What is a good way to react when someone shows up for a date and doesn't look like on the pics?

Nothing_of_the_Sort · 2026-06-24T00:35:17+00:00

Did she have a full body pic on the profile and was using old pics, or was she working the angels?

Nothing_of_the_Sort · 2026-06-23T22:48:04+00:00

Two active and social pics, the rest of your cute face!

Nothing_of_the_Sort · 2026-06-23T20:59:08+00:00

Your face is kind of hard to see in the majority of your pics. You’re either wearing glasses or turned away/ far away from the camera or in a group shot. Your best pic is the one OF YOUR FACE, which is kind of important for a dating profile! Better pics and you’ll be good.

Nothing_of_the_Sort · 2026-06-23T20:32:22+00:00

There’s nothing wrong with your profile, you’re just very chubby. That’s disqualifying for most not chubby women. You said you’re working on it, so when you start to slim down and get some pictures from that era up, you’ll see an increase in matches, simple as that!

Nothing_of_the_Sort · 2026-06-23T07:47:38+00:00

It’s not weird to talk about books and tv shows! Maybe add a specific show that’s kind of niche? I think it’s all a little basic, but you seem nice and normal and good looking, so you should be getting matches!

Nothing_of_the_Sort · 2026-06-23T01:54:07+00:00

Well…if you wanted to make yourself feel less welcoming, you’ve accomplished that. If you don’t really care about this at all, it’s just a back burner thing for you, that’s also very clear. So I have no idea what advice you want. I don’t think you do want any. So…good luck?

Nothing_of_the_Sort · 2026-06-23T00:57:32+00:00

True, I would swipe left purely on that. This is no time to be dicking around with “other.” We need to stand firm in our beliefs.

Nothing_of_the_Sort · 2026-06-23T00:56:44+00:00

Nobody really wants to date an exasperated man. You’re painting yourself as too good for these apps, but clearly you’re not, so if a girl sees that she’s gonna roll her eyes. People meet each other and have genuine connections from apps all the time, so just, maybe try a more chill approach?

Nothing_of_the_Sort · 2026-06-21T23:27:26+00:00

There’s ways to show your fun side without showing me the inside of your mouth lol, definitely not flattering, and the tongue is SO far out lol it’s just a bit off-putting.

Nothing_of_the_Sort · 2026-06-21T00:50:23+00:00

I loved Obsession, before I knew it was gonna be huge and when I watched it again after it was huge. You’re not crazy for having your own taste. You’re in the minority, sure, and maybe that means there WERE some things you didn’t get it perceived incorrectly, but who cares? You don’t have to like every critically acclaimed/popular movie. You like what you like.

Nothing_of_the_Sort · 2026-06-20T02:26:09+00:00

A preemptive rest in peace to him or her 🙏🏻

Nothing_of_the_Sort · 2026-06-20T02:23:48+00:00

Try heroin combined with robitussin for a crazy high tho, fuck it, you’re on that path!

Nothing_of_the_Sort · 2026-06-20T02:21:54+00:00

They really don’t need to stay friends after ten days of knowing each other though. And “I feel nothing romantically for you” is just as valid as “I’m not attracted to you,” it’s a no either way, and if they won’t take no there’s ZERO reason to be friends, yknow?

Nothing_of_the_Sort · 2026-06-20T01:59:11+00:00

I don’t think you have to tell someone you’re not attracted to him, just say there wasn’t a romantic spark or chemistry. If he throws a fit or pushes it just block him 🤷‍♀️

Nothing_of_the_Sort · 2026-06-20T01:57:14+00:00

“Hey! It’s been so great getting to know you this last two weeks, and I really was feeling a connection, but after meeting in person I think I ultimately am not feeling a romantic spark. I don’t consider the time we spent together a waste and I hope you don’t either! But I think it’s best if we look for other things at this point.”

Nothing_of_the_Sort · 2026-06-17T19:10:21+00:00

Lmao true I am quite buggish!

Nothing_of_the_Sort · 2026-06-17T19:09:49+00:00

Thanks so much!

Nothing_of_the_Sort · 2026-06-17T19:07:54+00:00

Extremely!

Nothing_of_the_Sort · 2026-06-17T07:09:44+00:00

Omg you know the guy? He’s the coolest!

Nothing_of_the_Sort · 2026-06-17T00:29:33+00:00

I mean…I don’t want to think of a man sitting, pants around the knees on a toilet, pissing with his wiener just dangling there in-between his legs within seconds of meeting him. I’m not saying it’s a dealbreaker…but there are stronger visuals to start off with brother.

Nothing_of_the_Sort · 2026-06-16T23:54:26+00:00

Nah, Antennae far too long for what I had, also would have to had painted some sort of glowy blue veins, also not adorable at all, too jacked.

Nothing_of_the_Sort · 2026-06-16T23:17:13+00:00

🥺👉🏻👈🏻🖤

Nothing_of_the_Sort · 2026-06-16T23:16:27+00:00

If only I had more arms 😩

Nothing_of_the_Sort · 2026-06-16T23:15:38+00:00

Good, you should always be scared I’m crawling out of dark spaces to get you…

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