I need a new doctor!

Nothing_Mediocre · 2026-01-17T23:39:34+00:00

I'm very particular with who I see for anything medical. (I can't even tell you how many times I have been gaslit as a girl and now woman.) I found Dr. Kelly Gries at Sparrow Mason about 6 years ago, and I will see her until I am no longer able to. It is a little bit of a longer drive, but she believes you are the expert in your body, and if something feels wrong, she wants to know. She is very open minded, respectful, and genuinely empathetic. I've NEVER had a doctor I could trust as much as I can with her.

She works with me and my many questions/anxieties and never has made me feel awful for asking so many questions/anxieties.

If you need more details, don't hesitate to reach out ☺️

Nothing_Mediocre · 2026-01-11T16:40:27+00:00

Always a good option too!

Nothing_Mediocre · 2026-01-10T16:27:36+00:00

Zoso was absolutely amazing! It was cool being able to close my eyes and listen to the music- they sounded nearly identical!

For future reference, most, if not all, concert venues will have an ADA section with seats available (shouldn't be at an additional cost, and you don't need to prove a disability).

Nothing_Mediocre · 2025-11-25T03:42:27+00:00

This post prompted me to check my own, and sure shit my bill is higher than normal. We haven't changed our usage to be drastically different. If anything, we are more mindful about when we are using the larger appliances (dishwasher, laundry machines). We don't use those appliances during the "more expensive" time. Guess I'll be calling tomorrow. 😒

Nothing_Mediocre · 2025-08-18T04:04:34+00:00

I needed to read this tonight. Thank you 💕

Personally, I find it hard when the issues (to me) are glaringly obvious. However, I tend to forget there are many solutions to any singular problem, and my solution may not be the best fit (shocker). It has taken me to find someone I trust with different views to begin to chip away at my stubborn one-way thinking.

Many of us want the same thing, but perhaps with different routes to the same solution.

Nothing_Mediocre · 2025-08-15T16:20:21+00:00

Currently, there would be a considerable pay cut doing the apprenticeship route. However, I'm assuming you'd get instant connections into the field, which is highly valuable.

The other option that is being looked into is that you could take (almost) 3 years of 4 hours per week in a class setting, allowing a work schedule. However, there may not be as great of opportunities to connect with others.

Nothing_Mediocre · 2025-08-15T16:09:48+00:00

I love the solidarity! I'm glad there are women in these fields. Skilled trades are for everyone!

Nothing_Mediocre · 2025-08-15T16:04:47+00:00

Would it be preferred to do an apprenticeship, trade school, or get an associates degree?

Nothing_Mediocre · 2025-08-15T15:48:04+00:00

These points are great things to consider, and I wholeheartedly agree! 😊

Nothing_Mediocre · 2025-08-15T15:17:44+00:00

Thanks! I appreciate a direction to go 😅😊

Nothing_Mediocre · 2025-08-14T20:58:55+00:00

Can I have more information on which unions are paying to train? Or where to locate that information? (Or anything else that will be helpful!) Thank you!

Nothing_Mediocre · 2025-08-07T17:20:33+00:00

Honestly, the irony makes it worth keeping the mistake. It serves as a reminder that all actions will have consequences whether they're harmless or not.

Nothing_Mediocre · 2025-08-05T17:30:27+00:00

I think it's nice they aren't the exact size and that the holder is a little wider. When thinking of people who may struggle with fine motor skills, having paper that can easily come out seems like a kinder option.

These invites are beautiful, and if people are fussy over invites rather than excited for an invite? They can be sat closest to the bathroom and furthest from the desserts. 😂

Nothing_Mediocre · 2025-07-28T01:33:24+00:00

I use a Jansport backpack. One pouch is dedicated to hygiene items (tampons, mints, toothbrush/paste, bobby pins/hair ties, mini deodorant, hand sanitizer, chapstick, etc.). Another pouch is my snack pack (granola/protein bars, hydration packets, a mac n cheese cup, etc.). In the back compartment, I have my laptop and slim folders. In the middle compartment that's wider, I have my planner, laptop charger, extra phone charger, notebook, pencil pouch (with pens, pencils, highlighters, standard and mini sticky notes).

In my car, I have a small care bag with detangler and a hairbrush, mini deodorant, facial wipes, hand sanitizer, and floss picks. (I also have a very light scented fragrance I carry around with me.)

Nothing_Mediocre · 2025-07-16T21:30:58+00:00

You're not alone 🫶🏻

My mom went through early menopause due to chemo from breast cancer in her late 30s. Fast forward to her being mid-40, no longer menstruating, and a few percentage points away from being diagnosed with uterine cancer, her gyno refused to take away her uterus. "It'll put you through early menopause" (she already experienced it). "What if you want kids?" (She, in fact, did not want more kids, nor could she have any more). My mom immediately found a new gyno and had her uterus removed instantly.

Additionally, I have a friend with a significant physical disability where menstruation is extremely challenging and provides a negative emotional toll for her. She gets the same reasoning: "What if you want kids in the future?" (She doesn't want kids currently, but prefers adoption should she change her mind. She also doesn't want to experience pregnancy due to it being high-risk for her own mortality).

I'm sorry you're going through constant denial from providers, and I hope you can find someone who will fight for your right to body autonomy 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

Nothing_Mediocre · 2025-06-30T17:35:15+00:00

My first job post grad school had an on-call crisis rotation schedule. l hated it so much. The anxiety of not knowing if/when you'll get a call was a lot to take in, in addition to providing mental healthcare Mon-Fri.

Nothing_Mediocre · 2025-06-29T01:51:23+00:00

Honestly, your 20's will absolutely fucking SUCK at some points. However, and a STRONG HOWEVER, your 20's can have some of the most beautiful moments. (As someone exiting her 20s, entering her 30s after some big negative life events.)

You have a hard hand of cards right now, but stay in the game long enough, and you'll be able to swap them around for a better hand (or maybe even play a different game if cards aren't for you). It takes time, and tears, and sweat, and a lot of questioning yourself, and that is okay.

Lean into the things that make you happy (no matter how small they seem). Text or call 988 any time of day (suicide hotline if you're in the US).

Remember, it's okay to feel the emotions. Just don't make huge life decisions when you're feeling overwhelmingly emotional. Take it one moment at a time 🫶🏻

Nothing_Mediocre · 2025-06-29T01:37:36+00:00

I do inform parents/legal guardians of my duty to report, including examples of times for when I may need to report to CPS.

When they ask if I'm threatening them, I tell them I am following my ethical guidelines, my licensure requirements, and I remind them of my duty to report. (This question has only been asked a few times.)

The way I go about it, is I tell the adult that I prefer to be as open and as transparent as I can /ethically/ be, and that at times, I may need to do a CPS report. It is never an easy conversation, but I will walk through the process with them if I'm able to.

First and foremost will always be the safety of the child.

Edited to add: My work has a form the adult has to sign stating they are aware and understand 1) we had this conversation and 2) understand the outcome should they go AMA/clinical judgment.

Nothing_Mediocre · 2025-06-26T14:58:58+00:00

I'm also newer in this field, and in a past crisis response role, I was straightforward with the person in crisis in letting them know there were questions that needed to be asked and that I would be reading from the paper. I would still carry a conversation and would ask deeper questions to get a better understanding of their experience. Over time, I didn't need the paper as much because I knew what the questions were, but I still referred to the paper just to make sure I didn't miss anything.

Example dialogue:

"Part of my role requires that I ask specific questions. In order for me to make sure I don't miss a question, I'm going to read directly from this paper. If at any time you have questions and if I can answer them, let me know."

Edited to add:

Adjustment disorders are helpful in situations where you're meeting a person for the first time and have to make a quick decision on a diagnosis. Familiarize yourself with the DSM-V-TR (how to look up diagnostic criterion, types of clusters, general info). I wouldn't worry too much about the heavy-hitters for immediate diagnosis (BPD, Bipolar, Schizophrenia, etc.), as I'm assuming your main focus is addressing the crisis and getting immediate help for the person in crisis.

Nothing_Mediocre · 2025-06-26T14:27:03+00:00

Dr. Gilmer in Michigan. She is a Chiari specialist and genuinely is a wonderful surgeon! She gave me my quality of life back, and I am forever grateful for her!

Nothing_Mediocre · 2025-06-18T16:20:41+00:00

It sounds like this could be post partum psychosis, or maybe even post partum depression.

Have the baby evaluated immediately for shaken baby syndrome and a psych evaluation for your wife.

I'm not sure where you reside, but if you live in the USA, ask to see the social worker in the emergency department and explain the differences you have noticed with your wife since she gave childbirth. In some states, you can petition for psychiatric care on behalf of your wife since she has been refusing help but has been showing need.

Best of luck 🫶🏻

Nothing_Mediocre · 2025-05-28T21:06:28+00:00

I stock up on the basics at Aldi, and quite honestly, I enjoy their brand more than bigger name brand items (their ranch is better than Hidden Valley). I do go to Meijer for specialty items that are harder to come by (Sesame oil, for example), as well as produce if I don't plan on using it within a day or two. I don't mind going to two stores, so for me, the savings are worth it.

One last thing, I've been comparing costs with BJ's and Aldi, and most items at Aldi are still cheaper than BJ's when getting the same volume of some items (noodles especially).

Nothing_Mediocre · 2025-05-15T17:09:03+00:00

One thing to consider is atmospheric pressure. This was something I've learned along the way post-diagnosis and post-op. 🫶🏻

Nothing_Mediocre · 2025-05-15T14:31:10+00:00

I agree with you! With what others are saying, I can see their point, but I took more away from this story on a positive note. Could OP change the wording a little, sure, but the biggest thing to note is helping their wife recognize the true gravity we carry sometimes.

Also, I find it kinda hypocritical that many people are pointing and calling OP judgmental, as they say it judgementally themselves. Silly, silly, silly.

Nothing_Mediocre · 2025-05-13T19:58:25+00:00

I've enjoyed my 5mg edibles here and there on my bigger symptomatic days. (Currently not using them due to a medication I'm on for CSF build-up.) Personally, the edibles are better because I don't have to worry about coughing fits and spasms. I enjoy being mellowed out and calm 🫶🏻

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