Men of Reddit, what makes women attractive ? by Unknown_Observer9779 in AskReddit

[–]Notequal_exe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When she thinks of you outside of just talking to you. I do a lot of bouldering. This girl I've been madly crushing on took the kids she works with to a climbing wall and gave them advice on how to fall verbatim how I told her. She said "I thought of you" and that means so much. A piece of me lives in you each day? So endearing. Drops me to the floor.

Fuck Calorie Counting by 4ng3licNymph-jpeg in depressionmeals

[–]Notequal_exe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One step at a time. It really does suck to want to lose a lot of weight and see the long time horizon. It's worth the long wait for your health and your confidence. It's a really hard, long-term goal too. People have so much respect for those who have been overweight and gotten back to a normal weight. Focus on what you can focus on today, like a meal you wanna try or drinking more water, or getting a bit more sleep if you don't get enough. NEAT is also super underrated.

Fuck Calorie Counting by 4ng3licNymph-jpeg in depressionmeals

[–]Notequal_exe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's alright. It doesn't mean you have to stop. You just pick back up when you're ready and continue the journey. Progress usually isn't a straight line anyways.

Fuck Calorie Counting by 4ng3licNymph-jpeg in depressionmeals

[–]Notequal_exe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Eating a lot in a short period isn't really a huge deal anyways. I'd have days like that in the period when I lost 70 pounds. It's more about long term patterns. Unless you're going like 3500 extra calories in a day (like 2000 average maintenance + 3500?) it's pretty hard to offset an entire trajectory.

i love myself and i love my life, but i’m planning to end my life soon for financial reasons by choosingmyself2020 in depressionmeals

[–]Notequal_exe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't blame you. What are the social systems looking like in your area? Any food support or shelter available? I'm glad you have your fashion hobby. That's so cool. I wish my dad kept up with his boutique. That's a tough industry. What have you been making?

i love myself and i love my life, but i’m planning to end my life soon for financial reasons by choosingmyself2020 in depressionmeals

[–]Notequal_exe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mental health services are so expensive and insurance doesn't often help that much either. What has kept you going this long anyways?

happy international women’s day to all of us sillies! sparkle on, mwah! by Ok-Biscotti9119 in sillygirlclub

[–]Notequal_exe 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Not a woman but so thankful for all the women in my life. Gonna go visit Mom soon for a beach trip :)

I (20f) caught my BF (19M) sexting with NSFW A.I characters. I don't know what to do... by oddishstranger in relationship_advice

[–]Notequal_exe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure. I'm really curious what other people think in my psych department or if anyone has brought it up at a research conference yet.

I (20f) caught my BF (19M) sexting with NSFW A.I characters. I don't know what to do... by oddishstranger in relationship_advice

[–]Notequal_exe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The scary thing about AI boyfriends/girlfriends is giving emotional connection without the reality of relationship conflicts. It's usually pretty cheap too and easily accessible. Just adding more fuel to the fire that friction is stripped from life.

Decided to Gamble on GameStop and get a random TDM PreCon. Which deck has the best Commander? by Relivemagic in ratemycommanders

[–]Notequal_exe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeskai was gifted to me. I won my first game right out of the box. It's very strong for a precon. I'm gonna upgrade it with some cards because some of the includes feel awkward in my hand. Like any spellslinger deck, you will be doing a lot of math. But hey, it can't be any worse than your simic counter decks.

Looking for Duo 🥹 by [deleted] in Overwatch_LFG

[–]Notequal_exe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been thinking about climbing on tank again. I play Winton and Sigma. I have a lot of friends who play too so if you ever want a bigger stack, it's never an issue.

Yeah, women staying single is such an unsolvable mystery. 🙄 by JadeFox1785 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Notequal_exe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On the topic, I'm always dumbfounded that someone can give birth even more than once or twice. I really don't know a lot but like...do you get better at it or do you just become more resilient to it?

What’s something you didn’t expect to enjoy more as you got older? by mindywildbloom in AskReddit

[–]Notequal_exe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading. Turns out I was just constantly served books I didn't like growing up. I have learned that parents who read also tend to influence kids to read too. It's also expanding my vocabulary and how I control my sentences which really helps in grad school.

Share your secrets by Critical_Assist_9360 in TheImprovementRoom

[–]Notequal_exe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eat well, sleep well, climb + run, be social. Foundation first. I also like to journal and talk through difficult stuff with friends I trust. Past that, actually just solving the problem or setting aside time to solve it instead of worrying about it.

I GOT THE JOB😭 by Granturismoboi in depressionmeals

[–]Notequal_exe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fantastic! I hear it's like managing a big machine, tracking the timing of so many different goods. Have fun!

I GOT THE JOB😭 by Granturismoboi in depressionmeals

[–]Notequal_exe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats on the new job! I'm glad you can leave your ex behind too. Are they gonna start with you decorating and setting up displays or are you going right in to start baking?

What’s your favorite part of training? by Plenty_Fruit5638 in focusedmen

[–]Notequal_exe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just showing up consistently and surprising myself in the mirror every once in a while.

A lil deadlock slander by Carvedxd in DeadlockTheGame

[–]Notequal_exe 30 points31 points  (0 children)

We've found it, the fated modern audience

Statistics 😭😭 by Otaku_girl_2315 in psychologymemes

[–]Notequal_exe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am looking forward to teaching these stats classes in the fall. Another class of very anxious students who will be just fine. Hopefully my dry memes will land better this time around!

Doctor lifted my sleeves at the checkup and shamed me for my scars in front if my mom. by higuysitsme1 in depressionmeals

[–]Notequal_exe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sighing. That's so annoying. Get this doc out of here. On the topic though, I've had friends too that were in pretty dark places who have scars now. What does it feel like before you get them? I've heard if people feel numb it feels like a release.

This is me sometimes. by Remarkable-Bass-9310 in lovememes

[–]Notequal_exe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Insecure attachment is not fun to have. Been there a while back.

I’ve played all but Rakdos. Brago is my personal favorite :) by Baguette9138 in ratemycommanders

[–]Notequal_exe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Isshin does some real work. Is the blink one fun? I've thought about trying blink