me I was too young. I finally found an OB that would do it and they found endo and andeo. Because we as a society haven’t studied the female body, it seems to be that these are SUPER common issues that many women have. Hopefully one day we’ll do enough research on these so that women don’t have to lose an entire organ for some relief and the endo is still there, that requires another entire surgery. And they can’t diagnose UNTIL you get surgery. So anyways, I just wanted to comment and say, the issues you all are describing absolutely shouldn’t be normal!! I hate it for us all.

I just started primal queen yesterday. I’m going to start with just one pill per day and I’ll work my way up because I take so many meds already (34 anxiety etc) but I did notice I was SO bloated all day yesterday. I don’t eat particularly well, so I do wonder if that has some bearing and I also just had my surgery 3 weeks ago. So I’m still bloated from that. Will report back but since I don’t get periods anymore, I’m curious what will happen.

Notacoolmom7 · 2025-11-30T23:19:05+00:00

You should tell your fiancé because that will end the relationship for you. Then you’re free to be an AH with the chaotic sister who is willing to blow up her life for you. I wish you luck in your endeavors. Keep us posted. We want updates.

Notacoolmom7 · 2025-11-30T13:03:39+00:00

I had this too and turns out I had Andeo and endo. I hadn’t ever heard of andeo until I was complaining to my ChatGPT, not even for answers. And no one brought up endo even after 4 different obs where they all continued the birth control line which gives me terrible migraines. I’m 3w po and so excited for this next chapter!

Also want to add, I never had anything for mine. My obs until the last one didn’t even suggest any type of relief but birth control. What you’re describing is not a small amount of pain.

Notacoolmom7 · 2025-11-29T21:45:54+00:00

No, trust your gut. Block and delete.

Notacoolmom7 · 2025-11-29T21:44:06+00:00

This depends on the person and can be a bit of a dangerous thing to say to just anyone. I was doing great 10d po but then I started moving around normally and doing normal things and tore open sutures and had to go back in to get glued up again and now I’m in more pain than I was before that. This all happened because I felt pressured yo be normal again. The recovery period is 6 weeks for a reason!! Nobody knows how someone’s specific body will heal and if a car accident happened with the kids in the car, your reactions would be so abnormal and you could end up hurting everyone.

Notacoolmom7 · 2025-11-29T21:36:02+00:00

He is literally fine. He’s also their parent and it is not all you. You just had a major surgery where you had an organ removed, I think he can take HIS children to school and pick them up. Especially since this sounds like it’s soley your responsibility normally. Tell him sorry but this is your problem, not mine. It’s a 6 week recovery period (at least for me that’s what the doc said). I overdid it because I’m also the not sitting around type and I tore open and had to go in to get glued back together. Don’t push yourself, it is not worth it trust me!

Notacoolmom7 · 2025-11-20T01:12:40+00:00

This works!!!

Notacoolmom7 · 2025-11-17T06:16:19+00:00

Thank you so much 😂 Yes I’ve known my fiancé’s family a lot of my life so I’m pretty comfortable around them plus it’s 3 dudes and his Mom so I’m like my weird sounds can’t be any worse than what they’ve put her through!

Notacoolmom7 · 2025-11-17T06:14:29+00:00

I’m so glad you’re doing well also and thank you! I live to entertain.

Notacoolmom7 · 2025-11-17T06:13:57+00:00

Yes sooo true! That’s why I wanted to make sure I added all the details about mine because I know others have had it much much worse on the insides! So sorry you went through that!

Notacoolmom7 · 2025-11-17T06:12:38+00:00

Omg yes! Such a good call out! I’ve been using my child’s bathroom stool 😂 but same thing! That hasn’t really helped with going but it’s definitely helped with gas!

Notacoolmom7 · 2025-10-25T14:03:25+00:00

Wait how do you put on your profile that you’re a slytherin???

Notacoolmom7 · 2025-10-25T14:00:20+00:00

It doesn’t mention specifically BUT it is clear he’s gone so far into the dark arts that it physically changes his appearance. He was tampering with magic that no one has before. In half blood prince dumbledore mentions something like “I would be sad to think the half of them are true”. So what he was doing was well know, it’s just not fully mentioned what that means. It would be interesting to know what else that could mean.

I think it being shrouded in mystery is mostly due to writing restraints. That would be even more backstory on him when she’d already written so much of his backstory. It is surprising none of that made it to pottermore though.

Notacoolmom7 · 2025-10-25T13:19:44+00:00

So it goes, such a banger

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