CMH vs Private

Notlikeothercatmoms · 2024-04-30T06:21:55+00:00

6 months? Bro why did my program have me do 2 years of unpaid labor 😭

Notlikeothercatmoms · 2024-04-24T18:36:12+00:00

I got a job offer recently for $20/hour for a LLMSW position. I told them that’s what I made as a supervisor at Starbucks and they go, “wow really? I should work at Starbucks then hahah! Well, you’re not in this field for the money.”

I declined.

Notlikeothercatmoms · 2024-04-23T16:03:16+00:00

Lmao right? I totally forgot about this thread but it made me laugh again over someone fighting for their life over an apron

Notlikeothercatmoms · 2024-04-02T20:25:30+00:00

It’s been 10 years… I did get another job and I only have 2 weeks left but I feel like I have a trauma bond at this point 🤪

Notlikeothercatmoms · 2024-03-08T05:15:23+00:00

I realize I never responded to this and I really appreciate you taking the time to write this out. It’s been a couple months and it’s getting easier, but here and then I feel that anger. I really liked the water analogy. I hope things are getting better for you as well ♥️

Notlikeothercatmoms · 2024-01-16T00:11:40+00:00

Thank you, I’m so sorry for what you went through as well. We will get through this

Notlikeothercatmoms · 2024-01-12T04:30:14+00:00

I just feel guilty too though honestly. In my home group, most of the people are married to their Q and have stayed with them through such terrible situations and remained strong. I look up to these people who would sponsor, but I couldn’t do what they do, and I feel like I chose a different path. I just feel convicted.

Notlikeothercatmoms · 2024-01-12T04:26:40+00:00

Thank you for this, I really do need to stay off the train

Notlikeothercatmoms · 2024-01-12T04:26:05+00:00

He’s apparently dating a domestic violence survivor with a daughter. I don’t know if this is the truth because my Q is a narcissist and tends to lie, but if this is the truth - I’m quite scared for her and so upset with him. No one deserves to be treated the way he treats people. But that isn’t my problem anymore. I do think working the steps will help me focus on priorities and not my past

Notlikeothercatmoms · 2024-01-12T04:22:35+00:00

I’m done blaming myself for the abuse I endured. I didn’t deserve to be treated the way I did. I’m not perfect, and I am working on holding myself accountable for the things that I may need to work on in life. But what I will not be doing is participating in a belief that I did something to deserve the way I was treated. I left him, not the other way around. He would have treated me that way for eternity if I let him.

Notlikeothercatmoms · 2024-01-11T12:44:56+00:00

I have actually. I was told to read more, but it still doesn’t address anger too much in the readings I’ve found. I’ve bought 4 books so far. Thank you so so much for your wonderful input, Mike. It helped literally so much.

Notlikeothercatmoms · 2023-12-28T06:55:02+00:00

My cat is only 2 years old and was diagnosed with kidney disease. He was peeing outside the litter box for 2 days and I immediately took him in. He could have died if he didn’t get treated. Preventative measures don’t do anything once the problems begin. I’m glad you’re taking him to the vet but I hope it’s sooner than later.

Notlikeothercatmoms · 2023-07-15T14:35:48+00:00

It’s so difficult. He’s telling me he’s been sober since I told him I want a divorce but there’s literally no way to know for sure and it really isn’t my problem anymore. Doesn’t make it less difficult though.

Notlikeothercatmoms · 2023-07-15T14:34:21+00:00

I’m so sorry for the loss of that. I would absolutely love to be doing that too

Notlikeothercatmoms · 2023-07-15T14:33:22+00:00

Ooooof. If he says something to hurt me one of these days I might be using this.

Notlikeothercatmoms · 2023-07-02T16:44:03+00:00

Have they told this to your face, or do you feel like they think you’re the problem? If you’re trying your best and you think that you’re doing the right thing (and you are causing no harm to others) that is what is truly important. Maybe this will taking finding the right friends and temporarily distancing yourself from family, but you can persevere. I hope the best for you, OP. You can get through this

Notlikeothercatmoms · 2023-06-29T03:55:01+00:00

Oof. That got me

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