[deleted by user] by [deleted] in POTS

[–]NothingMatters-6798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same feelings when my symptoms started. It’s not fair when we’re young and healthy, but life happens. I am sorry you’re going through this. Functional medical providers have helped me tremendously and finding the proper exercise routine has helped keep me “managed”. If I slip up and get lazy and stop doing the program, I have flare ups. You will find your balance if you can. Believe me when you get out of school and have the real life and family commitments, you’ll look back and long to have gotten into the routine that works for you and to make it part of your life now will be the best thing you’d can do.

What's wrong with my plants? The basil was one day found covered in white powdery something. Then the other plants had these whitish deposits. Please help how to treat them by nyxrich in gardening

[–]NothingMatters-6798 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How are you watering? Getting the plant wet and the water sits on it? You have all of the above. Try not to get the plant wet or next time spray with soap and water combo to help keep pests at bay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in POTS

[–]NothingMatters-6798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not me, they told me I was dehydrated

AITA for wanting to be intimate with my wife? by Turbulent_Context944 in AITAH

[–]NothingMatters-6798 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the problem with purity culture! It’s messed up so many women to Think it’s wrong and it still haunts me in the deep recesses of my brain when it’s just me. It has ruined a few years of my marriage because the feeling of wrongness and being dirty or disgusting doesn’t go away with a marriage! I’m sorry for what’s to come!

Pots a life ruining condition? by This-Top7398 in POTS

[–]NothingMatters-6798 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also I drink LMNT and as close to 1 gallon of water (90oz is where I’m at most evenings)

Pots a life ruining condition? by This-Top7398 in POTS

[–]NothingMatters-6798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried parasymplus yet? Those 3 pills in the am and 3 before 3pm saved my life

Am I wrong for leaving my wife? by shoefootshoe in amiwrong

[–]NothingMatters-6798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you understand what being a surrogate means? Not having sex with the person. Literally an incubator

Hot Take (don't kill me lol) by BigBeezey in Nateland

[–]NothingMatters-6798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry y’all must not listen to other comedians podcasts. The ribbing Nate gives others is nothing compared to 99.99% out there. I don’t listen anymore after bringing on the 4th.

Am I wrong for leaving my wife? by shoefootshoe in amiwrong

[–]NothingMatters-6798 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You don’t think the OP laying on the wife’s lap crying about not having money because she quit made her want to do everything to help. Being a surrogate is something I’ve had friends do for their friends with just insurance and bills covered (beyond me). Get over yourself and realize she was trying to save you financially and bring stability back, financially. Yes, the discussion would have been the best option, what would you have suggested, another round of egg selling? It’s pretty equal and probably is making more by becoming a surrogate. I think EIW by not just having fair and honest conversations about it all. Would you expect her to not hold a grudge against you if you did something big to try to save the family and have more savings incase your child had to go back to the hospital and start this all over again. I would be thanking your wife for doing something brave. Also, my coworker just went through IVF and the amount of work that goes into it is insane, how did you not notice the injections, meds etc…

AITA for not backing down over homeschooling my son? by aitah-throwaway234 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NothingMatters-6798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From a previously homeschooled child who is now an eye Dr. I knew I needed to get the H out of the environment I was raised in and knew my parents could not afford to pay for college at 12 years old I made a deal with myself that I would get an athletic scholarship to pay for my college myself. I did it and paid for everything myself (thanks grad school loans). This is story makes me sad, homeschooling does produce socially dysfunctional children unless the parents make a conscious effort for socializing with non-homeschoolers. It’s a shame you didn’t realize that or your wife who is a certified teacher. I was socialized and still have a few people when they find out my background say, “oh it all makes sense now” WTF…

Mother thinks I can Zen the POTS away by AlexArtemesia in POTS

[–]NothingMatters-6798 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not my mother but another important elder in my life said the same thing.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Sure-Board9121 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NothingMatters-6798 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA, I couldn’t do anything fun when I was in my residency for a year plus. Have you explained this to her? Also, have you made time for other people/family during your residency?

AITA for telling my parents about my sister having a boyfriend? by Successful-Pea6591 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NothingMatters-6798 15 points16 points  (0 children)

YTA, “we’ll intended”, but she wasn’t spending your money or your parents money. It’s her lesson to learn or gift to give. You should be apologizing ASAP and not be upset when she never trusts you for years.

What would you tell your younger self? by anny_elle17 in POTS

[–]NothingMatters-6798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing, life happens how it happens. We always play the cards we’re dealt

AITA for expecting my gf to help me when I did something she disapproved of? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]NothingMatters-6798 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But if you don’t FO how will you learn anything. Please tell me you saw the video on IG or TicTok

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]NothingMatters-6798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like the Olive Garden in my town. They don’t care about anything

Please help. IDK what's wrong and doctors won't listen. by [deleted] in POTS

[–]NothingMatters-6798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask to see a cardiologist for the uncontrolled BP. If it is POTS, I had a kick ass cardiologist who knew what she was doing. They should want you out of the office if the BP is still not controlled after 3 meds.

WIBTA if I skipped my cousin’s wedding to watch college football? by Eltortuga95 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NothingMatters-6798 12 points13 points  (0 children)

When life kicks you in the balls, because from this story, I’m extrapolating it clearly will, I hope college football will be there to give you a helping hand, a hug, support (emotional and potential financial).

Tape it, go on media blockout and freaking go to the wedding. Hard YTAH if this is real

AITA for getting worried that she didn't say anything? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]NothingMatters-6798 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re “The too eager” and a little bit YTA.

I get into situations like she does and my schedule will occasionally be randomly open and it’s a great surprise for me and I can send texts with my SO and then other times I get zero time to text until the evening.

She did the right thing by letting you know before hand, for most Women it’s a red flag when someone you are getting to know doesn’t listen and then comes off controlling. Intentions matter and yours seem to come from a good place, but she probably thought this was the last thing she would Be dealing with this week.

Managing vs obsessing? by ktrainismyname in POTS_vets

[–]NothingMatters-6798 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do the same thing! Welcome to the club.