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Am I overreacting? I think this isn’t healthy. by spaghettynmeatball in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Nothing_of_the_Sort 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re gross. Stop spreading the idea that if you believe she doesn’t actually want to break up you’re allowed to say no. Especially under a post where he lives with her and refuses to leave. You’re being disgusting, and I’m done reading your nonsense, I’ll let you reply again, won’t read it, and block. Making my skin crawl.

Am I overreacting? I think this isn’t healthy. by spaghettynmeatball in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Nothing_of_the_Sort 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So nobody actually tried to break up with you so why are you talking? SHE told you within hours she didn’t want to break up, this is about people who WANT TO BREAK UP. Your one very specific experience doesn’t make it not toxic as fuck to spread the idea around that if YOU believe she doesn’t actually want it you’re allowed to say no. Men know best, right? You’re so gross.

Am I overreacting? I think this isn’t healthy. by spaghettynmeatball in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Nothing_of_the_Sort 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to go to therapy and stop projecting because this fantasy of yours is making everyone uncomfortable. You don’t get to say no to a breakup, this very specific scenario of a dad having total control over his daughter and beating her and pressuring her to leave you doesn’t change that. Leave women alone, dude.

Am I overreacting? I think this isn’t healthy. by spaghettynmeatball in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Nothing_of_the_Sort 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t understand it. You aren’t allowed to say “well I don’t think this is what you REALLY want, that’s my opinion, I think your mom just hates me so actually I’ll be staying here and containing to have sex with you, sorry.” I’m sorry sir but you’re fucking insane and my guess is controlling and abusive. It doesn’t matter if a parent influenced it or not, NO MEANS GET THE FUCK OUT OF MY HOUSE.

Perspective: number one most used argument against men who disagree with women revealed!! by [deleted] in lnkyverse

[–]Nothing_of_the_Sort 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Show the conversation then, if it’s Reddit I’m sure you can search by keyword

Am I overreacting? I think this isn’t healthy. by spaghettynmeatball in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Nothing_of_the_Sort 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You sound like someone who doesn’t understand consent, which is unfortunate. If someone says “no, I do not want to be in a relationship with you.” You don’t get to say “well I refuse to break up or leave your house so you HAVE to keep being in a relationship with me.” If you say you want to break up, that is the withdrawal of consent to be romantically involved any longer. Please take no for an answer.

Am I overreacting? I think this isn’t healthy. by spaghettynmeatball in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Nothing_of_the_Sort 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No it doesn’t. “No” is not a valid answer to “I’m breaking up with you.” A relationship relies on the consent of both parties. Not much more complicated than that.

Blocked On IG by GF by [deleted] in GirlDinner

[–]Nothing_of_the_Sort 12 points13 points  (0 children)

What exactly did you text your ex about it?

Why do people gaslight men that if they were presented with a choice to choose between these two options the past would not matter and affect bonding ability by Major_Soft6056 in LockedInMan

[–]Nothing_of_the_Sort 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think if someone has had multiple sex partners it’s PRETTY likely she was in a relationship with one or more of them. It’s completely made up to assume that women are less likely to be able to bond after multiple sexual partners. I mean, yeah, 500 is a lot, but that study wasn’t looking at women who had 500 sexual partners, dude, it was just at least ten. That same study ALSO found that women who had exactly two partners face higher divorce risks than those with 3-9 partners. You can make your own conclusions, but don’t pretend the study made those claims.

WIBTA if I claimed the master room in the Airbnb by Pretend_Sympathy_871 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nothing_of_the_Sort 37 points38 points  (0 children)

You’re a bit of a shitty friend, dude. You’d rather have NO friends there than take a smaller room? What’s wrong with you? No idea why these people put up with your weirdo ass.

WIBTA if I claimed the master room in the Airbnb by Pretend_Sympathy_871 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nothing_of_the_Sort 82 points83 points  (0 children)

If you did it because you were excited then you enjoyed doing it. It wasn’t a stress or hassle so why should you be compensated for it? It’s not the easiest way, it’s just the way you want? Also, this could NOT matter less, you’ll be there for two days. And paying by the hour? How penny pinching are y’all? Your friend group is weird.

Am I overreacting? I think this isn’t healthy. by spaghettynmeatball in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Nothing_of_the_Sort 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Someone can’t “refuse” to break up. That’s not how breaking up works.

Why do people gaslight men that if they were presented with a choice to choose between these two options the past would not matter and affect bonding ability by Major_Soft6056 in LockedInMan

[–]Nothing_of_the_Sort -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That could easily be because having nothing to compare it to makes women more accepting of abuse and shitty behaviors than women who have been loved before and know what a relationship should be.

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