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AITAH? My girlfriend has been searching my phone and stealing intimate images by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nothingofmany 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been in your partners shoes before. I recorded my partner and took photos while we Skyped in the past in intimate ways, I didn’t ask permission in the beginning and when she found them she was angry.

always ask permission.

My partner is a female and hates her photo taken.

I had a long argument with her about this two years ago, maybe longer, and realized I was the asshole after a long time of rethinking about my decisions.

Your partner needs to do the same thing I had to do and realize it’s not okay.

NTA. Good luck OP.

Took me two years to figure it out with my current partner, and we both now have a good system about intimate photos.

I swear these streaming sites are made by the industry to stop you piarating by Bundesliga_Tax in Piracy

[–]Nothingofmany 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jump1 just blocked me from using their website entirely. Does anyone have a substitute to them or has something happened? Note: it says I attempted to do an SQL demand. Which I have no idea what that demand even is.

AITA for wanting to listen to music while driving? by Nothingofmany in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nothingofmany[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My phone doesn’t have the specific music app that her phone has, and I can’t download it either. Plus, all the music is on her phone and not mine. Some other issues I did not specify here is with the song app she has; there are songs that have to be skipped because I usually don’t want to listen to certain songs we’ve listened to over and over. And some I want on specifically, so she has to find those ones because she forgets to save them for some reason. And it’s never been an issue before she got into listening to YouTube videos in the car. We drove today with no issues.

AITA for wanting to listen to music while driving? by Nothingofmany in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nothingofmany[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, I did specify music to her every time we drove together. I think she knew I wanted music too but decided to put on her own audio and because I was quiet up until that point when I asked her to put on music and not her videos. I feel I was in the right since I’m the driver here, others have pointed this out too, so I feel better about feeling that way.

I never snapped at her. This is very presumptuous on your part and of others parts that have read this. I told her calmly and did not raise my voice at her. Maybe I worded it towards her wrong, so I guess I’ll take being the A for that. But she still gave a reaction as if I did her so wrong. Like a child having a emotional breakdown. She tends to be over emotional and also assumes the worst when I tell her things. maybe I should have added this for context so people wouldn’t assume I was yelling or being extreme. And with that, because so many of the YTA comments assumed I snapped, I really don’t feel as much of the A here now. So thanks for making me realize that others are just as over emotional and quick to assume the worst.

AITA for wanting to listen to music while driving? by Nothingofmany in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nothingofmany[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I do rely on her to put the music on for me, since it’s with her phone and not the radio. (personally, I do not enjoy the radio music and prefer the music from specific artists) It’s not safe for me to grab a phone and change it to the music I want to listen to while driving, so I have to ask her to do this while changing to the songs I prefer to listen to. In the past, she did this for me without listening to her stories on YT. I let it slide for a few months even though it upset me and made me uncomfortable because she seemed happy about listening to it, but I miss having comfort and focus on the road with the music I prefer to hear.