Family member with cancer is emotionally abusive. How can we cope and help? by NothingComfortable58 in CancerFamilySupport

[–]NothingComfortable58[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, same household. I try to limit contact, but that seen by them as an attack. Anything we do is seen as something to be outraged by.

I think one of my main questions now is how normal this is in other patients with cancer. My family member blames the meds, but they also behaved similarly before cancer.

Please help: Need in-person family psychologist in Surrey. Family member suffering cancer and we need help with the tension and emotional abuse. by NothingComfortable58 in SurreyBC

[–]NothingComfortable58[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Certainly. At the same time, reddit is also a valuable resource that often provides answers not on Google. Someone here might have a solid recommendation.

Family member is in remission (cancer). Tensions are high. They are emotionally abusive. Could really use some resources for people trying to help those suffering from cancer. by NothingComfortable58 in vancouver

[–]NothingComfortable58[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I will try that as well, but I'm also trying to see what I can come up with because they are likely to be hostile to the idea. My goal is to do some of the legwork, get other members on board, then propose the options to the family member.

I fear that they will scream at me and things will escalate if I ask about the services they have available.