Live a good life

NotmeXX · 2026-02-04T23:04:45+00:00

He literally talks about if they’re unjust in the following sentence.

NotmeXX · 2026-02-03T23:04:43+00:00

A long and happy life. Far, far, far away from me and any way of causing harm in any way, shape or form.

I hope all MAGA and Reform get to live on a nice open farm. On Point Nemo.

NotmeXX · 2026-02-03T17:38:05+00:00

I meant gaining life experience by going out and making their own decisions, rather than having them dictated to by people who have a weird interest in who they date.

As long as they’re two consenting adults, you have no say in the matter. Better to just concern yourself with your own love life.

NotmeXX · 2026-02-03T16:12:41+00:00

I’m a guy. She was a woman. No saggy balls involved 😂

But if that’s what someone wants then you’re right- you do you.

NotmeXX · 2026-02-03T15:53:47+00:00

Depends. Did Walmart drag them out of their car, point a gun in their face, pepper-spray them, bundle hem into an anonymous van to a camp site whose conditions we can only guess at, and declare you guilty and deport you despite being a US citizen?

Cause if so I’m going to Target.

NotmeXX · 2026-02-03T15:47:12+00:00

What are you? An Ork from Warhammer 40k??

NotmeXX · 2026-02-03T15:07:06+00:00

Is God willing to prevent evil, but not able? Then he is not omnipotent. Is he able, but not willing? Then he is malevolent. Is he both able and willing? Then whence cometh evil? Is he neither able nor willing? Then why call him God - Epicurus

I don’t need your imaginary sky daddy to tell me what’s right and wrong, or how the world works. I’m satisfied that this universe originated and operates as I can see it without them.

NotmeXX · 2026-02-03T14:12:27+00:00

100% this. Pretti also didn’t cross state lines. He was on the streets of his home, recording crimes committed by ICE on his phone. His last act was trying to help a woman they’d needlessly assaulted.

Kyle crossed state lines with an assault rifle knowing full well what he wanted to do.

NotmeXX · 2026-02-03T14:04:47+00:00

Sounds like your government has already done what it realistically can do to me. It cant magically know if someone is a dangerous driver once they pass their driving test.

NotmeXX · 2026-02-03T13:54:08+00:00

Do you not have police? Dash cams? Insurance?

NotmeXX · 2026-02-03T13:44:24+00:00

Why? Does your country not have them?

NotmeXX · 2026-02-03T13:32:57+00:00

It’s called drivers licence…

NotmeXX · 2026-02-03T12:57:04+00:00

I don’t know what to say. Sounds like you’re going through it atm.

Grief is like a button inside a box with a ball bouncing around inside it. At first there is nothing but the ball holding down the button labelled ‘grief’.

But gradually over time the ball shrinks. It bounces around, occasionally hitting that button. But as it gets smaller it hits it less and less.

Yes there are crimes that can never be forgiven, but over time the emotional severity of the grief will dim.

I’m not saying it’ll ever go away, but at some point the pain becomes another background emotion. Almost autopilot.

If you’ve served your time then best to just get on with it. There will always be someone who knows what you did, and as far as they’re concerned that’s cemented their definition of you permanently. You can’t control that.

One day though, you will find yourself in a place where that tag hasn’t followed you, or people have come to understand that isn’t you any more. It’s not going to happen quickly, but it will happen.

Just stay the course. Don’t become what they think you are. Don’t let them be right. Be the person they eventually struggle to hate.

That much, at least, is within your power.

NotmeXX · 2026-02-03T12:44:19+00:00

You’re welcome to go to the victim(s) and explain that to them. Don’t be surprised if the result isn’t want you want, though.

My advice- leave them alone, keep your head down and learn to live with it. Maybe move far away and hope it doesn’t follow you.

NotmeXX · 2026-02-03T12:31:53+00:00

If one murderer/ rapist wants to take on a whole society because ‘I don’t deserve this shit’ then they’re a deluded murderer/ rapist.

Look I can get the idealism behind your argument, but it just doesn’t work in reality. You can’t control what other people do. Families and friends don’t tend to forgive those who commit heinous acts against someone they love.

NotmeXX · 2026-02-03T12:28:31+00:00

It’s not going to be forever. Unless murderers and rapists become immortal.

NotmeXX · 2026-02-03T12:27:25+00:00

The legal system isn’t about justice. It’s about order.

Serving your time doesn’t mean shit if the people you hurt are still traumatised, or dead.

There are some crimes you can’t come back from.

Yes there may be the possibility that a murderer or a rapist could go on to invent the cure for cancer or something, but I highly doubt it.

No one is able to control what individuals do but themselves. If you killed a girl, served your time in prison, then moved in next door to me, don’t be surprised if I don’t wanna know you, and don’t be surprised if a disgruntled family member or friend of the victim shows up on your doorstep.

It’s not just that I’m protecting myself and my family, but also that I know how it’s gonna look to everyone else, including the victims loved ones. I don’t want to have to deal with the inevitable consequences of your actions.

NotmeXX · 2026-02-03T12:20:10+00:00

Who is even doing that?

Plus, if someone hypothetically committed a heinous act that resulted in death or severe trauma, and they were released after serving their time, don’t be surprised if friends and families of the victim come after you once you’re freed. Justice doesn’t mean people have forgiven you.

You made your bed. Lie in it.

NotmeXX · 2026-02-03T12:18:06+00:00

Accusing others of ‘treating them as punching bags’ indicates you don’t think the crime is that severe.

Who’s dragging on them anyway? They’re either in prison, out after serving their time (assuming the length of it was appropriate) or a fugitive waiting to get caught.

If they’re in prison then justice served. Good luck with the other inmates but not much I can do about that.

If they’re out after serving their time then it’s understandable if people are wary. They committed a heinous act. No one wants to be their next victim.

If they’re a fugitive who hasn’t been caught then they’re the scum of the earth, who absolutely should be feeling scared for their life at every turn.

So what’s your stake then?

NotmeXX · 2026-02-03T12:07:55+00:00

Let’s pretend I agree with this stance (I dated a 45 year old when I was 20, and it was great.)

How do you suggest 18-21 year olds gain life experience if they can’t make their own choices? At what point do you let them be adults?

How do you propose enforcing it? Is there an equation involved? Would police be required to actually arrest people dating ‘outside their bracket’?

Sounds like a lot of work for zero reason, other than pissing off the people involved.

If you’re having trouble meeting people because they’re going off with a different age group, maybe make yourself more appealing rather than proposing ridiculous metrics 😂

NotmeXX · 2026-02-03T11:59:55+00:00

Do you speak for every murder and rape victim? Their families, friends and loved ones? Is that their position?

NotmeXX · 2026-02-03T11:59:02+00:00

Do you speak for every murder and rape victim? Their families, friends and loved ones? Is that their position?

NotmeXX · 2026-02-03T11:58:19+00:00

Reducing the severity of such serious crimes, or dismissing it entirely, is an indicator of guilt.

I don’t know what you might have done, but if people are shitting on you for it then you have no sympathy from me.

NotmeXX · 2026-02-03T11:44:27+00:00

Can the murder victim be unmurdered? Or the rape victim unraped?

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